Okokugqibela ndichukumise ingxaki yengxaki kubudlelwane. Namhlanje ndingathanda ukuqhubeka, kodwa kukwimeko encinci engalindelekanga.
Njengoko uyazi, zintathu iindlela zokuphuhliswa kobudlelwane emva kwengxaki.
Eyokuqala luyinguqu kwinqanaba elitsha lokuphuhliswa kobudlelwane. Eyona ndlela iphumelele kwaye iyonwabisa. Ndichukumise esi sihloko kancinci kwisithuba sam sangaphambili.
Olunye ukhetho alunamtsalane. Oku kukhathalelo kwingxaki. Kubonakala ngathi usapho lusindisiwe luphela. Kodwa imeko yangoku ayinyamezeleki, kwaye akunakwenzeka ukuba uthathe izigqibo malunga neengxaki. Ngenxa yoko, uxinzelelo oluqokelelweyo luthunyelwe kwinkani, izifo eziqatha, izifo eziqatha, utywala, ezinye izinto ukuxhomekeka, njalo njalo.
Ewe, iziphumo zesithathu luqhawulo mtshato. Njengoko benditshilo, ukoyisa ingxaki kunokwenzeka kuphela xa amaqabane omabini afuna. Ukuba omnye wabo akafuni ukutyala okungakumbi kulwalamano, awuyi kubanyanzela. Kwaye ke kuya kufuneka ugqibezele ubudlelwane ...
Ukusinda uqhawulo-mtshato kunzima kakhulu. Yiyo loo nto bathi ukwahlula kukufa okuncinci. Kwaye ukuba ayinakuphepheka? Ubomi kwenzekile, kwaye akukho nto inokwenziwa apha. Musa ukuba lusizi ngoku ngonaphakade! Kufuneka sijonge amanye amaqela afanelekileyo. Yile nto bendifuna ukuchitha iposti yam yokwenyani.
Ke, ukudibanisa uqhawulo-mtshato. Ewe, ewe, awuvanga, dibanisa.
Okokuqala, uqhawulo-mtshato aluyonto imbi kakhulu, kuba uyiphepha lohlobo lwe-2 lophuhliso lweziganeko-ukutshintsha, ukunxila, ukhathalelo lokugula kuwo onke amalungu osapho. Oko kukuthi, akusayi kuphinda kuthwala isutikheyisi ngaphandle kwesiphatho!
Omnye kunye nomnye umntu osindileyo woqhawulo mtshato uba ngumyalelo wobukhulu obukhulileyo ngakumbi. Ilungile le nto ingcono kubudlelwane. Ngamazwi kunye nezenzo zelinye aziboni nje kuphela into elele kumphezulu. Ngakumbi ukwahlula iimvakalelo zokwenene kwinkanuko.
Iqinisekisi ngamava obomi bosapho ngokwawo. Emva koqhawulo-mtshato, abantu baqala ukuqondakalisa into abayifunayo kubudlelwane, apho iintsilelo zeqabane labo bazimisele ukubeka khona, hayi. Ulindelo kunye neemfuno zobomi sesatellite ziya kuba zinele kwaye ziyinyani.
Amava okuba uhambise ikhaya elidibeneyo livela. Kukho ukuqonda indlela yokuhambisa ixesha, onokuthi unyamezele okwakho, nento oyifunayo.
Ixabiso ngamava okucwangciswa kohlahlo-lwabiwo mali losapho. Emva kwayo yonke loo nto, kunqabile ukuba kwenzeka ukuba kwanele konke ukubonwa kwawo onke amalungu osapho. Inkcitho elungileyo yokucwangcisa iZakhono zokuCwangcisa Ukuphucula umgangatho wobomi.
Kubalulekile ngamava okunxibelelana nezihlobo. Kudala kubetha isihloko esithi umaloka-in-in-in-in-umkhwekazi kwaye umkhwekazi akakhethwanga. Kwaye okungenani unxibelelwano oluncinci kunye nabo ngokungathandabuzekiyo. Kuyimfuneko ukuba ngandlel 'ithile ucinge ukuba ukwenjenjalo kwizandla esinye musa ukulwa nekratshi lakho, kodwa kwelinye-ukungakhubekisi icala elichaseneyo. Esi sisikhube esiluncedo esinokusetyenziswa kwezinye iimeko zobomi.
Kukho ixesha elisimahla, elinokuchithwa, njengentliziyo yakho.
Oku kuthetha ukuba kukho amathuba amaninzi okwakha umsebenzi, ixesha elongezelelweyo livela ngokuziphuhliswa, ungandisa uluhlu lwezinto ozithandayo kwaye njalo njalo.
Okokugqibela, kuza kufundiswa iingxabano eziphela, ukucaciswa kweRugan kunye nokucaciswa okungapheliyo kubudlelwane. Ungaphili nabani na omnye umntu ukuba atshicele ubuchopho kwaye unyamezele isidlo. Ungayikhuthaza kwaye kumnandi ukuthi: "Adyn, SavSham Adyn!"
Mhlawumbi umntu uza kuba nombuzo, kodwa kuthekani ngabantwana ngoku? Kulungile! Usapho apho iingxabano kunye neembambano ezininzi, apho abazali baba ngabasemzini omnye komnye, abasayi kuba luncedo kumntwana. Akayi konwaba kuye. Yabantwana, ukudibana nabantwana nabazali, uthando nokuqonda kwabo, hayi indawo yokuhlala kwindawo enye yokuhlala. Ngapha koko, kubi ukucinga ukuba loluphi "ubomi bentsapho obonwabisayo" ngumntwana ngenxa yoko. Kwaye nokuba angadala eyakhe intsapho yakhe kule modeli.
Uqhawulo-mtshato lunokuba lukhuni, olumangalisayo kwaye alunakunyamezelwa, kodwa asikukuphela kwehlabathi. Yonke into imbi kwaye engathandekiyo iphela. Emva komtya omnyama kuya kuqinisekisa ukuba mhlophe. Kwaye emva koko unokujonga uqhawulo-mtshato njengetikiti kubomi obutsha-simahla, entle kwaye yonwabile. Apho unokwakha yonke into ngendlela eyahlukileyo, njengoko ufuna. Akukho nalapho kwathi akukho thulu ngaphandle kokulunga. Akuyi kubakho ulonwabo, kodwa intlekele yanceda;)