Ukuba umyeni wakho, othandekayo, uNyana ugxile ngokugqibeleleyo kwimiba yefashoni kunye nendlela, ezifumana ngokulula kwivenkile efanelekileyo yempahla kwaye wazi indlela yokujonga ukucoceka - ukuvuyela! Unabameli abamangalisayo besini esomeleleyo, kwaye awusoze ulwe nabo umzabalazo wokubonakala wawo. Ukuba enye imeko, ubukhulu becala, wena amaxesha ngamaxesha ngokuzithandela kuvakalelwa ngathi yintlekele yangaphandle yosapho lwakho.
Ungabhala njani ezincwadini kwi-Psychology yasekhaya, amadoda alula! Bahlala bengakulungelanga ukujongana nefashoni: kukomfuneko ngokupheleleyo, kutheni chitha ixesha elongezelelekileyo ekukhetheni izinto "ekunene", imali, amandla engqondo, ekugqibeleni. Izibini ezibini zebhulukhwe, izithende zeehempe, i-T-shirt, i-jeans - izinto zawo onke amaxesha. Yintoni iPlo? Ithini i-festsor ye-windows? Yintoni umahluko umbala wokubonakala? Uthetha ukuthini? Ukwenzela ntoni? Ukuba ubutyebi buvumela, indoda kwaye ixhomekeke kuyo incasa yabathengisi kwiivenkile ezithengiswayo kwaye ikholelwa ngokunyaniseka ikholelwa kumgangatho kunye "naphakade" zezambatho azithengayo. Ukuqukumbela: Ukuba indoda ayibonisi inzala efanelekileyo, ungayilayishi inkcazo, iinkcukacha, imigaqo. Zama ukugxila kwimizamo yakho yokususa yonke into kwaye ingaqhelekanga ukuguqula "iseti esisiseko" yezinto ezikwisitayile sasekunene kunye neskimu esifanelekileyo. Ndikholelwe, kuya kuba ngaphezulu kokutshintsha umfanekiso wendoda kwaye, mhlawumbi, nokuziqonda kwakhe. Eyona nto iphambili ayiyo i-Avan-Garde, i-riot yepeyinti yothusa. Ithintelwe i-Classic - umhlobo wakho osenyongweni.
Amadoda athanda intuthuzelo, le yindawo yesibini ekufuneka uyigcina entlokweni yam. La maxesha kudala bekude ehlotyeni xa amadoda evandezeleka ngokulandelelana ngegama lobuhle: Baphethe izithende, ii-wigs kunye ne-pantalon. I-metrossexials yanamhlanje, kunjalo, inokuxelela kakhulu, umzekelo, malunga no-Epilawetion kunye "nokubona kwamehlo", kodwa namhlanje ayisiyo kweli qela labantu. Uninzi lusanomdla wokucinga ukuba eyona nto iphambili kwimpahla yokusebenza. Sukubaphoxisa: bonisa ukuba ukulula kunokuba mhle, kufanelekile ukunikela ingqalelo kule nkalo.
Yiya kumbuzo wombala. Khumbula kwaye uzithobeleni abantu obathandayo, ezifanayo "kwihlabathi labasetyhini", umnyama wamadoda akangombala wonke kuye wonke umntu nayo yonke into. Uninzi lomdala, olunika ubuso lube lodiniwe, 'utsala iingxowa phantsi kwamehlo, iyenza iinwele zamehlo kunye nombala otyhafileyo, mvulo kancinci. Hlalutya imbonakalo yendoda yakho: Jonga iifoto, ukhumbule eyona milo iphumelelayo. Eyona nto iphambili ekuqinisekiseni ukuba yintoni umahluko phakathi kwemithunzi yolusu kunye neenwele zalo (phezulu okanye iphantsi) kwaye, ukuba kuyaphela, luhlobo olushushu okanye olubandayo (iqondo lobushushu. Ke uGoogle google filos okanye ephefumlelwe yi-Wardrobe ye-Kinoheroev yakho oyithandayo, efana nale: Bayeke abantu bakho babonakale, bazolile, kodwa basasemncinci kuye. Ukuba unamathela kwi-classic isitayile sePalette, endaweni yoko wathunyelwa kwaye ubumnyama, emva koko ukumelana necala layo, ndime, andizukuvela.
Kwaye ekugqibeleni, chitha izitayile zendlela: Ubuncinci zimbini iindlela eziphambili - iimpahla zeklasikhi kunye nemidlalo. Umsebenzi kunye nemisitho esesikweni-ngokuqinisekileyo uhlobo lokuqala. Kuzo zonke ezinye iimeko (ngaphandle komzimba ngqo, umzekelo, kwindawo yokuzivocavoca), ikwafanelekile kuzo zombini, kuxhomekeke kukhetho kunye nendlela yokuphila. Umsebenzi wakho njengomfazi osisilumko kukucacisela ukuba isitayile sezemidlalo kunye nezambatho zemidlalo ayifani. Uqeqesho kububhulji, i-sneblers kunye nehempe ze-wrestling fushe yekhusi leklabhu yomzimba. Kwaye ukuzonwabisa kufanelekile, umzekelo, iijakethi zesikhumba ezihlaziyayo kunye neebhakethi zomoya, i-t-shirts, i-sneakers ezonwabisayo kunye ne-analog.
Ukuqukumbela, ndiza kuthi: Ukuba uthathe uxanduva ngembonakalo yendoda yakho, ungaguquki kwiTirana kunye "nebhinqa". Yibani nomonde, ngokuthe ngcembe, khetha impikiswano enengqiqo neqinisekileyo kwaye ungahambi kakuhle ulwazi. Xa indoda iqonda ukuba izinto ozikhethileyo zikhululekile, zisebenza kwaye zikuthathwa njengezingqongileyo, uya kuphefumla ngokukhululeka kwaye ekugqibeleni akuthethe. Eyona nto iphambili kukudlula kule uqaleni, eyona nqanaba inzima.
Ndikunqwenela ukuba uvisisani, kwaye ungaphandle!
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IKaterina Khooklova, umcebisi womfanekiso kunye nomqeqeshi wobomi