Xa incoko ingena ebantwini esikufutshane nathi, naziphi na izityholo kunye nokungoneliseki kwidilesi yabo esiyibona ngokungathi uyakhubeka ngokobuqu. Rhoqo abazali abamazi amanyathelo kwaye abazi ukuba zinqande iindlela zabo xa zixoxa ngento enovelwano nomntwana. Ngenxa yoko, iPado ivalwa ngokwayo, uyakhutyekiswa, ukuba ikho imfuneko, inomdla kubahlobo okanye kwizalamane ezinyanisekileyo. Ukuba ufuna ukugcina ubudlelwane bosapho, kufuneka ufunde imigaqo yethoni elungileyo.
Yiza kwiimvakalelo zam
Xa sicaphuka ziingxaki emsebenzini okanye kubomi bobuqu, ukophula umntu osondeleyo kulula kakhulu- kuxabisa kuphela ukunika isizathu. Ngoku khawufane ucinge ukuba umntwana okwishumi elivisayo uziva amakhonkco obundlongondlongo ngokoqobo qho kwisiqingatha seyure. Ayothusi into yokuba nayiphi na incoko isecaleni kwembono elungileyo nengalunganga. Ngaphambi kokuqala incoko, kufuneka uzole kwaye eze kwimeko entle. Qala incoko evela kwi-sarcasm, ingcikivo kunye neemfuno - indlela ethe ngqo yokuqhushumba kweemvakalelo kunye nokuthuka.
Yiba ngumhlobo, emva koko uChado uya kuba nakho ukuthetha nawe kwizihloko eziFrank
Nceda usixelele ngesiqu sakho
Incoko yobuqu ihlala ibhetele ukuqala ngenkcazo yesikhundla sakho. Nikezela umntwana kwiimfihlo zothando lwakho lokuqala-ngokuqinisekileyo awuzange uthethe ngayo ngaphambili. Khumbula indlela abukeka ngayo umntu, lukhona uvelwano, kwaye oko kubangelwa yincwadi. Asinguye wonke umntu onethamsanqa lokudibana nothando lobomi kwilinge lokuqala, ukuze amava akho anokunika okuninzi kwisizukulwana esitsha.
Iziqhulo zilungile, kodwa azisoloko
Xa uxelela amabali ahlekisayo ukusuka kwixesha elidlulileyo enxulumene namaqabane akho akhoyo, okanye eze nezenzo zobudenge zezintombini ezisisidenge njengomzekelo, kuyavakala ukunyanga ngokuhlekisa. Isihloko kuphela esiza kuthetha ngokuqatha-umbuzo wokuthintela ukukhulelwa. Ungawuvala ngokungapheliyo amehlo akho kwaye uthi umntwana wakho "akabikho moya", kukuba nje ukuziqhelanisa nokuziqhelanisa nokubonisa okwahlukileyo. Ingqubana njani yokusebenzisa iikhondom ngokuchanekileyo kwaye kutheni ungathathi iziyobisi ezihonjisiweyo. Kwiminyaka eyi-15-16, uninzi lwabantwana abafunda nabo esikolweni baqala ukomelela kwesondo, ekufuneka ubakhokelele kumava afanelekileyo, kwaye hayi iinyembezi zokukhulelwa okungafunekiyo. Ukukhula ngengqondo okwishumi elivisayo uyakubona lo lwazi kwaye akuva.
Yiba sisikhokelo ekubaleni
Sukugweba uxolo
Kuya kufuneka uqonde ukuba ukuvavanya amagama kunye nezenzo zomnye umntu aziqhelekanga njengoko kubonakala. Xa i-Choo ikuxelela ukuba sele exoxwa nesiqingatha sesibini ngomhla, zeziphi izicwangciso zobomi bexesha elizayo, awunyanzelekanga ukuba uwaphule amaphupha enyani ye-harsh. Sukukhathazeka-akunantsingiselo. Umntwana wakho akanguwe, ke awunalwazi lokuba inyani yakhe iya kuba njalo. Makhe angene emcakhe, afunde iimpazamo zakhe kwaye ajike iinoveli ngabantu abohlukileyo. Yiba ngumhlobo, hayi utitshala, jikeleza ukukhathalela ubunata kunye ne-coress. Emva koko uya kuyiqonda loo nto ukuba intliziyo eyaphukileyo inokufika kuwe kwaye ufumane inkxaso yokwenene, kwaye ungayiva isimilo.