Sonke siyayazi ukuba indoda ngokwemvelo yayo, ikhathaza kwaye yakha ubudlelwane nabafazi. Ngokuqinisekileyo unomhlobo okanye umhlobo osoloko ekhalaza ukuba le ndoda inomdla kwaoko. Ewe kunjalo, okuninzi kuxhomekeke kubume bentombazana, kodwa kuyenzeka ukuba thina bethu asiziboni ukuba imiqondiso emnika ukuba iqonde ukuba ayizukubangela umdla kuwe ngoku, kwaye ke ngoko akwenzi mqondo phuhlisa ubudlelwane kunye nawe.
Masifumanise oko kusinika umfazi okhululekileyo.
Uhlala unxibelelana
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Uphendula kuyo yonke imiyalezo kunye neefowuni.
Nokuba wenza into ebaluleke kakhulu kuwe, kodwa apha indoda yamaphupha akho ibiza, phosa yonke into kwaye ibaleke iyokubhala umyalezo wokuphendula. Kwaye inokuba iphantsi "unjani?" Okanye "Wenza ntoni?": Sele ulungele ukuphazanyiswa yimpendulo yakho. Indoda idla ngokukhawuleza kwinto yokuba uhlala unxibelelana, imincili yakhe phambi kobizo okanye ukuthumela umyalezo odanile ngokuhamba kwexesha. Njengomdla kuwe.
Zama ukwenza ikhefu okanye uphendule ekupheleni kosuku, nokuba awuxakekanga: Isibane sanyikima ngamadoda amanqam onesihloko "Kutheni engaphenduli" akasoze wenzakalise.
Ishedyuli yakho iphantsi kwiminqweno yakhe.
Sele unyule intlanganiso kunye neentombi endingakhange ndizibone kwi-Insent, kodwa apha uyandifowunela aze akumemele uchithe ngokuhlwa, kuba wakhulula ngaphambili emsebenzini. Akukho nto imbi ngakumbi kunokuvuma isithembiso. Ityala elinzima ngakumbi, xa ungacwangcisiyo nantoni na ngempela ngethemba lokuba umntu uya kubiza ukuba umntu azokubiza, kwaye, njengesiqhelo, oku akwenzekanga.
Khumbula ukuba kuqala kufuneka ukhathalele ixesha lakho kunye nemithambo yakho engafuneki ukuba ichitha ilize. Cacisa le ndoda ukuba unemicimbi yakho ecwangcisiweyo ongenakuyitshintsha ngenxa ye-whim yayo. Makaziqhelanise nawe. Ke uyakuqonda ukuba umhlaba wakho awusodisiyo ngeenxa zonke kwiminqweno yakhe.
Ukulungele ukunika abahlobo
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Uqhotyoshelwe phantsi kwe-Nat
Kwenzeka ukuba isiqingatha sesibini sisenokungamthandi umntu okusingqongileyo. Amanye amadoda enza nje inkangeleko ecekeceke ngayo xa le ngxoxo iza kuyicaphukisa intombi yakho, kwaye enye into xa indoda yakho iyakuvumela ukuba unxibelelane nabantu. Kwakhona, akunakwenzeka ukuvumela omnye umntu ukuba acinezele ukuthanda kwakho. Ndixelele ukuba azikulungelanga ukutshintsha iindawo ezingqongileyo kuba uchasene nawo. Indoda eqhelekileyo iya kuhlala iluxabisa ubunzima bakho kwiinkolelo.
Uyavuma kuyo yonke into
Nokuba awusithandi isithembiso, awufuni ukuyicaphukisa le ndoda. Abafazi abaninzi babonakala ngathi intetho yombono wakhe ihambisa iqabane lenkqubela phambili, kodwa eneneni ninika umntu umntu ukuba aqonde ukuba uya kulandela umntu, kodwa uya kuhlala usenza isigqibo ngokwakho.
Nguwe owangumqali wemihla
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Uhlala uvela kunye nomqalisi weentlanganiso
Njengoko besitshoyo, indoda ngumzingeli, okuthetha ukuba kukho naliphi na inyathelo lokuqala kuye. Nje ukuba abone ukuba intombazana inomdla onamandla kuye, idrave idlule ngokukhawuleza. Kwaye okunene, kutheni umntu ekhanyayo xa umfazi esemandleni akhe.
Nokuba injani itreyini, kodwa emfazini apho kufanele ukuba kubekho okungenani imfihlakalo, kungenjalo amadoda aya kuqhubeka nokuchitha ixesha elincinci kunye nawe.