Ewe kunjalo, nabuphi na ubudlelwane bufuna "ukufudumeza", kwaye ngesondo eshushu ngamanye amaxesha - esona sixhobo silungileyo. Kodwa kuthekani ukuba indoda ayicingi ukuba kuphila ngesondo ngaphandle kobundlongondlongo obunzima? Sigqibe kwelokuba siqwalasele umbuzo obalaseleyo.
Oko amadoda ahlala ebonisa ubundlongondlongo ebhedini
Ndijikeleza kuphela ...
Indoda ezabalazela ukubonisa ubudoda ngeendlela zonke. Njengomthetho, umntu onjalo uya kuziphathela ngabom, makangaziphathi kakuhle, ngendlela, olu hlobo lwamadoda lusabela kakhulu ngabantu abanezifundo ezingaqhelekanga. Ewe, kwaye malunga nabafazi, le ndoda ayikwazi ukuthetha ngendlela efanelekileyo.
Abafazi abaninzi kunzima ukwaphula ubudlelwane.
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Intloko enkulu
Indoda ebambe isikhundla sobunkokeli ihlala kwinkampani enkulu. Kwaye amandla amaninzi kukho umntu onjalo, inceba engezantsi kwakho iya kuba ebhedini. Ngelishwa, le ndoda ithathela ingqalelo isini kuphela ukususa uxinzelelo, ulonwabo lwentetho apha ayihambi.
Kwaye yonke into ayilunganga
Indoda engazange iqhubeke kuyo nayiphi na into. Ukusilela kwi-quarry okanye kubomi bomntu umntu ahlangabezana nebhedi: Utsalela iqabane ngokulinganayo, ngaphandle kokumamela iminqweno yakhe. Njengomthetho, indoda enjalo ifuna umfazi ongayi kuba noxabiso lokuphikisana.
Ungasabela njani kuguqulo lomfazi
Ngelishwa, abantu basetyhini abaninzi bakhetha ukunyamezela isibongozo esinjalo, kuba kungenxa yesizathu abanakukwaphula ubudlelwane kunye nomntu onomsindo. Abafazi bosapho banzima kakhulu: abantwana kunye nemiqobo emininzi, uninzi luhlala lusisimo, ungavumeli ukuba umfazi ahambe. Ngamanye amaxesha, abasetyhini banethemba lokuba iqabane liya kutshintsha, kwaye le nto kufuneka ulinde kancinci. Nangona kunjalo, abantu batshintsha kunqabile, kwaye bahlala bengabangcono.
Kwaye okwangoku, ukuba awufuni kuphazamisa ubudlelwane, okokuqala kuko konke kuyimfuneko ukuze kwakuqonda ukuba ubundlobongela obungapheliyo ebhedini ayisiyonto eqhelekileyo, oko kuthetha ukuba umntu uyayiqonda. Kodwa kuyimfuneko ukuba uyenze ngokungathandabuzekiyo kwaye ngokuqinisekileyo hayi ngorhabazo- usuka nje omnye komnye kwaye akuyi kubakho siphumo. Ngokufanelekileyo, kodwa uqhubeka ngokuxhamla iqabane liqonde ukuba ungathanda ukufumana isisa ngakumbi kuye ukuba indoda ikwacwangcisiwe ukuba isebenze kubudlelwane, ngokuqinisekileyo iya kukuva.