Iindlela ezithandwayo "zilandele iphupha kwaye zenze le nto uyithandayo" kwaye "ungaze uphinde ukutshintsha ubomi" Kuqala kwabonakala ngathi yonke into ibingenanto ilula kakhulu. Ndiza kuzama ukuchaza amanyathelo ayi-8 afanelekileyo ekufuneka ukwenze ukuze iphupha lingajiki ekuphoxekeni.
Mamela umzimba
Uncwadi kunye noqeqesho ekuphunyezweni kweenjongo namhlanje zininzi. "Yenza ntoni, kwaye ube yintoni" - ndisondele kolu khetho. Kodwa ungayiqonda njani into ekufuneka yenziwe? Kukho izikhombisi ezininzi, enye yazo - umzimba. Ukuba umzimba uyabanqanda, izifo ezenzeka, kwaye zonke ezi zinto zibangelwa kukuhlala, nto leyo eyayibonakala ngathi iyazi kwaye iyaqondakala- ifanele ivunyiwe ukuba ixesha lokutshintsha lifikile. Ndiqinisekile, kukho abantu abanethamsanqa abakwaziyo ukukuqaphela ukuba ngaba ibanika inqwelo moya eboniswa libinzana elichazwe kwi-Confucius: "Fumana isifundo somphefumlo kwaye awuzange usebenze." Kodwa bambalwa abanjalo. Into ebalulekileyo kukuba umntu unokuba nesiphiwo kwizikhombisi ezininzi, kwaye ngamanye amaxesha awanakuthathi ukuba, ngelixa ubomi abuphosi ithuba lokuzama into entsha.
Sukuya
Apha ndingathanda ukukhumbula umxholo wengqondo yengqondo yaseSerbii Kovalev. Uphawula ukuba umntu unemijikelezo eminyaka eminyaka, ethi ngamanani achazwe ngabo ukusuka kule: 0-6 - ixesha lokuqokelelwa kwezakhono ezisisiseko (ukuhamba, i-akhawunti ...); IXESHA LOKUQWALASELWA Ulwazi olusisiseko; 18-30 - Ixesha lokwahluka kubazali bobomi, kubandakanya usapho; 30-42 - Uphuhliso lomsebenzi (njengommiselo, ukufikelela kwincopho kumsebenzi onyuliweyo), uphuhliso losapho, kwaye nantsi ifikile i-42-54 - utshintsho olunokwenzeka. Kwakulobudala beminyaka, ngokoluvo lwayo, ukhetho oluphakathi "olugudileyo" kwaye luqale isipho esitsha, esingalindelekanga, kwaye oku kusoloko kudibana nokuphuma kwi INDAWO YOKUQHALASELA ... Nokuba ngamandla? Akunjalongo noko. Kwaye ayinguye wonke umntu odingozayo. Uninzi lwanelisekile yinyani yokuba bafumene ukukhula. Unonophelo lwabazukulwana baqala. Kwaye umntu uyakwazi ukhula kwaye akhule kumsebenzi okhethiweyo de kube sekupheleni kobomi.
Igqwetha langaphambili, kwaye ngoku imvumi kunye nomqambi uAmary
Ifoto: i-Elena Majorova
Jonga inkxaso yomntu okholelwa kuwe
Kwimbali yam, lo mntu waba yintombi yam - Liubov Kazarnovskaya. Nguye owandithumayo kwiiklasi zezango, kwaye ngequbuliso, ikota yenkulungwane kamva, ndaphinda ndenza iiklasi zomculo, kwaye yintoni? Kwiveki emva kwesifundo sokuqala notitshala ocetyiswayo yiyo, ndibuyele ekufumaneni iingoma. Kwabuyiswa- kwiminyaka le yokufunda kwisikolo somculo, amava okubhala. Okubangela umdla kukuba, ndafudukela kumculo ngamava oncwadi-wabhala ndakhupha iincwadi ezininzi. Ngokubanzi, ubizo luhlala lubonakaliswa ebuntwaneni, ke ukuba ngequbuliso uthathe isigqibo sokutshintsha lo msebenzi, khumbula ukuba umphefumlo uneminyaka engama-7-10 ubudala.
Yiba nombulelo kumava
I-Jurispridence kunye neMfundo yaseyunivesithi endinombulelo ongazenzisiyo ngamava obomi, uphuhliso lwezakhono zoluntu, ukufumana iiplani zokuziqhelanisa, isiseko esikhulu sezicatshulwa. Yonke into inexesha layo. Andizukuyeka ixesha elide kuzo zonke iinkalo, ndiza kuthi malunga neyona nto iphambili: Imeko yezobulungisa kunye nenkqubo yokunyanzeliswa komthetho ngo-2014 azindifumani nto, ndaye ndaziyeka ngokupheleleyo, ngaphandle kokuzisola. Ngeli xesha, ndibuyele kwi-albhamu yomculo yayilungile ngesiRashiya nesiNgesi.
Ungacingi ngento eza kuthini?
Ewe, bendingekho lula kwigqwetha ukuba ndijike ndibe yimvumi. Ukongeza, ngo-2014, intombi yazalwa-umyeni wethu nomyeni wakhe. I-albhamu yagqitywa nayo, inguqulelo yaseRussia yabhalwa ngenyanga yesibhozo yokukhulelwa. Kwaye ngokuthe ngcembe ndaqonda ukuba ngokuhamba kwexesha andiyi kuba nakho ukudibanisa amandla anzima ngamandla kunye nokuyila. Ukuhlulela ngomsebenzi oqhubeka malunga neminyaka emibini, ngaphandle - ixesha elincinci, abaninzi bandityhafisa kwinyathelo, uninzi lwabo, lubonakala ngathi ndivumelana ngaye nakwesigqibo - Ibiyizolile kakhulu inqaku lonke lokujonga imithetho eqhelekileyo yobomi obuqhelekileyo.
Sondela kumanye amazwe!
Usapho luhlala lubutyebi obutolo. Eyona nto ifanelekileyo "ukubheja" kunye nomyeni wakhe, okanye kunokukhathazeka. Bonke baqala ngenyaniso yokuba umntu osebenza naye kwi-ofisi yezomthetho kucetywa ukuba azame ukucula kwisitudiyo esiqeqeshiweyo. Ingcinga ibonakala iyimfihlo kum: Bhalisa eStudio, ngoba? Umyeni wam waxhaswa leli phulo, ukuba acekise, ngokungathi, ngendlela, ukuba uAdel neengoma zakhe mihle, kodwa nyani, khumbula yonke into embi engaphambi kwam. " Ke, "ngobuthathaka", ngoku ndiqalana iingoma ezingaphezu kwe-120, kwaye umntu esiye saqala ukurekhoda ePuorio - i-Eugene Riov, ukusukela ngoko umntu osisigxina weqela leAmaria, ukwakhiwa kwalo okhethwe ngawo okhethwe, kuphelelwe kukutshintsha ukusukela ekuphumeni kokuqala kwendawo ngo-2016.
Baxhaswa kwaye abazali banityala bani nangomculo, kunye namava okuqala aphezulu: Kwiminyaka emithandathu ethetha "efudumeleyo" ka-Hota Pieokhi phambi kwabasebenzi bakhe ePoland, apho uBawo wakho wakho wakho wayisebenza khona; Kwindawo enye, uMama noPopu badale abantwana nge "Ukuhlwaywa kwe-RED", apho bendidlalile kwijenali yombane kwaye ndicule. Kubo, kwakumangalisa ukubuyela kwam kumculo emva kweminyaka emininzi. Kodwa ukumangalisa kwakumnandi.
Yilungiselele umona
Ngokomgaqo, andizange ndiwuqonde umthombo wale mvakalelo ngaphambili, kwakubonakala ngathi ndinomona- yinto engathethekiyo kwaye ayisosizathu. Akukho mntu unokuthetha ngokuzithemba kunokuba wayehlawula okanye ehlawula ekugqibeleni umntu. Kodwa xa ndifunda ivolumu ye-Wightom yencwadi yesikhokelo kwi-psychology, apho kwahlulwa khona umona kwiindlela ezimbini: kwaye le mvakalelo icinyiwe ngomona, unokukhetha okanye Zama ukuyifumana) kunye nomona kwiimpawu zobuqu zomntu (kunye naye inkathazo, ayityebi, ngokoqobo, ubuncinci: Uhlobo olunjalo lomona luyapheliswa Ukufa komxholo).
Andisasebenzi nangayiphi na indlela. Kwaye andichazanga nto. Oku sele kwixesha elidlulileyo, ukuzama ukuchaza into. Sonke sifuna ukuba selula ukubonwa utshintsho kwisiqhelo. Uqikelelo malunga nesi sihlandlo unokuqonda kwaye yamkele. Kwaye incinci impendulo, kuya kuba lula ukugcina ubudlelwane. Ukulungelelaniswa kuza. Hayi kubo bonke. Kanye nabo banganyamezeliyo, bengasekho endleleni.
Landela imiqondiso
Yenza into emele yenzeke, kwaye yiyo eya kwenzeka. Umphefumlo uhlala uyayazi impendulo efanelekileyo. Ukuba kukho amathandabuzo, iyaqhubeka ixesha elide (iminyaka) ayinakunkqonkqoza emnyango ovaliweyo. Ukuba umendo wakho, kuya kubakho imiqondiso, abantu abatsha baya kuza, kwaye kuxa ixesha lokuthandabuza ligqityiwe. Kwaye kubaluleke kakhulu ukuphucuka, ukufunda, ukuya rhoqo ngaphaya kwemida yezinto ezinokwenzeka, ngokusebenzisa "andikwazi".