Ukuza kuthi ga ngoku, unokufumana inani elimangalisayo loqeqesho kuphuhliso lobufazi. Zonke iintlobo zebhlog kunye nee-sexgogistrs zibonelela ngeenkonzo zabo kwabo bafuna ukuzithemba ngakumbi. Kwaye ngokwenene, abafazi abaninzi abahle bahlala bodwa, nangona babenayo yonke into yokufumana isiqingatha sabo. Kodwa oku kukuqala nje kokuqala. Yintoni unobangela wokufihlakeleyo ngokwesini?
Njengoko oogqirha bezengqondo babekholelwa, yonke loo nto kwiimvakalelo ezifudukayo, ezakhiwe ebuntwaneni. Abazali bentombazana abanakuchaza nje ukuba ubudlelwane bomntwana buya kuhlala buhleli. Ngokuqhelekileyo, abazali badlala umntwana, baphendula kwiimvakalelo zayo ezithenda, nangona ifomathi yobudlelwane inokwenzeka kuphela kwiqabane lakhe.
Xa intombazana enjalo ikhula, kuya kubakho isidingo sokuthandana nekhawunta nganye, kuba wenza into efanayo ebuntwaneni kunye nabazali bakhe bayithanda.
Nangona kunjalo, kubudala, umfazi akasayi kusoloko eqonda ukuba abazali baqhubeki. Emva kothotho lokusilela kubudlelwane, umfazi unokuphoxeka ngokwawo kunye nomtsalane wayo.
Njengoko ubona, zonke iingxaki zesondo zihamba ukusuka ebuntwaneni kwaye zinxulumene ngokuthe ngqo nesimo sengqondo somzali. Ke indlela yokwenza ukuba uguqukile ukuba yedwa nendoda, kodwa woyika ukutyhila?
Indoda yakho sele ikunyulile
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Kufuneka uziqiniseke kumtsalane wakho.
Xa sikholelwa kwinto ejikeleze ngokungazi siqale ukuyikholelwa. Qonda ukuba umntu othile ukhetha wena, emva koko ukwazini, emva koko utsala yonke into kuwe. Funda nje ukuzithatha kwaye uzigxeke, ubusuku buya kudlula ngomlingo.
Gxininisa izibonelelo
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Akukho sidingo sokuthelekisa
Kuya kuhlala kukho umntu ongcono kunawe. Yinyani. Xa ujonga khona, mhlawumbi qaphela abafazi abanomdla ngakumbi. Nangona kunjalo, ayilingani ngokulinganayo nolusu olucekeceke okanye abafazi ngolusu olugudileyo. Kuya kufuneka ugxile kuwe kwaye ucinge ngento engeyiyo ebhedini.
Iluncedo lwakho - Amandla akho
Uyazi ukuba leliphi icandelo lomzimba wakho ebangela ukuba kuvuyisa abantu. Yithathe kuye. Masithi amadoda atsala isifuba sakho: Yenza yonke into ebonakala igqibelele, yenza imithambo ekhethekileyo, ukhathalele indawo ye-mineline, njl njl.