Kubo bonke ogqirha sidlulela kube kanye ngonyaka, ugqirha wamazinyo kunye ne-gynecologist ibangela uvuyo olukhethekileyo. Esokuqala ikwazile ukuyisoyikisa ebuntwaneni, kwaye akukho lula ukususa iinkumbulo zangaphambili zangaphambili, nokuba uqinisekile ukuba uya kukwamkela, imincili ayikushiyi. Kodwa ngenxa yengcali yabasetyhini, yonke into ayilulanga apha. Zininzi iingcali ezilungileyo kakhulu, kodwa okungenani kube kanye eyokwamkelwa kwi-gynecologist, eguqula ihlabathi lakho. Malunga nendlela eyenzeka ngayo, kwaye wenza ntoni ukuba indlela yokuziphatha kogqirha ikukhathaza, siza kuthetha namhlanje.
"Kutheni ungabeki?"
Ngo "Meyiri" apho yayiphantse yaphantse yonke intombazana. Ayisiyiyo kuphela ukuba "Wena", kuyanyanzelwa ukuba ugwetywe ukuba awufanele uyenze loo nto. Kwaye naziphi na iingxaki zakho onxibelelana ngazo "ziya kuba zigwetyelwe" ngokuthi "ukuthandabuza ukwenza umsebenzi wendalo".
"Kulungile, wena usungulwe"
Nasiphi na, kwanengxaki esemgangathweni kunye nabasemagunyeni abasemagunyeni, esisonjululwa ngekhondo lamachiza, likhonzwa njengentlekele yesikali sendalo. "Ubuphi ngaphambili?" Okanye "kuhle, ngoku andazi ukuba ndenze ntoni ngawe" amabinzana awodwa kakhulu enza imvakalelo yeentsuku ezininzi.
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"Ujonge phi?"
Eyona nto ingathandekiyo xa kusekho kwimeko enjalo kufuneka imamele amagqabaza angangeni kwelinye icala kwicala lakho, kodwa nakwamaqabane okanye umyeni wabo. "Ukuba ulandele ngocoselelo umyeni wam, ngendingena ngokuvuvukala" - phantse ibinzana elisemgangathweni apho i-gynecologist ihamba ngaphaya kobungcali.
Ngaba kunokwenzeka ukukhusela amalungelo akho?
Nditsho nemfuno. Ingakumbi kuba unelungelo lokungalunganga kakhulu.
"Ndiziva ndingakhululekanga"
Akukho nto ityhafileyo eya kuxela imincili yam. Ukuba ugqirha uyingcali yokwenene, ngokuqinisekileyo uya kuphuma kwaye uya kubamba yonke i-wimiulations njengokhululekile kuwe. Ngaphandle koko, lo ayinguye ugqirha wakho.
"Ndiyakucela ukuba uvale esi sihloko"
Ungaze undezeleke ziimvakalelo ezingathandekiyo ngokwasemzimbeni, okanye kwisicwangciso seemvakalelo. Sihlala sinexhala lokuba singakhululekanga kwaye sibize ingqumbo kagqirha, kodwa ngubani amalungelo abo, ukuba akunjalo? Uya kuziva uqiniseka ngakumbi.
"Masihambe kuluhlu"
Kuwo onke amabamkeli, sihamba noluhlu oluthile lemibuzo enyanzelekileyo ukuba iphendule, kodwa ayisoloko ifuna ukwenza le nto, ibhekisele kwindawo enkulu, okanye yintoni ebaluleke kakhulu - iqala ukusohlwaya. Yima uye kwiKhabhinethi yoGqice oyiNtloko ukuba ubhale isikhalazo.