Njengomthetho, ukuba uza kubuya obunetyhefu, ngokukhawuleza siyicinga ngendlela ephatha rhabaxa kumfazi wabo. Kwimeko enjalo, kunqabile ukulungisa umntu, kwaye ukwahlukana kuya kuba nzima. Nangona kunjalo, kwimeko yomsindo ohamba nawe, akukho lula kakhulu ukumisela ukuba yintoni ingxaki. Sigqibe kwelokuba siqokelele iimpawu eziphambili zokudlula, kodwa yonke into ebaluleke kakhulu eyingozi kwilungu leqabane, ekufuneka libizelwe nguwe - mhlawumbi kufuneka ucinge, kwaye ukuba ubudlelwane obunjalo kufuneka bucinge ntoni?
Indoda ishiya uxanduva
Ibhinqa ngalinye kwi-subwer linethemba lokuba umntu ukuba angasombululeki nakweyiphi na ingxaki, emva koko okungenani uya kuxhasa ukuba kunjalo, kodwa umntu ohamba phambili uguqukayo uguqula imbopheleleko yamagxa e-PA ebuthathaka, kwaye akunakude. Ukuba loo ndlela yokuziphatha ixhaswa zizityholo zedilesi yakho, makungathandabuzeki ukuba- iqabane "ityhefu" ubudlelwane bakho, ujonge indlela yokulawula.
Awungekhe unyuke
Omnye uphawu lobudlelwane obunempilo- unokuhlala ubala ukunxibelelana ngokwasemzimbeni, kodwa hayi kwicebo elisondeleyo, kodwa nje kwifom yokuqalisa kunye nokugona. Iqabane elinetyhefu liguqula nakuphi na ukunxibelelana ngokwasemzimbeni khuthazo- kuya kunxila kwaye kubonakalise ukuthuka kwakhe nangaliphi na iziqhinga.
Kubudlelwane obunempilo apho kuhlala kuxhasa
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Awuqondi- iqabane linomsindo okanye hayi
Eyona nto ingqumbo iguqukayo kukuba umntu ubonakalisa iimvakalelo ezimbi ngendlela efihlakeleyo, kodwa hayi kwiminqweno, kodwa ngenxa yokuba ungquzulwano oluvulekileyo, kufuneka ube nenkalipho, ngenxa yoko banako Ukuzinqanda kwaye "ityhefu" iqabane njengoko zinokukwenza okona kulungileyo.
I-goror ibur-nto yethu
Uninzi luhlala lugculela kunye ne-sarcasm, ngamanye amaxesha buhlungu kakhulu, yindlela yokucinezela ukuzithemba kweqabane, kwaye ukuba uqala ukutyeshela, umntu uya kuqonda nje ukuba ungaziqondi nje iziyobisi - uya kuba netyala. Yintoni enomdla, le ndoda yazi ngokuqinisekileyo ukuba eli nani lingayi kudlula, kwaye lihlala 'liqhekeza "umntu ongayi kuba nakho ukuphindezela ukudiliza, oko kukuthi, kuwe.