Ngamnye wethu ndifuna ukuba iminqweno iqhutywa ngokunqakraza iminwe, kodwa ebomini akwenzeki- funa icebo kunye nokucoca amagama kunye nokucacileyo kwegama lomsebenzi. Kuphela kweli tyala oya kuyifumana iziphumo ozifunayo. Siza kukuxelela malunga nento ekufuneka uyikhumbule ukuba awufuni kusilela.
Akukho zisombululo zigqityiweyo
Imeko nganye yenzeka nawe ngumntu, kwaye oku kuyamkhathaza ngawo onke amacala obuqu kunye nobungcali. Umntu ohamba kunye nokukhangela impendulo elungiselelwe umbuzo wakhe omnye umntu, akunakulindeleka ukuba afezekise okwakhe. Ke ngoko, kubalulekile ukubamisa kwaye umamele iingcinga zakho kunye neemvakalelo zakho, emva koko uhlale phantsi kwaye ucinge ngendlela ebhetele onokuyenza ngayo kwimeko yakho, ngaphandle kokugxila kumava abanye.
Landela isicwangciso
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Nayo nayiphi na ishishini kufuneka lenziwe kude kube sekupheleni.
Khumbula ukubagqibela nini ukuphefumlelwa kwaye uyeza emsebenzini ngenzondelelo? Kwaye ngoku ukhumbule ukuba zingaphi kwezi meko uzizise esiphelweni. Ngokuqinisekileyo ebomini bakho bekukho iimeko xa wawugxotha. Ewe kunjalo, kukho iimeko ezahlukileyo, kodwa xa loo ndlela yokuziphatha ikwimikhwa, kukho umngcipheko wokungaze kwaye ungafumani nto ufuna kakhulu, kuba nasiphi na isivumelwano esibonakalayo sifuna ukuba inkuthazo kunye nomzamo wokuthanda, esingekho njalo ukusilela.
Zilungiselele i-maneupvers
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Sukuxhomekeka kwimbonakalo evela
Ewe kunjalo, icebiso elilungileyo azange lonakalise mntu, kodwa kuya kufuneka uqonde ngokucacileyo ukuba le ngcebiso iphela kwaye ukumiselwa koluvo lomntu kuqala. Masithi uthatha isigqibo sokuqalisa ishishini lakho, ngokwemvelo, uya kufuna icebiso kubalingane abaphumeleleyo ophumelele ophumeleleyo. Kodwa isigqibo sokugqibela kufuneka sibe seko yakho, kwaye asibeki, kungenjalo uya kukukhuphela iskimu somnye umntu kwaye ulahlekelwe nguwe.
Kuya kufuneka ube nesicwangciso, kodwa ayichanekanga kakhulu
Sele sigqibe kwelokuba ngaphandle kwesicwangciso akukho ndawo, kodwa kwangaxeshanye kuya kufuneka ukwazi ukuziqhelanisa neenguqu ezinokuthi zivele kulo naliphi na ixesha. Soloko ushiya indawo yobisi, ke uyakulungela phantse nayiphi na imeko. Emva kwayo yonke loo nto, ayisiyiyo yonke into ihlala ihamba njengoko sikhulelwe.
Sukujonga emva kwenye
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Awunayo imida yethutyana yethutyana.
Kwakhona, sibuyela kwisicwangciso esicacileyo: UGesilan ngomnye wemithetho esisiseko, ngaphandle kwemihla yokusilela ukuze iphile kwihlabathi leshishini alinakwenzeka, kuba umntu onokhuphiswano unokukuphelisa amanyathelo ambalwa ngaphambili. Nangona kunjalo, apha, zama ukufumana ibhalansi: Imihla emiselweyo inokulibaziseka, shushu, ukungcungcutheka kubaluleke kakhulu njengombandela kubasebenzi nakwimicimbi yobuqu.