Uninzi lwabazali luzama ukuqonda italente yabantwana ukusuka kubudala. Kodwa indlela yokwenza ukuba ilungile kwaye iqale ngokuphuhlisa kwicala elifanelekileyo?
Eyona nto ibalulekileyo kukubukela umntwana. Ubukhulu becala, abantwana babonisa umdla wabo ngokuzithanda, ngokufuthi kungekuphela kuphela kwezo ndawo zinikwe ngokulula.
Enye yeendlela ezithembekileyo zokuchonga utyekelo lomntwana luvavanyo olulula, oluya kuba luvavanyo olusebenzayo kumntwana ovela kwiinyanga ezi-6 ukuya enyakeni.
Ke, kumgama omnye ovela emntwaneni, izifundo ezi-4 kufuneka zibekwe: incwadi, impahla yengqekembe, izixhobo zokudlala kunye nesando. Kuxhomekeka ekubeni umntwana uza kukhupha njani, ungakhetha ukumisela umkhwa womntwana.
Ukukhetha incwadi kuthetha ngohlobo lomntu njengobukrelekrele. Kwaba bantwana bakhulisa izazinzulu ezimangalisayo, ogqirha, oochwephesha bezengqondo nootitshala. Umntwana onjalo ufuna ukufikelela kulwazi olutsha; Kananjalo kubantwana abanjalo kubalulekile ukuba babeziphulaphule izimvo zabo kwaye bathathwe ngokuqonda.
Incwadi iya kukhetha ubuchule
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Ukuba umntwana wakho udlala ngenzondelelo "Ivenkile", uqhubeke ngokutshintshiselana nomntu kubahlobo onezinto ezahlukeneyo kwaye ukongeza kwi-complount-ingathathelwa ingqalelo uhlobo lorhwebo. Kwishishini elihle kunye neshishini. Olo nke kufuneka ukuba ufunde ngokuchanekileyo ukujongana nemali, abazali bafanele babe ngumntwana kunye nabancedisi bezemali.
Ukuba umntwana wakhetha izixhobo, unokuthi ucinga ukuba umkhosi, intloko okanye ezopolitiko awumlungele ngokugqibeleleyo. Olu hlobo lubizwa ngokuba ngumphathi, kwaye uhlobo lomntwana lugqibelele kulo nawo nawuphi na umdlalo onokuluqeqesha.
Ukukhetha i-hammmman thetha ngohlobo lobugcisa
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Ukukhetha i-hammmman thetha ngohlobo lobugcisa. Aba bantwana bahlala bebandakanyeka emsebenzini, kwaye oku kunokuba yingeniso yabo iphambili. Amagcisa, ii-scaltors, abaqulunqi kunye noYilo lwezolika zikulo. Ke abantwana bafuna yonke into ngobuchule babo. Kwangelo xesha, kubalulekile ukuba unganyanzeli umntwana ukuba aqonde ubuntsomi yesayensi.
Ukuthembeka, olu vavanyo kufuneka luphindwe kwinyanga-yeveki. Ukwenza njengesiphumo, kuya kufuneka uzame ukwalathisa umntwana kwindawo elungileyo, ngelixa ungayithinteli enye. Nangona kunjalo, olu vavanyo alunikanga abazali umsebenzi ngqo apho umntwana aya kuphumelela khona, kodwa ibeka umkhombandlela we vector.