Sele ndichaphazele izihloko ezinjalo njengengxaki kubudlelwane, ingxaki yoqhawulo mtshato, njalo njalo. Nangona kunjalo, abaninzi baya kuqhubeka bebuza ukuba kutheni le nto ezinye iintsapho ziphila ixesha elide kwaye zonwabile, kwaye abanye baphila khona kunyaka wokuqala okanye ubomi bobabini. Kutheni yenzeka?
Ndiphakamisa omnye ujonge unobangela weengxaki kubudlelwane phakathi kwendoda nomfazi. Ngokwesithi, Ulindelo lwethu olungathandekiyo oluvela kolu lwalamano lunokuba yiyo yonke into.
Kule thuba, ndifuna ukuthetha ngolindelo oluqhelekileyo olunetyhefu ubomi bethu.
Ke, ezona zisiseko luthi ulindelo lweqabane lentetho ethile yothando. Kwiintsapho ezahlukeneyo, kulisiko ukwenza ngeendlela ezahlukeneyo, kwaye ngamanye amaxesha asikwazi nokucinga malunga nento eyenzekayo ngokwahlukileyo. Unokuzisa iqela lemizekelo, kuba le ngxaki ikhoyo kumaxesha omqolomba. Khawufane ucinge ngendoda yeza ekhaya kunye nokuzingela. Imini yonke wayejonga owona mkhulu mkhulu no-suby, ukuba bambulale, bazise umfazi wakhe. Wafumana i-hick yeenkuni, ukuze ubushushu bomqolomba. Ndandingayithandi yonke into. Nonke intanda yakho! Banoyolo, bacinga ukuba uya kuyithanda intanda yakhe. Kwaye wayecaphukile. Akadingi imammoti okanye iinkuni. Yintyatyambo yegumbi lentsimi, kodwa ke kuko okungakumbi. Kwaye umyeni akaqondi ukuba yintoni ingxaki - nokuba i-mammoti inkulu ngokwaneleyo, okanye kukho iinkuni ezingekho mthethweni ... ngoko ke, ngaphandle komntu omnye. Kwaye konke kuba kwintsapho yomfazi wakhe, ubomi bonke babugcwele zizintanda kunye nesisa. Wayeneqela loodade. Bonke abazali babo bahamba, bahleka, bagobe kwaye bancumile. Kwaye kwintsapho yomyeni wakhe, bonke abantwana yayingamakhwenkwe, uTata wayehlala phantsi, waqhuba ukuzingela, kwaye umama wayehlala ekhaya walinda wonke umntu, walinda wonke umntu ngokuhlwa. Ngenxa yoko, ukusuka kubudala, kunye nobisi lukamama, imana ka-Leamsha, i-Mammid yaseMamont yabulala wonke umntu wafunda imodeli yakhe yokubonakalisa uthando nokukhathalela ukuba alandele isiqingatha sakhe. Ewe, kunjalo, bendilinde indlela yokuziphatha ehambelana nemodeli efanayo.
Le meko iphinda iphindwe kwiimeko ezahlukeneyo nakwiimeko zobomi.
Kwenzeka ukuba amaqabane afune okufanayo, kodwa abe neentloni ukuba avume omnye komnye, elindele ukungaqondani okanye nokuba ngabagxeki. Umzekelo, ngokuhlwa, ezihamba kunye ukuya kutyelela, apho kumnandi, inkampani enengqungquthela kunye nolunye uvuyo lucwangcisiweyo. Kodwa enzonzobileni komphefumlo, wonke umntu uphuphulaza ekhaya, uhlala kunye, eyedwa. Kwaye bobabini bathule. Ngenxa yoko, ngokuhlwa kwemini ngemigodi emude yenziwa kwinkampani yabahlobo. Kwaye kwakhona ukungabinamsebenzi. Kwaye ukuba bayamkelwa kwiminqweno yabo, baziva bonwabile kwaye banelisekile.
Rhoqo siwela kumgibe, xa silindele ukuba ukuba okhethwe kwethu / bakhethwa ngandlel 'ithile, waziphatha ngendlela, waziphethe ngokunxulumene nesibini esandulelayo, kuya kuba yimfuneko ekuziphatheni ngokunxulumene nathi. Umzekelo, intombazana yale mihla yaqhelana nomfana omncinci. Wathandana ngokungazi nto. Kwaye kuyahambelana. Wamenza umnikelo, wavuma. Kubonakala ngathi bonke bonwabile. Ngequbuliso wafumanisa ukuba evela kowase wakudala wafuna ukuba wayesoloko elungele. Uyothukile, ulinde ngenkani? Kwaye akayazi indlela yokupheka ngayo konke konke nangaphezulu, akayithandi! Olu lo ulindelo alusongqondo kwaye lucela iitsheki. Emva kwayo yonke loo nto, babebudlelwane obunye ngokupheleleyo. Abantu batshintsha kwaye imeko iyatshintsha. Le ntombazana ingakangaze ikhumbule ukuba kukho ezinye izibonelelo ekuwo ukuba umfana wakhe azixabise ngakumbi. Oko kubulala kunye naye, ufuna enye.
Phambi kwemfumba endifuna ukongeza ukuba sinokuba kukuthinjwa kokuthinjwa kwethu kuthi. Le ntombazana igqiba ekubeni akuyi kubakho kuqala ukubiza le ndoda kwaye ilindele ukuba ilandele isigqibo sakhe, kodwa ngesizathu esithile asimi kwaye senze umnxeba othile. Emva koko, iSinyanga inde kuye kwaye ngokuqinisekileyo oku kubangela ukukhathazeka ngokuyintloko.
Ukusuka kwicala, njengakwimovie, yonke into iyabonakala, kodwa, ijonge inyani, silahlekile, sicaphukile kwaye siziva singonwabanga. Yintoni onokuyenza ngolindelo lwakho?
Okokuqala, kufuneka balandelwe kwaye baxoxwa kunye nesiqingatha sabo sesibini. Oku kuyakuphucula ubudlelwane bakho. Ukukhohlisa okungapheliyo kunye nokuthuka okuthe cwaka kuyanyamalala. Isixa sobuchule kwiyunithi nganye yexesha siyancipha. I-voltage iya kuwa.
Ewe kunjalo, ayisoloko ilindelwe ngamaqabane ehlanganile. Kodwa akukho mntu urhoxisiweyo. Unokunikezela ngemicimbi egqithisileyo, kule nto, ayo, awunakukwazi naphi na. Ngayiphi na imeko, kuyakhawuleza ngakumbi kunokuba ukuhlala, linda, xa umfanekiso owuthandayo (Aya) uqikelela malunga neminqweno, kwaye ugcine ukungabikho kokungoneliseki. Ukuthinjelwa kokulindelweyo, sisihlutha ubomi bethu bomvubuzo, ukuqaqamba kunye nokungaqiniseki. Ukongeza, ngaphandle kokuba nolindelo lwamabhongo kwiqabane, sifumana ithuba elininzi lokufumana isimangalo kuyo ;-)