Ukuba intanda yakho ingomdala kuphela kunawe, apha, kukho iingxaki, nangona kunjalo, ubunzima buqala apho, apho iminyaka yendoda sele kude ... Siza kukuxelela into ekufuneka ilungisiwe ukuba iqabane lakho likhona mdala kakhulu.
Indoda ayinakuzabalazela ukwakha ubudlelwane bexesha elide
Ngamafutshane, uqhele ukuba yibhachelori kunomyeni ongumzekelo notata wosapho. Ubomi bodwa yinto aqhele yona, ke ngoko utshintsha into kuye. Ukuba useyintombazana eselula, ungangena kwimeko eyingozi apho indoda endala iya kukuphazamisa, kuba kusenokwenzeka ukuba wayenenani labasetyhini kuwe kwaye wafunda indlela yokuxhoma amantombazana amava, kuba uyazi kakuhle Into oyifunayo, kwaye ungakugcina njani ecaleni kwakho kangangoko kunokwenzeka. Lumnka.
Kuya kufuneka uhlengahlengise
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Uya "wakhela"
Njengomthetho, indoda eqolileyo yaqhele indlela ethile yobomi, unemibono yakhe ngobomi kunye nendlela umfazi wakhe. Ke ngoko, kuya kufuneka ulungele ukuma izimvo malunga nenkangeleko yakho, indlela yokuziphatha, ukhetho, kwaye awuyi kuhlala uthanda. Umntu okhulileyo akasafuni ukuya kumfazi, akakhawulezi ukuya echibini entloko kwaye eqonda ngokugqibeleleyo into ayifunayo kumfazi, nokuba yintoni. Ukuba awuyilungelanga "ulwakhiwo", cinga ngaphambi kokuba unikele ubomi bakho kwindoda eqolileyo.
Uvela kwizizukulwana ezahlukeneyo
Wena nendoda ibingenabuntwana, esele iwele. Kuya kuba lula kakhulu ukuba aqonde umama wakho kunawe, kuba exhaphake kakhulu kuye, ubuncinci kumanqanaba okuqala. Ewe kunjalo, kuye nawuphi na umntu onokufumana ezo mpawu kunye neempawu zendalo efanelekileyo kuwe, nangona kunjalo, ngomahluko kwiminyaka engaphezu kwama-20, ibala lakho le-BICOLD lahluke kakhulu.
Unendawo eyahlukileyo ye-bac
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Kuya kufuneka uhlengahlengise
Nje ukuba uthathe isigqibo sokuhlala kunye, eyona nto ingathandekiyo iya kuqala, kwaye uninzi lwayo luya kuqala, kwaye ubukhulu becala kuwe, kuba le ndoda yayingayi kwaye yayingazukutshintsha ngandlel 'ithile. Ukuba indoda yakho sele iphila ixesha elide, uya kuhlala elungile, kuba engasetyenziswanga ukuba ahlawule nomnye umntu. Kunzima ukuyibekisa koku: Xa uhlala iminyaka emininzi, ukubala kuphela, kwaye uxhobise ubomi bakho, kwaye kunzima ukuvumela umntu ukuba eze kuzisa imiyalelo yomnye umntu ukuba eze kwaye eze nemiyalelo yakho.