Kunyaka ophelileyo, kwakunzima kuye wonke umntu owajamelene nemfuno yokufumana ulwazi kwi-Intanethi, kodwa uninzi lwawela emagxeni lwabazali abafunda nabo esikolweni, olwalusingcungcholo olunamagqabi kakhulu. Ukuphindaphinda kwento eyenzekayo yayiyimfuneko enkulu, ngakumbi kwiimeko apho umntwana ebengekhoyo kwisiqingatha se-Intanethi isifundo se-Intanethi, kwaye umzali wasilela ukukhangela. Xa kufikwa ekwenzeni umsebenzi wasekhaya, wonke umntu ufuna ukugqiba ngokukhawuleza, kodwa kwangaxeshanye enze yonke imibuzo engenambulelo. Ke hayi indlela yokuvula le nkqubo ibe sisihogo sokwenene, kwenzeka njani? Siya kuxelela.
Susa yonke into kakhulu
Kubalulekile ukukhumbula ukuba umntwana kunzima kakhulu ukugxila kuhlobo oluthile lwenyani, ngakumbi ukuba sithetha malunga neeklasi ezintathu zokuqala. Umntwana akufuneki aphazanyiswe yifowuni evuthayo okanye kwitoyitha oyithandayo. Kwiimeko xa umntwana efuna ukuphindaphinda kaninzi kunesiqhelo, kubalulekile ukuqinisekisa ukuba iimeko eziya kunceda ukuqokelela iingcinga ngaphandle kwemfuneko yokwenza isikolo. Indawo yasimahla yelaptop, iincwadi eziyimfuneko kunye neencwadana-zonke ezinye izinto, kwaye zenze ezinye izinto eziphazamisayo ngexesha lokugqiba umsebenzi wakho wasekhaya, okanye ufihle, fihla.
Hayi "jean" emntwaneni
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Chonga ukuba yeyiphi into enzima
Ngokuqinisekileyo uqaphele ukuba kuphela kwezinto ezimbalwa (okanye enye) ibangela ukulibaziseka okukhulu ngexesha, kwaye umsebenzi awunakuba nzima kakhulu kuluvo lwakho, kwaye nangona kunjalo umntwana ophethe inzaliseko yalo. Fumana "iingongoma ezibuthathaka" zomntwana wakho kwaye nje ukuba ndenze imisebenzi eyimfuneko ngosuku olulandelayo, qalisa ukusebenza kweyona nto inzima - ngelixa umntwana engazange anyamezele, uyakuthatha kunzima ukusombulula Umsebenzi onzima, musa ukuyilibazisa kamva.
Sukulahla iimvakalelo zomntwana
Sukucinga ukuba i-jams ngexesha elinzima lomsebenzi wasekhaya kuphela kuwe - umntwana unengxaki yokuba endaweni yemicimbi ayithandayo ukuba anganayo. Eyona nto imbi kakhulu onokuyenza kukuqala ukukhwaza okanye ukugxeka, umntwana uya kuthi "axhonywe", oya kuthi ezaliseka kwinzaliseko yomsebenzi wasekhaya. Asifuni le nto? Ke ngoko, kuya kufuneka umanyane kwiqela nakwiqelana nomntwana ukuba uthathe isisombululo sengxaki endaweni yokutyelela umfundi wakho.
Fumana abancedisi ukuba wena ungamelananga
Kwenzeka ukuba noncedo lwakho alunikeli ukusebenza kwinqanaba eliphezulu. Yintoni, ishiye yonke into njengoko injalo? Akunjalongo noko. Kwimeko apho umsebenzi wesikolo uqinile kude kube sekupheleni ebusuku, kwaye awunakunceda umntwana wakho okanye umntu osapho, kuya kufuneka ucombulule ingxaki yomfundisi-ntsapho, ususe izithuba kulwazi kwaye iodolo sele ikhona. Sukucinga ukuba umfundisi-ntsapho wayefuna kuphela isidanga- kungekudala unyamekela umntwana wakho, ezincinci iingxaki aza kuzo kwixesha elizayo ekufundeni.