Ndiza kunika umzekelo wokulala, okoko uvakala kum kunye nomthengi wam - umfana. Wavuma kolu shicilelo ukuze abafundi babe nethuba lokwenza umsebenzi ofanayo naye.
Iimeko ezincinci zobomi bakhe ukuze imeko yokulala iqondwe. Usemtsha, uphumelele, kutshanje. Kwaye uxakekile ngento ekhangela amachiza amatsha kunye namachiza amatsha okuzikhusela. Umfazi wale ndoda unomlinganiswa othambileyo kunye nomnye umsindo- icinga, igudile kwaye ilumkele. Le ndoda ifana ne-meteor. Ngokukhawuleza, smart, ngengqondo yekhonkco kunye nokuphendula ngokukhawuleza. Ngelixa abo bangqongileyo becinga, sele eyenzile yonke into. Kumfazi wakhe, waqala waqala nokwenza iimfuno eziphambili zokuzimela, malunga nokuzibophelela okwaneleyo kwiimbono zokuziphucula ngokwakho. Uziva esisigxina "Gon" - isidingo sokwenza into, ukuhambisa ngokuqhubekayo kwaye ngandlela ithile sizabalazela okungakumbi. Rhoqo. Rhoqo. "Ke kuhle! Bonke abantu ngokuchanekileyo bayayenza, "ucinga. Ayisiyo malunga nezenzo, kodwa kwindawo egwenxa ebizelwe kukuKhangela rhoqo ukuze uziphucule ngaphandle kokuphumla kunye nolwaneliseko lokwenene kwinto yokuba ndim nje.
Ukusebenza nale mibono ebomini, umxholo wam walala: "Intombazana esencinci yazala mna. Wonke umntu ujonga umntwana osandula ukuzalwa kwaye athi kukho into engalunganga kuye ukuba iphazamisekile. Ephupheni, umntwana ulilungu, kuya kufuneka uqagele ukuba phantsi kweedayithi ezihluthweyo kunye nemilenze. Kwaye yena uncinci. Zonke izinto ezingqonge ukuba kukho into ephosakeleyo ngomntwana. Kwaye ndindedwa ndiyazi ukuba kulungile ukuba uza kuyicima. Baby, nyana wam ephupheni, ngokulandelelana. "
Xa sakuqinisa eli phupha, ndacela umthengi ukuba uyazi ngokuzalwa kwakhe. Kwavela ukuba uzalwe yisoswa, zonke ezi zinto zincokolweyo "zathethwa" zazithethwa ngenxa ye-cradle yakhe. Umama wayenexhala, wamkhathaza, wazama ukubuyisela "ukungakhuselekanga." Kwaye kude kube sekupheleni kobutsha, ukuqiniseka kwaphoswa ebomini bakhe kangangokuba wayengafanelekanga. Iza kumnika isikolo nabantwana abalibazisiweyo kuphuhliso, emva koko kwezemidlalo ngokwamaqela abantwana, nangona emzimbeni nasengqondoni ahambelana nobudala bakhe. Yinkolelo nje yokuba ayiphuhliswa, yasebenza kwaye yanika iziqhamo zayo.
Kuya kuthiwa apha ukuba imisitho echazwe apha ngelo xesha xa umntwana wazalwa nje kuphela. Kubalulekile ukwazi ukuba ngeli xesha lobomi bakho, ubuchopho bomntwana burekhoda okwenzekayo nonina, njengokuba kuyenzeka, njengoko kunjalo nomama ongathandekiyo. Ukuba umama wasinda kuMdlalo wokuba unyana wakhe akazukufika engaphantsi, iingqondo zomntwana iphela ziya kuyibona njengenkqubo yobomi. Kwizithuba zebhayoloji zale mihla, oku kubizwa ngokuba yi-Programming "- ixesha apho umntwana akhulelwe khona kwaye wazalwa kuphela. I-Psychology yabazali iba nengqondo yakhe.
Xa umxhandi ebopha eli phupha ngebali lakhe, emva koko wafumana iphupha lamnceda ukuba ahlukane nabanye ngesimo sakhe sengqondo ngaye. Abanye boyika ukuba kukho into engalunganga kuye, abazali bakhe boyika. Kwaye ulungile! Kwaye akufunekanga ukuba abuyisele, azilungise kwaye aphucule kwaye aphucule.
Iphupha lakhe longulowo. Kwaye umntwana, oko kukwinto eqhelekileyo! Uyayazi le nto ngaphakathi, engaphandle, kwiivoti ze-echo.
Ngenxa yokulala kunye nokuqiqa malunga nobuntwana babo obukhulu, umthengi wazisa ifomula: "Ndiyaphila! Ndivuthiwe! ".
Kuyathakazelisa ukubona ukuba ubomi bakhe buya kuvela njani kwi-Phismoko yento ayenzayo ngokwayo. Ndinomdla ofanelekileyo ukuba alahle ingcinga yokuba unesiphene esifuna ukubuyekezwa. Isikhundla sobomi bokuqala siyatshintsha. Ndicinga ukuba into yokuqala azakuva ukuncitshiswa kwe-voltage evela ngaphakathi, ekufuneka itshintshwe ukuba "ukubamba" uqheliselo. Kwaye oku kusisiphumo esixabisekileyo - ukuzifumana ngokwakho kwaye wonwabe ukuba ndim.
Simnqwenelela ngethamsanqa! Kwaye imbamba elandelayo malunga nephupha lomfana-ungaphoswa!
Kwaye ngawaphi amaphupha akho? Imizekelo yamaphupha akho ethunyelwa ngeposi: inforhit.ru. Indlela, amaphupha alula kakhulu ukubhala phantsi ukuba uza kubhala phantsi ukuba uza kubhalwa khona ukuba uza kubhala phantsi ukuba uvule kweli phupha.
UMaria Dyachkova, ugqirha wezengqondo, ugqirha wosapho kunye noqeqesho olukhokelayo kwiZiko loQeqsho loQhulelo loQeqesho lweMarika Khazin