Ukubaluleka kweMilinganiselo yeNtlalo yenye yezona zihloko zinamandla kwintlalo, ngakumbi zixhaphakile kwithiyori yosapho kunye nobudlelwane. Imigaqo yentlalontle ihlala ithathelwa ingqalelo njengendlela yolawulo lwentlalo. Eminye imigangatho ichaza imigangatho yentetho enegalelo kwizenzo ezizuza izenzo ezizuza ibutho, ngokwemigangatho ye-balla kunye ne-COLA kunye ne-COLA Abaphandi bemigangatho yomtshato, ukutshata kwabazali kwabantwana. Eminye imithetho ithathelwa ingqalelo njengeziphumo ezibi, ezinje ngemilinganiselo yobuhle babasetyhini kunye nesiqhelo. Kule nto, masithethe malunga nokuba kutheni inzame zokushwankathela umntwana phantsi komntwana ophantsi kwesiqhelo sibonisa abazali abangalunganga.
Ngokukhawuleza, ngaphezulu, yomelele
Akumangalisi ke ngoko phakathi kwabantu abancinci behambahamba ngo "Nyana wentombi kanina"-Ibinzana elihlekisayo libonisa ingxaki enkulu kwezentlalo apho umntu okwishumi elivisayo ahlala khona. Ukufuna ukubona uCudo kwixesha elizayo uphumelele, abazali bazama ukukhuthaza ngeendlela ezahlukeneyo. Ukuba usapho olunothando luqhele ukuba ukhethe i-hobby, hlawula iiklasi ngomfundi okanye ngenqanawa kwinkampu yolwimi, emva koko kwezinye iimeko, abazali baphelelwe lixesha lokuthotywa. Ngapha koko, ukuthotywa akusoloko kuchazwe kwifom evulekileyo njengengcungcu. Rhoqo ibakho i-formula "Sifuna ukuba ngcono": Thelekisa ngoontanga abaphumeleleyo, imizekelo yexesha elingenakuphumelelayo kwizalamane, ke ngoko kwakrwada kufuneka bavuselele iSofa kwaye baqalise ukwenza into.
Sukwenza mfundo, uthelekisa nabanye
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Andikonwabanga kuwe
Ngelixa abanye abantwana bebaleka ngovuyo malunga nendawo yokudlala kwaye, malunga nokothuka, zivumele ukuba zihleke kwi-cafe kakhulu kwaye zidlale ngamazinyo etafileni, abanye bahlala ngokukhawuleza kwaye bathi kwi-whisper. Okubangela umdla kukuba, kwinkcubeko yaseYurophu, ingakumbi e-Itali neSpain, abantwana bakhuthazekile ekufumaneni i-Dead yabantwana - akukho mntu umntu omdala akasayi kuba nakho ukusonga umntwana ngokulila okanye ukuhleka okukhulu. Abantwana bethu ukusukela ebuntwaneni bafundiswa ukuba banee-furkes ukuze bangaphawulwa - kwiholide ezingcwele zetafile yegumbi lokuzonwabisa kwaye bathintela incoko yabantu abadala. Angamangalisi into yokuba umntwana ethobekileyo, engafuni ukunxibelelana nawe, kuba isetyenziselwa ukuhlala kwaye uyonwabisa kwaye uyazonwabisa.
Iimvavanyo azinakucinywa
Nokuba intombi yakho iqaqambile ingubo entsha, ifuduse isilayidi, kwaye uNyana uya kuwa ngebhayisikile kwaye uye wothusa i-jean. Ngaphambi kokuba wandise ilizwi lakho kwaye cinga, cinga ubuncinci umzuzu- ucinga ukuba yintoni engqondweni emntwaneni? Isilumkiso kunye nomnqweno wokwenza nantoni na, amaxhoba nabazali nootatomkhulu, ungcungcutheka kuye kumnqweno wokuphakama okutsha kunye nomnqweno wokubeka umngcipheko wamaphupha abo. Indlela eya empumelelweni ihlala ilele ngothotho lweethanga kwaye liwe, kwaye linganikezeli, ufuna umlinganiswa wentsimbi kunye namava obomi. Akukho nanye yebhulukhwe erhasileyo engathethi ukuba uhleka umntwana kunye nolonwabo olunyanisekileyo emehlweni.
Vumela umntwana aphonononge umhlaba malunga
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Khumbula usuku lokuzalwa komntwana ngalo lonke ixesha ufuna ukukhwaza kuyo okanye ukubetha. Kwakungolu suku ukuba uthandane naye ngokuqinisekileyo - musa ukonakalisa ubudlelwane olwakhiwe iminyaka ngenxa yobuthathaka bomzuzu wokubuthathaka.