Intombazana nganye yayinemeko xa yayimi kwindawo enqamlezileyo, emgceni, ilinde intombi, i-guy ye-rave yayisoyika ukusilela. Ewe kunjalo, kuhle xa kuthathelwa ingqalelo kuwe indoda entle, kodwa ihlala yenzeka ukuba umntu oqhelileyo akabangeli ukuba umnqweno wokuqhubeka naye kwincoko. Kwaye okwangoku, sihlala silijongele phantsi ithuba eliwe. Ngoba? Kule nto sagqiba kwelokuba sifumanise, kwaye ke siya kuxela ngeenzuzo ezintlanu zokuthandana ngaphandle okanye kwindawo egugileyo.
Awuphulukanga ixesha
Njengommiselo, ukuchitha ixesha kwiindawo zokuthandana, sikhetha amahlakani anokubakho angenzi inethiwekhi, kodwa kwintlanganiso yakho iqala ukuba umntu azididekile: Ifanelekile? Kodwa ekubeni sele ukwazi ukunxibelelana ngaphambi kwentlanganiso, ngandlel 'ithile ukuba ihambe xa udibana, kwaye ke uyayinyamezela inkampani yomntu ongathandekiyo, ongenakuthethwa ngenye indoda eyaphuma Isitrato-uya kuba nexesha lokuxabisa umtsalane kwaye nakweyiphi na imeko "ukwahlula" emva kwemizuzu emithathu ukuthandana akuyi kuba yinto eqingqiweyo.
Kwaye uqhelane kangakanani esitratweni?
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Umntu ubangela Uvelwano
Ngokweziphumo zokuvota eziqhutywa ziingcali zentlalo, amadoda abeka emngciphekweni osondelayo le ntombazana esitratweni ibangela ukuba nenkathalo enkulu kubantu besini esahlukileyo. Akukho mfihlo yokuba umntu ongaphumeleliyo sisisothusa esikhulu, ethi yonke indoda iphendula ngeendlela ezahlukeneyo. Kwangelo xesha, "amasimi anzima" amadoda akhokelela kwincoko kwaye anqabile ukuba abe ne-boring guys, njengoko uninzi lwamalungu aluhlaza.
Akukho nto
Njengoko sitshilo, ixesha lelona vimba lixabisekileyo, kwaye ke ukuhlala kwimbalelwano kwiiveki ezininzi ukuba ukuphoxeke kwintlanganiso yakho, - amava anjalo. Uya kuba noburhalarhume wena, ngakumbi umntu oqhelene naye, owebileyo "weba" imizuzu yakho exabisekileyo. Inethiwekhi kunzima kakhulu ukuvavanya umntu ongenelelayo, kwaye ke ngoko bobugcisa bezengqondo bacebisa ukuba bahlangabezane nomhla wesibini wokuthandana ukuze umntu nokuba nendoda yayinenkohliso.
Ufumana amava ayimfuneko
Awunakuyikholelwa, kodwa uye kumntu ongaqhelekanga esitratweni, nkqu nje ubuza ixesha, unokuba yi-10% yamadoda nabafazi. Into oza kuyithetha malunga nomntu omaziyo osekwe kumdla womntu. Ewe, ukuthandana okunjalo kuhlala kungaphumeleli, kodwa oku kukwangamava okuyimfuneko ukuze ube yintlalontle enjalo, njengomntu, kwaye ibuqhekeze kumadoda, kodwa kwanabafazi. Ewe kunjalo, le ntombazana akululanga ukusondela kwindoda oyithandayo, ngakumbi ukuba ayiyedwa, kodwa umfazi unokuhlala ebonisa umdla wakhe kwindoda ejongeka, siziphatha. Musa ukoyika ukudlala kwaye udlale.
Awunayo into eqhelekileyo
Ngomntu uza kuba yi-bis, nangona kunjalo, ukungaziyo ukuba nabahlobo abaqhelekileyo kunokuba yinto enkulu, kuba akukho mntu waziyo ukuba ulwahlulo lwakho luya kuqhubeka nokuba ulwahlulo lwakho luya kuba kude noxolo, oogxa bakho kwaye bangahlali Yiba ngamangqina akhe ngokuthe ngqo kulo mdlalo, apho umntu anokudlala khona.