1. I-Prosphes kunye nenkangeleko yomfazi ongenguye.
Kule nto, yonke into iyodwa. Abanye abanakubeka ubomi babo ngaphandle kwenqanaba lomsebenzi kunye neshishini lemihla ngemihla. Ukuba akukho msebenzi ebomini babo, emva koko abayazi nje indlela abazithatha ngayo. Emva kokwenza yonke into ejikeleze indlu, baqala ukubiza umyeni wakhe, becinga ukuba bafika nini emsebenzini, cela iwaka kunye nombuzo omnye kunye nombuzo omnye nombuzo. Oku kukhokelela ekuqhekekeni kwezikhundla xa umntu exakekile, kwaye iqabane lesibini aliboni kwanto ebomini bakhe, ngaphandle kobudlelwane. Ngapha koko, loo mfazi akakhuli, akananto yokuxelela, ngaphandle kwemisebenzi yesiqhelo yomfazi wasekhaya, ngokulandelelana, izidlo ezithandekayo kwincoko emnandi ngaphandle kwabo. Kwangelo xesha linye kukho abafazi abafumana isifundo ngokulula kwishawa. Kusasa siya eYoga, emva kwemini - kwizifundo zolwimi, emva kokuba sihlangabezane nabahlobo kunye nokufika kwam ekhaya ukuze siqale imicimbi yasekhaya, ukupheka, njalo njalo. Ukunqongophala komsebenzi kubo kuphela kwethuba lokuqalisa ukwenza izinto zabo, kwaye ukungazichithe ixesha lokufumana umvuzo kwiimfuno.
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2. Ukhuseleko lwezinto ezibonakalayo, ixesha lesimahla, isini kunye nokuzikhusela. Ikhona yonke le nto?
Ukuba isingqisho sakho sobomi siye saphakama ngaphambi komtshato, emva koko iringi kwi-farmer ayizukutshintsha nto. Ixesha elisimahla lamaqabane kunye nesondo sidibene kakhulu. Xa singaboni ixesha elide ixesha elide, siqala ukuyiphosa, emva koko iimvakalelo ezintle ezintlanganisweni ziziva ziqaqambe. Ukuziqonda kakuhle kunye neshishini eliyithandayo yinkalo ebaluleke kakhulu kubomi bamaqabane kuwo omabini, ukuba sibekeke, njengomsebenzi wemihla ngemihla, uyakwazi ukwaphula olona lwalamano luqinileyo. Ukutshata kwakungekho ngxaki ngesondo, wonke umntu kufuneka abe nexesha lasimahla, ukhuseleko lwezinto eziphathekayo kunye nokuzikhusela.
Phatha omnye komnye ngokuvuyisa apho yayilixesha elifanelekileyo kuwe
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3. Yintoni eyenzekayo ngokwenene?
Nawuphi na umtshato ubandakanya uninzi lwezinto, ukongeza kumaxabiso ezilwanyana kunye netyala lomtshato. Eyona nto ibalulekileyo ekufuneka imanyane indoda nomfazi. Kwiintsapho ezininzi inyamalale. Ukongeza koku, abantu baqhelene baqhelene ukuba basakwindlela abajonga ngayo kunye nezinto abazithethayo. Umphathi waphinda wasohlwaya - waphula umfazi wakhe ekhaya, wahlambe imigangatho kwaye wahamba isidlo sangokuhlwa kwi-t-shirt yakudala eyomeleleyo-inokwenzeka ukutshintsha iimpahla, emva kwayo yonke loo nto. Phatha omnye komnye ngokuvuyisa apho yayilixesha elifanelekileyo kuwe.