Ewe kunjalo, kunzima ukunyanga i-plu yakho oyithandayo okanye ikati ngaphandle kokunqula, kodwa oku akuyomfuneko. Ngamanye amaxesha uthando lwethu lwesilwanyana lomelele kangangokuba uqalisa ukwenzakalisa izilwanyana ngokwalo - xa sisenza inxenye yentsapho, iingxaki ezinkulu zaqala. Kodwa kutheni le nto yenzekileyo, siya kuxelela.
Isilwanyana siphulukana nophawu lomhlaba
Ezona ngxaki ziphakamayo ezinjeni, nokuba kukho inja yenkonzo endlwini, yeyaseyisicelo esihle kwindlu elahlekileyo. Inja kwimeko enjalo ayiqondi ukuba ngubani othatha isikhundla sobunkokeli kwi "Stack", kwaye ekugqibeleni uthathele ingqalelo iingxaki ezinjalo, kwaye ukuba umniniyo kwimeko yakhe kuya kufuneka ajongane nezinye izilwanyana nabantu abavela kwesilwanyana sasekhaya nabantu basekhaya . Ewe, kwaye umniniyo ngokwakhe 'uya kufakwa ", kuba akazange aliqonde ilungelo lakhe lokuba yinkokeli. Musa ukwenza impazamo enjalo, imfundo ye-PSA iphinde iya kuba nzima kakhulu!
Isilwanyana siqala ukufumana iingxaki zempilo
Ukudluliselwa kweemvakalelo zomntu kwisilwanyana kunokubamba kakhulu impilo yesilwanyana sakho sasekhaya. Abanye abanini beekati kunye nezinja bayala ukucocwa, bekholelwa ukuba umntu wesilwanyana "ufuna ukuba ngumzali" okanye "ufuna ukonwabela ukuzala, kodwa bambalwa, banyanzela isilwanyana Ukuhlukumezelela ithuba lokuqonda inkqubo yabo yendalo, ekhokelela kuphuhliso lwezifo ezinzulu.
Thanda isilwanyana, kodwa ungabeki inqanaba elinye nawe
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Indlu yakho iya kuqala ukubandezeleka
Njengoko besitshilo, ukusekwa kwe-hierarchy endlini kubaluleke kakhulu - isilwanyana, ngakumbi inja, kufuneka siqonde ukuba kwiligi yesibini, kwaye ke ayinayo ilungelo lokulahla ipropathi yomniniyo njengoko inqweneleka kwaye Eyona nto ibaluleke kakhulu - ayinayo ilungelo "lokwakha" iintsapho zamalungu. Oku kuhlala kwenzeke kwiintsapho ezinkulu, apho izalamane zizalamane ezingakwaziyo ukubonisa unyamezelo kwimfundo yesilwanyana, ukukhetha kuye kwilinganayo. Imeko enjalo inokunyamezela kakubi, kwaye ke kubaluleke kakhulu ukuhambisa iindima ngexesha kwaye ulungiselele usapho lwakho kwimbonakalo yomhlobo we-fluffy, ocacisa ukuba uqala isilwanyana ekufuneka sizithanda, kodwa musa ukunxiba inqanaba.