Njengoko sonke sazi, umbuzo womtshato uhlala ubuzwa abafazi, hayi amadoda. UPawulos onamandla, ukuba amaphupha eManyano esemthethweni nomfazi, abayi kuhlala bethetha ngamava akhe kubo bonke abalandeli.
Kodwa nokuba wenza isibini nomntu wakho, oko akuthethi konke ukuba ukulungele inyathelo elibi kakhulu-ukubhalisa ubudlelwane bakho. Ngamanye amaxesha abantu basetyhini baphila kwimo yomfazi waseburhulumenteni phantse bonke ubomi bakhe, benethemba lokufihlakeleyo ukuba intanda yakhe iya kwenza isindululo esilindile. Siqokelele ezona zinto zibalulekileyo umntu anyula umntu obhinqileyo ukuba akhe usapho.
Umntu akakunyamezeli ubugqwetha
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Kunye nebhinqa kukho into yokuthetha
Indoda inesingqengqelekile ngokulula ukuba umfazi okhathaza kuphela ukuthengisa okukufutshane kunye nengxoxo yeentombi eziqhelekileyo ecaleni kwakhe. Intombazana eqinisekile ngokwayo kwaye inokuxhasa incoko, inethuba ngalinye lokutsala umdla womntu onesidima.
Akavumeli ukuba uphoswe
Ndiyavuma ukuba indoda enobuhlungu kunye neyonwabisayo ukuba umfazi akabangeli mnqweno wokuqhelana nokuqhubeka nolwalamano. Ewe kunjalo, asithethi ngokuguqulela ubomi bakho kwiholide engapheliyo, kodwa amandla okuvuya kwizinto ezilula kwaye ubone umhlaba olula kwaye ubone umhlaba we-multicofered oncedayo unxibelelana namadoda.
Umfazi ufanele abe ngumntu oguquguqukayo
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Umfazi akalandeli
Akukho nto imbi ngakumbi kuneentlonipho: Abafazi abanjalo abantu bambekile ngobomi. Indoda ngokuyintloko yakhe yayimele ukuba ifune indawo yomfazi, ukuba "ixhoba" lakhe litshintshana naye kwiindawo, kwaye liqala ngokufutshane, akunakulindeleka ukuba libalwe ubudlelwane bexesha elide. Usapho olunomfazi onjalo uguqukela kubusuku.
Amadoda amaninzi, njengamabhinqa aphupha ngomtshato
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Inkosikazi ixhasa
Vumela amadoda kunye nomgangatho owomeleleyo, afuna inkxaso kunye noncedo kwiimeko ezinzima zobomi. Nangona kunjalo, uninzi lwayo ukusuka kumfazi lufuna ukuqonda kunye nokukwazi ukondla. Indoda iya kuyiqonda ngendlela engasayiqondi kwaye ayisafuni ukuba ikhulule kuyo umfazi onjalo, ezandleni zakhe azifumanayo intuthuzelo.