Ubudenge, kufutshane, iNaivety-Raivey La magama zinxulunyaniswa nabantu abanomxholo we "ngqondo". Kodwa ngaba kunokwenzeka ngokwenene ukusinika i-naivety?
Kude nobudenge
Isilumkiso kukukwazi komntu ukuba athathe amanyathelo kumyalelo wangaphakathi, mamelani kwilizwi lengqondo, kodwa kwiimvakalelo neemvakalelo kunye neemvakalelo. Amandla okwenza izinto ngaphandle kwe-ponday engafunekiyo kunye nethandabuza.
Oku akuthethi ukuba umntu usisidenge. Ngokuchasene noko, ukuba umntu uyakwazi ukwakha ngokufanelekileyo ubomi bakhe kunye nolwalamano nabanye abantu, ngokungqalileyo, ke ukusuka kwindalo ikude kakhulu kwisidenge.
Ukukhutshelwa kwengqondo
Umntu obaluleke kakhulu malunga nemeko, kokukhona ucinga ngayo. Rhoqo abantu baqala ukumela ukuba imeko izakujika njani ukuba abanye abantu banokuthatha. Kwaye ngokufuthi ikhokelela kwinto yokuba abantu bazixabele, banexhala kwi-trifles. Ukusuka apha kunye nomthwalo wengqondo ngakumbi. Ngokukhawuleza kunceda ukunikela ingqalelo encinci kwinto eyenzekayo. Ungakhathali into nganye encinci
Ukugcoba kunye nokucinga kulungile kulunge kwishishini, kwisayensi, kwezopolitiko, kodwa kubomi obuqhelekileyo ngamanye amaxesha kufanelekile ukuba sithembele ilizwi lentliziyo kwaye lingakwazi ukubala lonke inyathelo. Oku kusebenza kubudlelwane bothando ukuba i-PREPI intsha yakhiwe kwiimvakalelo, kwaye hayi kwi-Logic.
I-Armor engafumanekiyo
Baza ngqo abantu banikela ingqalelo engakhange baqwalasele into abayilindeleyo kwaye into ethethwayo abanye ngabo. Endleleni yomntu ngamnye abanomona kwaye "ziilwimi ezimbi", abo baya kuthi: "Awuyi kuphuma." Abantu abanjalo "abanetyhefu ekulula ukuyityeshela kwaye bangaboni xa bengawaboni amazwi abo. Xa unokwenza njengoko ufuna.
Ukuphoxeka okungaphantsi
Ukucinga yonke into kwangaphambili, sele silindele into ukuba ilungiswe into. Kwaye xa izicwangciso zethu zovuyo azihlali, sicaphukile, siqala ukuxabana nokungqinelana, kwaye yintoni impazamo
Uloyiko oluncinci-ulonwabo ngakumbi
Abantu abathi bathetha izigqibo ngokukhawuleza. UMthetho, kwaye ungacingi malunga nesigidi amaxesha abenze izenzo zabo. Banokutya okumbalwa kwaye bacalucalulwe kwimeko nabantu. Uloyiko oluncinci, kokukhona umntu onesibindi ngakumbi uziva ukuba uza kubuhlungu ngokwengqondo nangokwasemzimbeni.
Njengomhloli wesiNgesi kunye nombhali uGilbert Keith Chesterrton wathi, "Indoda ikude nesisidenge:" Indoda endala egcina uMphefumlo wakhe kuphela, kodwa nobomi. "
Akukho tyala ithetha ukuba awufanele ungakhathali kwaye ungacingi konke konke kwangaphambili kwizenzo ezithandekayo. Hayi. Kufanele ukuba kube lula ukuyinyanga le meko kwaye ungagxili kulindelo lwakho kunye nezimvo zabanye.