Mhlawumbi, gca ngalinye libali xa usiya kwindibakazi yakho oyithandayo kwaye ungxamile ngengozi kwividiyo entle yomculi, endingayivanga ngayo. Kwenzeka ukuba ubuntu bomculi butsala kakhulu kangangokuba awusaqapheli ukuba uhlaziye zonke iziqwengana nodliwanondlebe. Kwaye oku kuyinto eqhelekileyo. Nangona kunjalo, iingxaki ziqala ngalo mzuzu xa ungasacingeli ubomi bakho ngaphandle kweyure ngaphandle kokucofa kwifoto yomculi wakho owuthandayo. Siyintoni isizathu sokuxhomekeka kumthombo wosasazo, esinokuthi, sisenokwenzeka ukuba sidibana? Sizamile ukufumanisa.
Apho "imilenze" ikhula khona
Umntu othile uya kuthi ukuba umntu othanda ukurhanelwa "wazalwa" ngokufika kweenkwenkwezi zokuqala zelitye kwinkulungwane edluleyo, kodwa ngaba kunjalo? Kunyanzelekile ukuba angavumelani. Umnqweno wokutshutshisa phambi kommeli onempembelelo kwaye ummeli woluntu lwakhe waqala ukukhula ukusuka kumzuzu abantu baqalisa ukumanyana eluntwini ukuze baphile. Babedinga inkokeli eya kuthi iqinisekise ukhuseleko nokuhlutha isizwe. Kwangelo xesha, abantu bathe ngokuthe ngcembe, abantu bafika kwinto yokuba kukho into engenakwenzeka ukuba kuvakalelwe kukuba, kwaye kungoko ke iinkokeli zesizwe zabelekayo kunye nezona zahlukane abanye. Umbutho uye waqulunqa ngokukhawuleza, kwaye uyaqhubeka nokukhula ngoku, kodwa umnqweno wokukhetha inkokeli, kwaye ayinamsebenzi - inyani okanye engapheliyo - kodwa ifumene enye ifom.
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Kwenzeka ntoni ngoku
Inethiwekhi yoluntu isinike ithuba ukuba ukungasondeli kudumo, kodwa ubuncinci uzenzele ukuba uhlala kufutshane: i-Instagram "kwaye ikhubekile kwifoto entsha yenkwenkwezi, efana Wena, uvuke, uqalisa ukubonakala ngathi awukwenzi mahluko. Iinethiwekhi zentlalo zisenza ukuba sikholelwe ukuba inkwenkwezi kunye nommelwane kwindawo yokufika imalunga nokulinganayo-uyazi ukuba kanye. Ngaba kufanelekile ukuthi yonke le nto yinkohliso, nangona umntu osanda kubasebenzi obathandayo umfanekiso.
Xa kufanelekile ukuba nexhala
Hayi, awudingi ukuba usebenze kwaye ungabhalisi kwi-Hugh jackman kuba uyoyika ukuwela ukuxhomekeka. Iinkwenkwezi ngenxa yoko kwaye zenze ii-akhawunti ukuba zisondele kubaphulaphuli bakho, nangona zisebenzisa isikrini se-smartphone. Sifunda kwaye sibeka i-husky ngakumbi. Kodwa ukuba uziva ngathi awukwazi kwaye uchithe iyure ngaphandle kokuhlaziya iteyiphu, ulinde iposti entsha yodumo owuthandayo, okanye ukuba ifanelekile ukuba uyicinge kwaye uyifuna njani Yakha kwakhona ubomi bakho ukuze ube nexesha elaneleyo kunye nokuphuhliswa kobuntu bam. Ngamanye amaxesha akukho lula kakhulu ukusombulula ingxaki kwaye kuya kufuneka ukubonisana kweengcali.