Nakuphi na ubudlelwane bukwaphuhliswa, okanye ukuqhubekeka kwinqanaba leentlanganiso zexeshana kunye neqabane. Sigqibe kwelokuba sifumane indlela yokufumanisa ubunzulu beemvakalelo kwaye ngawaphi amanqaku oluthando, hayi umnqweno wokutsala ebhedini.
Xa bathanda, bafuna ukunceda
I-Egosm ihlala imvelaphi, ukuba wena okanye iqabane lakho lilungiselelwe ukwakha ubudlelwane obukhulu. Ungaphawula ukuba indoda yakho iyakukhumbula njani ukukunceda uhlambe izitya emva kwesidlo sangokuhlwa okanye ukulungele ukuhamba inja yakho ngentsasa elandelayo. Ngaba ayingophawu lokuncamathisela kunye nomnqweno wokuba yinxalenye yehlabathi lakho? Khumbula ukuba ukusondela kwakho kugula okanye kufuna uncedo, uziva imfuneko yokuza kuhlangula, ngaphandle kwemicimbi yakho. Okufanayo neqabane- xa ubophelela kwinto engaphezulu kokunxulumana nje, umnqweno wokunceda kufuneka ubonakale ngokwawo. Ke ngoko, naziphi na izizathu zeqabane kuhlobo "andikwazi", "Cela omnye umntu" ngokucacileyo yenza kucace ukuba ukude kakhulu kuluhlu lwezinto eziphambili kumadoda.
Ubudlelwane bungasoloko buqhubeka
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Izipho azisoloko zibiza kakhulu
Zonke ezi zipho zintle ezifana nezipho ezinkulu kunye nemihlobiso emangalisayo ihlala isebenza njengokutshintshwa okuhle kweemvakalelo, kodwa kwenzeka kuphela xa isibini esingayidingiyo ezi mvakalelo, kodwa ufuna ukulahlekisa intombazana. Ulungele ukuba uvuye nini kwi-chain ephambili kwivenkile enkulu, kwaye ngokunyaniseka, ulwalamano lwakho luphuhlisiwe, qiniseka.
Unento yokuthetha malunga
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Awunazintloni ngeqabane lakho
Ngokuqinisekileyo ubona isibini esitshatileyo, esingaphelelwanga konke, kodwa bonwabile kungekho ujikeleze. Ukuba iqabane liqala ukwenza ukuba ugqabaze kwaye uphephe nakweyiphi na inkangeleko kunye ebantwini, kukho isizathu sokucinga ukuba uthathwa njengento ekuthini inkanuko yesini, akusekho.
Ukulungele ukukunceda kuyo yonke into
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Ufuna ukuthetha ngayo yonke into esehlabathini
Ubudlelwane obunomdla awusoloko yomelele. Umntu oceba ukuchitha iqabane ithuba elingaphezulu kweenyanga ezimbalwa, kwaye, kuphela kwisikhundla esithe tye, akunakwenzeka ukuba uphulaphule yonke into ehamba ukusuka kwisiqingatha sakhe. Kwaye ukuba akukho nxibelelwano ngokweemvakalelo, akunakwenzeka ukwakha ubudlelwane obuqinileyo bokuthembana.