Kudala yaziwa ukuba amadoda nabafazi zizidalwa ezivela kwiiplanethi ezahlukeneyo. Bacinga ngokwahlukileyo kwaye baqonde izinto ezifanayo. Abafazi baneemvakalelo ngakumbi kwaye benovelwano. Ngamaqhinga. Izicwangciso-qhinga zamadoda. Kwaye ngaziphi omnye amadoda ahlukileyo kubafazi?
Kwisiseko sophando lwe-perennial, oosochwephesha bezengqondo bafikelwa kwisigqibo sokuba, abangafaniyo nabameli besini esihle, indoda ayibonakali nje ubuntununtunu obuncinci ngokunxulumene nabanye abantu, kodwa kwakhona kubi ngakumbi kunokuqonda. Ayengazemba ngokwabo, uhlalutyo lweemvakalelo neengcinga zabo. Abanamdla kwizimvo zamanye amadoda, ababathandi ngezinto abazivayo, kwangaxeshanye bathanda ukuxoxa ngeziganeko zehlabathi zabantu kwi-United States, ukuba baveze i Lungisa isizathu sokuba uBiden ahambe ejikeleza ixilongo kunye nezinye izihloko ezibaluleke kakhulu. Ke ngoko, ukuba ufuna ukufumana ulwimi oluqhelekileyo nendoda yakho, akufuneki ulinde ukuzamahlahlana, kungcono ukudlulisela intsingiselo yesikhundla sakho njengethoni ezolileyo kuyo ukuze iviwe. Khumbula ukuba nawuphi na ummeli wesiqingatha esiqinileyo soluntu ukulungele ukumamela izwi lengqondo kunye neengxoxo ezinentsingiselo.
2. Uninzi lwamadoda abafazi babonakala bengalindelekanga, ngenxa yoko basoyika abameli bomgangatho omnandi - iimvakalelo zabo kunye nokutshintsha kweemvakalelo, kuba bona banemvakalelo kakhulu. Kwangelo xesha, amadoda abaluleke kakhulu ukuba imeko yabo yeemvakalelo igudileyo kwaye ithobekile - oko kukuthi, ngesiqhelo. Kuba ayiqhelekanga ekuzihlaziyeni nasekuzithembileni, kwaye uxinzelelo ebomini luhlala lusenzeka, bafumana indlela yokuphuma kotywala okanye imidlalo yekhompyuter. Zombini zinceda ukuba babuyele kwisimo sengqondo esizinzileyo sengqondo. Ke ngoko, ukuba ufuna ukuba noxolo noxolo endlwini yakho, zama ukunamathisela kule nzame iphezulu, kuba ukugcinwa kwe-microclued ehle kakhulu kumsebenzi wosapho, ongumfazi kuphela egxalabeni.
3. Abantu bayakuphepha uxanduva lwabanye. Banoxanduva lwaneleyo. Oku kuhlala kubangelwa kukungavumi kwabo ukwenza ubudlelwane obukhulu, abantwana, ukubonelela ngesandla kunye nentliziyo yabo enyuliweyo, ukuba umntu ungoyiki nabuphi na ubunzima, kwaye ukulungele ukulandela imigaqo yakhe Ngenxa yomfazi wakhe amthandayo - engaze alibale ngayo.
4. Kuyo nayiphi na izenzo zamadoda, ii-motifs ezithile zilandelwa. Abaze bafike kanye loo nto, "kwiimvakalelo" okanye kwezinye izizathu zokukhupha. Ukuze senze njalo, kwaye kungenjalo ngenye indoda ifuna injongo. Ukuba umfazi uqonda iinjongo eziqhuba umntu wakhe, oko kuthetha ukuba kulula kakhulu kuye ukumisela unxibelelwano kunye nokuqonda. Ke ngoko, ngaphambi kokuba ugwebe, ukhule kwaye akavumelani nesiqingatha sakho, mamela, mhlawumbi uya kuba nakho ukuqaphela ingqolowa enkulu.
5. Kuyakholelwa ukuba amadoda angabangabi ngaphezu kwabafazi, nangona, enyanisweni, ngakumbi ngakumbi kuxhomekeka kwindawo yokugcina izinto kunye nohlobo lobuntu. Kukho amadoda angenamntu, kwaye kukho i-match2ts. Nangona kunjalo, kunokuthethwa ngokuzithemba ukuba amaqela emihleni phakathi kwabameli besiqingatha esiqinileyo sobuntu malunga naphakathi kwabantu basetyhini. Ke ngoko, ngexesha lokusebenza, iimfihlo zethu akufuneki zabelwane ngazo kunye nakwabo okanye abanye, ukuba kuwe, kunjalo, akukho mnqweno wokuba ngumzobo ophambili weofisi.