Isihloko se-orgasm sihlala sihambelana. Unyango lwe-psychotherapist, umqeqeshi wokuphunyezwa kwenjongo ka-Ilya Baretsev kunye nonyango lwe-RTT-PHEAP, UMQEQESHO WOPHUHLISO, uIrina Shekunov, wagqiba kwelokuba akhuphe iintsomi ezimbalwa ezinxulumene nayo.
I-ITO: Rhoqo ndiye ndiva kwabanye ukuba amadoda ane-orgasm ukuba aqhubeke nohlobo, kwaye abafazi babonakala bengakhululekanga. Kum, le yimpumlo egqibeleleyo. Ngokwazi kwam, i-orgasm ihambelana kakhulu nokutshintshiselana ngamandla phakathi kwabantu. Kwaye ayingawo onke amadoda aphela nge-orgasm. Ndizahlulahlula inkqubo yemveliso kunye nokuqhushumba kwezakhono, njengoko ii-daoists zahlulwa. Ngapha koko, ngokwenyani, amadoda eTaioist wayekwazi ukuba ungamfumana njani i-orgasm xa i-aurora ayizange idubule. Kuyavela ukuba sinokuba nempembelelo koku, oko kuthetha ukuba sinokuyilawula. Kwangelo xesha, i-80% yabasetyhini ayifikeleli kwi-Everest. Kuyathakazelisa ukuva ibhinqa lijonge le ngxaki.
Irina: Ewe, isihloko siyachaphazeleka. Ngamava am kunye namava abathengi bam, eyona ndlela ilula ukuya kwi-orgasm ilele ... intloko. Esona sizathu sokungabikho kwakhe liqabane eliqinisekileyo. Ulungile kwinto yokuba i-orgasm ayisiyinkqubo yomzimba, kodwa ikwanamandla. Ijika isondo esingazi nto-ukuzilahlekisa, nyibilikisa iqabane. Ngeli xesha kukho ilahleko epheleleyo yolawulo, kwaye ke intloko ayinikezeli ngokupheleleyo ulonwabo. Kwaye ke, ukuba akukho qabane lizithembayo, umzimba uqalisa ukuzikhusela ngokungazi, ukuvimba i-orgasm, ukuze kungabikho kwimeko enokuthathwa njengengozi. Isitshixo sikwindlela yokuphumla ngokupheleleyo kunye nokuthembana. Kwaye abanandawo yokulawula.
I-ITO: Ndiyavuma. Ndikwakholelwa ukuba akukho nto yenzekayo. Ukuba ufuna ukuphumla, kwaye ngequbuliso kwinkqubo kukho ukungaziqondi, ngokuqinisekileyo kuyintsimbi. Ukusilela okucwangcisiweyo kumadoda akubizwa ngokubangenakungenakungena ngaphakathi, kwabasetyhini - ukusilela kwe-orgasm. Kubo, njengommiselo, into ifanelekile: ubudlelwane kunye neqabane, ukwenzakala kwabantwana, ukuzonwabisa, njl njl. Ukuba ungathethi malunga neengxaki zezakhono. Vuka uye kwi-psychotherapist. Kodwa mhlawumbi kukho naziphi na izinto ezinqabileyo kuwe ekuzeni ukuba wabelane nabafundi ukuze kube lula ukuba bavuke kwibhaluni ngaphezulu kwamafu?
Irina: Kwimeko apho sithetha ngezinto obunempilo othanda ukuba neqabane kwaye ufuna ukuba kunye naye, kwaye ndiyathemba ukuba abafundi bethu babanjwe ngabantu abanjengeqabane, ndiza kukucebisa ukuba uthethe neqabane kwaye wabelane ngento oyiyo. Ukudibana ngakumbi neemvakalelo zayo, i-massage yokuphumla isebenza ngokugqibeleleyo, eziya kukunceda ufunde ezona zinto zinobuthathaka. Ukujonga ngokuthe ngqo kweliso kwiqabane kuya kukunceda womeleze imvakalelo yokusondela phakathi kwakho kwaye ucime ingqondo. Ungazama ukufunda kule nkqubo, ukunikezela ngequbuliso kwesilwanyana, kuya kunceda ukutshintshela entloko kwimvakalelo.
Ukuba yonke le nto ayizizisi ziphumo, ke mhlawumbi ingxaki inzulu: inokunyibilika kwiimvakalelo ezingalunganga kwiqabane okanye zenzakaliso ngaphambili. Kule meko, ndiza kuncomela ukunxibelelana nengxaki kwi-psychotherapist.
Kwaye abo basakhangela kwisiqingatha sabo sesibini, ukuze ubomi kunye ne-orgasms eqaqambileyo, singathanda ukumema iqabane lethu loqeqesho kuqeqesho lwethu.