"Hayi indlela, Njani? .." - Ukuqhula kwawo onke amacala. Ungayenza njani ukufowunela rhoqo? Ungayifumana njani ukunika izipho? Ungaziphatha njani ukumema ngemihla? Ufumana njani isandla kunye nentliziyo?
Kukho "amagwegwe" akhethekileyo apho ababhinqileyo babamba "ingqalelo yamadoda, kwaye namhlanje siza kuthetha ngazo.
1 "Hook": isitayile
Kufuneka unikele ingqalelo kumfanekiso wakho. Unxiba ntoni, ujongeka njani? Kuya kufuneka uzibeke umfazi onokuba liqabane elifanelekileyo lendoda. Izihloko ezinesisu esingenanto kwaye iziketi eziqinileyo zemini ziya kutsala umdla wamadoda, kodwa ngoba? Kwangelo xesha linye kuya kuqwalaselwa njenge-perstress okanye i-adventure ye-flate. Ubonisa ntoni abanye? Kufanele ukuba ibe yindima yomfazi obhinqileyo - ehle, ehle kakhulu, ubufazi.
Iingcebiso: Iskimu sombala sempahla yakho kufuneka ibukeke-akukhange ukhali, kodwa kananjalo akunakukwenza umkhame kwaye ungabonakali. Khetha imibala eleleyo, kodwa imibala egcwele, iitoni eziqaqambileyo ngaphandle kokugqobhoza okanye ukungathathi hlangothi, zibangqinela ngezinto eziqaqambileyo, izixhobo. Imifanekiso yakho kufuneka ikhunjulwe, kwaye kufuneka igxininiswe ngokwenza amagqabantshintshi bakhe - inokuba yindawo entle eboshwe kakuhle, i-pendant kwi-geline kunye ne-hairstyle ekhethekileyo. Oku kuyakuvumela umntu ukuba aqaphele kwaye akukhumbule. Kwaye ngokubanzi, kuya kufuneka uhlale ucocekile kwaye ucocekile, ukuba ngumfazi ophumeleleyo.
I-Julia Lansk, ingcali ekukhetheni iqabane elifanelekileyo kubudlelwane kunye nomtshato
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2 "Hook": ilizwe langaphakathi
Ngaba wanelisekile bubomi bakho? Ngaba ungambulela ngawo nawuphi na amava onayo? Ngaba uhlala ungoyena mntu udandathekileyo okanye uxinzelelo, ukubaleka, njenge squirrel kwivili? Mhlawumbi ulandelwa uxinzelelo, awuzithembi, kwaye sele ulibele xa ixesha lokugqibela lenze kakuhle. Ngaba loo meko ingamhloneli ngaphakathi kuwe, etsala abantu abaphumeleleyo? Ngaba wanelisekile bubomi bakho kunye nemeko yomphefumlo? Akukho mntu uya kuba nomdla kwibhinqa kwimozulu embi-uxinzelelo, ulusizi kwaye uphosile.
Iingcebiso: Inzala yendoda eya kumfazi ukhulisa intonga yakhe yangaphakathi, amandla akhe 'anika ". Amadoda afuna iimvakalelo eziqinisekileyo, uvuyo, azivumele! Yizenzele imvakalelo, amehlo akho makafune ishushu, uncumo oludlala emilebeni yakhe. Gcina imvakalelo yovuyo kunye nemvisiswano. Kuyimfuneko ukuphakamisa amandla akho ukuze ukwazi ukumiswa. Ukwenza oku, kuphosa imithombo yakho yangaphakathi nangaphandle. Thatha ixesha, zenze izinto ezimnandi, ukuphumla, impilo.
3 "Hook": ulwimi lomzimba
Zoba! Kwaye ubone ukuba uhlala njani ngoku? Kuyimfuneko ukulandela ubabalo lwayo kunye nokuma, ukwazi ukugcina kufanelekile ukuba kuhle ukujongana nabo. Uhamba njani, ngaba uyathanda ukudanisa? Ngaba uyazi ukuba ungayichitha njani ngengqondo ukuze idubula ifoto? Zisebenze, ngokumangalisayo ukuhlala phambi kwendoda ngomhla etafileni kwi-cafe? Oku kuyakuxela malunga nokuba ungumzimba wakho, uyayazi indlela yokulawula, hamba kakuhle, "Quka" nendoda enemicimbi yakho. Unokuba uqhwawe, kwaye ukuqina kungangeli mdla ebantwini.
Ulwimi lomzimba lubaluleke kakhulu
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Iingcebiso: Funda ukuba nolwimi lomzimba kwaye ulisebenzise kubudlelwane namadoda. Musa ukuba yimifanekiso engento! Bhalisa ngokubanzi, musa ukuthatha izibonelelo zemali. Yibani nobabalo kwaye iplastiki ukuze i-gait yakho ilula, intshukumo ivakala, kwaye izibongo zingu -olf. Sebenzisa eyam Itekhnoloji "5 Ukugoba":
1. Xa umi, phatha ubunzima bomzimba komnye umlenze omnye, ukhusela okwesibini kancinane kwaye ugobe edolweni.
2. Ukucula enye ithanga kancinci ngokwenza ugxininiso kuyo.
3. Umqolo ukhanjisiwe, isifuba - phambili, gcina isimo esihle.
4. Izandla azicinezeli emzimbeni, zijikeleze kancinci ukufezekisa ukugoba okunqabileyo kwimingxunya.
5. Intamo inyibilikisiwe kancinci.
Umzimba wakho omnandi akazukutyeshelwa ebantwini.
4 "Hook": Unxibelelwano
Ngaba uyazi ukuba uyigcina njani incoko kwinqanaba elifanelekileyo? Ngaba ungumntu onomdla? Uza kuphuma njani kumbuzo ongathandekiyo okanye ungazalisa ikhefu? Ngaba uyazi malunga netshekhi yamadoda kunye nokuvuselela kwaye ngaba uya kukwazi ukoyisa? Kwaye ngokubanzi-indlela oziva ngayo uyazi ukuba unxibelelana njani, ngaba uya kuba nomdla kwenye incoko okanye unxibelelane nawe - ukulangazelela? Kwaye okona kubaluleke kakhulu: Ngaba uyazi ukuba ungayicelanga umntu, kwaye zeziphi izihloko zokuwina kakhulu?
Iingcebiso: Akufanelanga ukuba uthethe ngayo nayiphi na into enokuthi intywilisene nomnxibelelanisi wakho. Izihloko ezinqatshelwe yimibuzo yonke imibuzo ngemisebenzi yakhe yobungcali, ubudlelwane obubekade nosapho lwalo lokwenene. Kwakhona, musa ukubuza malunga nezicwangciso zexesha elizayo, nokuba ufuna ukutshata into ebonwa iqabane lakho elizayo, ezi zizikhonkwane zokwenene ezineengcebiso ngokwazo. Sukuchukumisa indawo esondeleyo kunye nemiba eyahlukeneyo yefilosofi.
Yintoni esinokuyithetha ngendoda ngomhla? Konke ukuba baya kubangela unxulumano olumnandi, iinkumbulo ezintle. Umzekelo, i-hobby yabo yihashe elithandwayo layo nayiphi na indoda. Malunga nokuhamba, unokuxoxa ngeendawo apho ubuye khona bobabini, okanye ubuze iBhunga ukuba lityelele. Malunga nokupheka kunye neendaba, ubugcisa kunye nemidlalo. Ezi zizinto zokuphumelela ziphumelele.
Funda ukuthintela iimvakalelo
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I-5 "hook": ukunyamezelwa kwemvakalelo
"Yonke into ibhaliwe ebusweni" - mhlawumbi, oku kunokuthethwa malunga ne-95% yabasetyhini, kwaye mhlawumbi ngaphezulu. Ngapha koko, ukuba siyavuya, sisinika uncumo kunye nembonakalo yobuso bonwabisayo. Silusizi - iikona zomlomo zihlise, zibhinqe indlu, ihamba kancinci ... ndinomsindo - amehlo athatyathwa ngombane, kwaye izandla zabo zitsaleleka ukuphosa into!
Ubugcisa obuphezulu kukukwazi ukulawula iimvakalelo zakho, ukuba zingaqondakali, yiya kwimigangatho eyahlukeneyo yamathuba anemvakalelo esebenzisa izimbo zomzimba, ulwimi lomzimba, ulwimi lomzimba. Abafazi abanjalo batsala kwaye bavuyise amadoda, abafazi abanjalo bafuna ukufunda, ukufunda.
Iingcebiso: Ukubamba amadoda, funda kuqala ukulawula iimvakalelo zakho kwaye uzitshintshele kwisitishi esifanelekileyo. Ukuziqhelanisa Indlela yokuzibamba : Ngexesha loxinzelelo
1. Khwela ngokunzulu.
2. Fumana indawo onokuyibona kuyo i-hoizon, jonga umgama - kuba ithemba lolwalamano lwakho lubalulekile.
3. Khumbula isiganeko esimnandi ebomini. Luyilungise kwangaphambili, unokuyisebenzisa. Ke yenza abadlali xa ufuna, umzekelo, ukukhala ngokukhawuleza. Ngexesha loxinzelelo, khawufane ucinge ngeli xesha lifanelekileyo ukuthintela imeko engeyiyo.
6 "Hook": ubuntu besini
Isondo ayisiyo indlela yokumelwa komntu wakudala. Jonga ukuba ingakanani indlela oziphethe ngayo ithwala i-femine yesondo? Umzekelo, ukutya njani: kubaleka okanye ukhulisa isiqwenga ngasinye? Uziva njani ngomzimba wakho, uyamthanda, umkhathalele? Uthetha njani ukuba uyayazi indlela yokuthetha ngamadoda amveli, ephantsi kwaye emnandi? Ngaba amadoda atyhafileyo? Ngaba uphumle eluntwini? Kuya kufuneka uziphathe ngokuvakalayo, ufumana umfazi wokwenene.
Isindululo: Sebenzisa umthambo "ukuze uzuze umzimba". Qala ukunikela ingqalelo kuwe, nceda uzive iimpahla ezintle. Phuhlisa ubalo, umdaniso womculo obonakalayo. Vavanya ukugungqa kunye nokwabelana ngesondo kwiintshukumo zabo esipilini. Ukuthatha ishawa, hlula amanzi ngokungeziweyo kwiindawo ezahlukeneyo zomzimba, yiva, phumla ezi zihlunu. Uvutha egumbini lokuhlambela, ukuphazamisa iingcinga ezimnandi. Emva kwegumbi lokuhlambela, ukubetha umzimba wakho, ukungcungcutheka amanzi, emva koko uyisule ngetawuli kwaye, ukuthutha, faka i-cream.
Eluntu, ukunxiba, chitha izandla zakho ezinqeni ngezandla, ngokungathi uyakhwela isinxibo-kunomtsalane kakhulu kutsala umdla wamadoda.
Ukusasaza umdla kwisini esahlukileyo, ungasebenzisa ubuchule bam ngeflakisi, ukudala umahluko kuyo yonke indawo-kwiimvakalelo kunye nempahla yokuziphatha. Indoda iya kukhathaza umfazi osoloko efana. Ungashushu kancinci, kwaye emva - uzolile, ulinganiswe. Ipholile, emva koko ithande. Ngokwakho ngendima eyahlukeneyo. Umzekelo, nkqu gcina umntu ngesandla, kunokuba ngobunono, emva koko uyityheli.
Nayiphi na into oyithandayo kwaye inomdla kwimisebenzi-yinxalenye ebalulekileyo yokuziqonda
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7 "Hook": ukuziqonda
Le yinxalenye yobomi ebaluleke kakhulu. Ukuze ixabiseke kwaye ihlonelwa eluntwini, kubalulekile ukuba siphuhliswe, sifunwe njengengcali, yanelisekile ngumsebenzi wabo-yonke le nto inika ukuzithemba. Ngaba uyayazi indlela yakho yobomi bakho, iminqweno yakho kunye neenjongo? Ngaba unayo, kuba yintoni ikratshi ngesiqu sakho? Ngaba ikhona into oyithandayo ekunika amandla, amandla abantu basetyhini? Ukuba umfazi akakha uthombo - umbono wakhe wekamva lakhe-awuyi kuqwalaselwa njengeqabane lolwalamano lwexesha elide. Uya kuba nembono yexeshana elifutshane ngohlobo lolwalamano olusenyongweni okanye inoveli ye-flating kwiinyanga ezininzi.
Iingcebiso: Ngaba izinto zokuzonwabisa okanye umsebenzi ukuze ezi ndawo ziya kuzaliswa yinkuthazo yobomi. Zoba, ukukhwela, ukubukela, khwela ibhayisekile, yiya kwizifundo zokuqhuba. Fumana isifundo sakho endisithandayo oza kuzithembisa. Funda entsha, phuhlisa njengengcali. Khuphela kwaye uqalise ukufunda incwadi entsha enomdla. Bhalisela umdaniso, kwindawo yokuzivocavoca, jonga into eya kukwenza ngcono - musa ukuma endaweni. Kubalulekile ukubona injongo yophuhliso lwayo-ukufudukela kwinqanaba elitsha, eliphezulu, i-oscillation ngokunika amandla. Le yindlela oyiphumeza ngayo imeko eya kutsala indoda malunga nokuba uphupha ngawo.
Ukutshintsha ngokwakho, utshintsha ubomi bakho.
Okulandelayo uya kuba ngamadoda ahluke ngokupheleleyo, amanqanaba aphezulu. Kwaye baya kuyiphumeza iminqweno yakho ngaphambi kokuba ucinge nje ngabo. Zabalazela imodeli yomfazi womfazi, kwaye xa ufikelela, uya kuqala kwaye usoloko ubiza, kwaye umeme imihla, kwaye wenze yonke imizamo ukuze ukho. Kuba iya kwenza umntu okuluhlu olupheleleyo wena nomphefumlo uphela kwaye owabonayo ukuba oyena mfazi wayefuna ukuphulukana nawe.