Sukuzihlutha ngamathandabuzo
Ukuba ukrokrela iqabane lakho ngokungathembeki okanye ukujikelezisa kwaqala ukuzithemba, kwaoko laphula amathandabuzo. Amantombazana amaninzi ayaqhubeka nokuphila ngemvakalelo yokungathembani kumthandi, kwaye abanye bakhetha ukungaqapheli ngokucacileyo. Le ndlela itshatyalalisiwe kwimpilo yakho yengqondo. Thetha neqabane ngqo. Mhlawumbi wenza umbono wakho otyebileyo unokukwenza wone okanye lixesha lokufunda inyaniso. Zimiseleni kwincoko eyolileyo yabantu abaqolileyo, kodwa balungiselele kwangaphambili kwinto yokuba impendulo yomntu inokukhathazeka.
Ungafumani ubudlelwane
Ukuba inyani yokuqiniswa kobukhali, awudingi ukutshisa zonke iibhulorho kunyaka ofanayo: ukwenza izigqibo eziyimfuneko, cwangcisa isikrelemnqa kwaye uzame ukufumanisa ikamva lakho. Iimeko apho kufuneka zive iindaba ezingathandekiyo zihlukile, kubandakanya "ukubamba" abathandi kwindlu yabo. Esi sibini, iimvakalelo ziphazamisa ukuqonda okwaneleyo.
Uninzi lwazo, ukwaphula lonke uqhagamshelo kunye nomlandeli kwangoko akusebenzi. Bantwana, amaqabane aqhelekileyo amaqabane. Okanye mhlawumbi awuzukulindela ukuba uyeke kwaye ufuna ukunika ithuba lesibini? Ngayiphi na imeko, musa ukwenza isigqibo se-haze.
Esona sigqibo sichanekileyo kukuqina okwethutyana, sikhokele kwimvakalelo kwaye sithetha nentloko ebandayo.
I-Denis Grebenyuk kunye ne-DMMMIRY RYBBIN
I-Denis Grebenyuk, inyani yokwenyani "yoNxibelelwano oluyingozi":
Ngokuqhelekileyo, uninzi lwabathathi-nxaxheba kule nkqubo basabela kwiindaba malunga nogonyamelo, thatha yonke into kufutshane nentliziyo. Ngeli xesha kubonakala ngathi ukuba isiphelo sehlabathi sifikile. Ndicacisa wonke umntu: Akukho nto imbi yenzeka, akukufa. Ixesha, njengoko uyazi, zonke ziphatha. Ndiyamthanda xa umntu enomkhosi owaneleyo kunye nokuzilawula uphendula ngokuzolileyo imeko enzima, kodwa i-2% kuphela yenani labathathi-nxaxheba. "
Yiya kwizikhumbuzo
UPept kunye nexesha elidlulileyo kwiibhili ezimbini aziyi kusebenza, ngakumbi ukuba ubudlelwane bakho bude. Onke amagqabantshintshi eenyanga zakho okanye iminyaka ahlengahlengiswa kabini. Ubomi, ukuzonwabisa, abahlobo abaqhelekileyo - yonke le nto inokubeka uxinzelelo kwingqolowa ye-SERE.
Kamsinya nje ukuba ulawulo alubambe ucango emva kwakhe, ungahlali kwindawo yangaphambili. Abanye abantu basetyhini baqala ukuvuselela iifoto kunye nokuvelisa iinkumbulo ezimnandi engqondweni. Ke awunakwenza: Makhe sizicaphukise ngeli nqanaba lobomi bakho kwaye awongezi kuthuthu.
Sukuhlala wedwa
Eyona ndlela ilungileyo yokutshintsha kakhulu le meko kukudibana nezihlobo okanye ngabahlobo. Sinda ngokuvukela kwakho kuya kuba nzima: Kukho umngcipheko ngentloko ukuya kwiingcinga zokudakumba. Ngaba abahlobo bakho balula kwaye bakhululekile? Ngoku ufuna iimvakalelo ezintle, hayi iintetho ezithuthuzelayo. Umzekelo, iintombi zesikolo kwaye ucwangcise iinkumbulo ezimnandi ngokuhlwa.
Ngexesha elinzima musa ukuhlala bodwa
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I-Denis Grebenyuk, inyani yokwenyani "yoNxibelelwano oluyingozi":
"Ungalibali ngenyaniso elula: Zonke zibe ngcono! Kuyimfuneko ukwamkela ukuba ezinye izinto ebomini bethu azinakuphepheka. Kunzima ukufumana amagama enkxaso, uninzi lungabi lula. Kubalulekile ukuba kufutshane nomntu kunye nokuba nemfundiso ngokweemvakalelo.
Kwaye ebomini bam, mhlawumbi bekukho ukuvukela. Bendingazi phambi kwesiphelo, kodwa ndiqikelele. Kwiminyaka edala yadibana nentombazana, yaye owayekhethwe yena wayekhona ebomini bethu. Akanakuthatha ifowuni ixesha elide: Ndiqikelele ukuba babekunye. Nangona ubudlelwane bethu bunokubizwa ngaphezu kolutsha kunye nobutsha, buhlala bungathandeki ukuba nomona! "