Ulwazi lweMithetho yeVarna ivumela kuphela ukuba baqonde kwaye bathathe injongo yakhe. Ikwanceda ukwakha ubudlelwane obuphakathi phakathi kwendoda nomfazi, phakathi kwabazali nabantwana.
Ungalukhetha njani ubomi besatellite ukuze imanyano yonwabe? Ungalukhulisa njani abantwana ukuze baphunyezwe ebomini? Kuthekani ukuba ubudlelwane nabazali buye bayeka ukuyenza okona kulungileyo? Yonke le mibuzo inika iimpendulo kulwazi lwe-vedic malunga ne-varna.
Luyintoni usapho?
NgokweVedas, usapho ngu-Ashram, oko kukuthi, indawo yokuhlala, indawo yolonwabo. Intsapho yenzelwe ukuba le ndoda kunye nebhinqa engena kwimanyano iya kukhulisa kwindlela yabo yokomoya, incedise omnye komnye ukufezekisa injongo yabo ebomini.
Zonke izithuko, ukufunga, ukuqhekeza kubudlelwane bamadoda nabafazi kuyavela xa kungekho zokomoya kwintsapho. I-vedas ithi: Ukuba ubuncinci umntu othile kwisibini uyazi ukuba intsingiselo yobomi bentsapho, akuyi kubakho ngxaki. Isibini esinjalo ngokukhawuleza kwaye ngaphandle kwelahleko soyisa iingxabano.
Ke ngoko, kubaluleke kakhulu ukufunda ukuba nendlela yokuqhuba ubudlelwane bosapho, ukuqonda ukuba kwenzeka njani kwiimeko ezahlukeneyo (kunye nendoda, abantwana, abazali) yakha i-Prachology yengqondo yokuziphatha kwaye isombulula imibuzo. Ukuqonda nokuthatha i-varna- yakho kunye nabathandekayo bakho- uya kuyazi ukuba uphi usapho. Uya kuzithemba kwaye uzole nakweyiphi na imeko. Kwaye ezinye ngokuqinisekileyo ziya kuyiva kwaye zihlangulwe.
Amanyathelo obomi bomntu
I-Varna iqala ukuzibonakalisa kwinqanaba lokuzalwa kobomi obutsha. Ngapha koko, i-Psychology iyonke ixhomekeke kulwazi lweempawu zendalo zomntu ngamnye kubo. Cinga ngolwazi oluthe kratya ukuba i-Varna iphunyezwa njani kumanqanaba ohlukeneyo obomi bomntu-ukusuka ekukhulelweni kubudala boqolileyo.
1. Ukuqonda
Eli nqanaba lihambelana ne-sakhasrara, iziko eliphambili lamandla amabini amhlophe.
Sele esibelekweni, umntwana weVarna ubonakalisiwe, kwaye umntwana ngamnye uziphatha ngendlela eyahlukileyo. Ke, umzekelo, iBrahmanas ikhula ngokuzolileyo kwaye iphantse ingakhathazeki umama. Kwaye uKshatriya, ngokuchaseneyo, hlala ujikeleza kwaye ukhwaze.
Oomama abazayo bazive benomdla, kuxhomekeka ekubeni lunjani umntwana, banxitywa phantsi kwentliziyo. Umama omncinci ksriev ufuna ukucwangcisa into, into yokwenza into. Abo balindele ukuba imbonakalo yeVaichi ibambeke kakhulu kwaye ifuna. Kwaye ukuba i-sutera encinci iyakhula ngaphakathi, emva koko umama ufuna ukunaliti, coca indlu, upheke; Ugcwele uthando, kwaye ufuna ukwenza into emnandi kuye wonke umntu. Ukuba i-varna kaMama kunye nomntwana bahlangana, imeko ye-Varna iphindwe kabini.
Sele kwinqanaba lokukhulelwa, kubalulekile ukuba umamela iimvakalelo zakho ukuphuhlisa i-Varna Baby kwaye ungayithinteli.
2. Iminyaka yobudala kunye nokhuseleko (ukusuka ekuzalweni ukuya kwiminyaka eli-14 ubudala)
Xa umntwana ezelwe, uSakhasrara wathatyathwa nguGedistan, umbala o-orenji ubonakalisa ubomi kunye nolonwabo uqobo.
Eli nqanaba lisebenza malunga nonyaka. Ukuzalwa, abantwana baqala ukubonisa iimpawu zabo. Ngeli xesha, kubalulekile ukwenza ezona meko zintle kakhulu zokufezekisa iimfuno zabo. Akukho tyala alinakungena ekuchaseni.
Emva konyaka, inguqu ukuya kwi-Chakra yentliziyo - anatata (umbala-luhlaza) kwenzeka. Eli xesha liyasebenza kude kube yiminyaka eli-14. Abantwana baqala ukunxibelelana ngenyameko kunye nehlabathi ngentliziyo. Ke ngoko, kubalulekile ukuba nobuthathaka ngakumbi. I-Psychologlogy yakho yonxibelelwano kunye nomntwana kufuneka yakhiwe entliziyweni, hayi entlokweni.
Ukuba umntwana uyi-sudra. Kuya kufuneka ave ukumila nokuzinza. Mdumiseni, phawula ngokumangalisayo, mkele.
Ukuba umntwana nguVwanachya. Kubalulekile ukuba athobele kuye kuphela. Kuya kufuneka azive embindini, nokuba kubonakala ngathi kukuzingca kakhulu kwicala lakhe.
Ukuba umntwana nguKmbieriy. Yomelele kumoya wembambano. Yenza i-timosference yeyo. Kukwimeko enjalo ukuba inomdla, kwaye iyakhula. Akukho meko, musani ukujoyina i-kesatriya umntwana kumlo, kungenjalo uya kuba lutshaba lwayo.
Ukuba umntwana nguBrahman. Abantwana banobuthathaka kakhulu kwabanye iimvakalelo zabanye abantu kunye neemvakalelo. Unokufundisa into abazali. Soloko ukhumbula ukuba nokuba umntwana wakho uthanda ukuba embindini weNkampani, ufuna indawo yemfihlo. Abantwana Brahman banokudlala ngokukhuselekileyo.
3. Iminyaka yotshintsho (iminyaka eli-14-16)
Eli xesha lihambelana noMuladhara - inkanuko yobomi, ibomvu.
Kwi-Psychology yengqondo, le yindawo ebizwa ngokuba yiminyaka yotshintsho yomntwana. Abantwana baqala ukumelana, bonisa umnqweno wabo wokuzimela. Ukuba abazali bazabalaza nomntwana, babonisa ubundlongondlongo, bafefa ngakumbi umlilo obomvu, uyalela ukungazi. Umlindi okwishumi elivisayo uyakholelwa ukuba uphulaphule.
Okwangoku, abazali babaluleke kakhulu ukuba bakhe ubuchule bokwakha i-psychology yokuziphatha nomntwana, banikwa i-varna yakhe. Ke, umzekelo, uKsheria kufuneka adunyiswe kwaye akhuthazwe kwimizamo yakhe, kunye ne-brahman, ofuna ukwazi okuqinisekileyo, ukuba athumele ezi ndlela.
4. Ulutsha (16-45 leminyaka)
I-Chakra leli xesha - i-manupira. Eli linqanaba lokuphunyezwa, elihambelana nombala ophuzi.
Eli lelona xesha lisebenzayo xa ufuna ukutshintsha umhlaba, ukufezekisa okuthile. Elona xesha libalulekileyo kubuchule kunye nophuhliso. Ngeli xesha, sifumana amava kwaye siphumeze ulwazi lwethu ngokusebenzisa.
Eyona mpazamo inkulu ye-brahmins okwangoku ayivumelani ne-Varna yayo. Ukuba abazali abafundisayo-brahmanov ukwenza imali, bakhe ishishini ngenxa yoncedo lobuqu, ke nantoni na ekuphumeze indawo abaya kuyo inokuhamba. I-Brahmins ibalulekile ekuqokeleleni nasekutshintsheni ulwazi. Kunye nehlabathi, uluntu luyilindile kubo.
Uthuthu lwenene kwindlela yokuphunyezwa kufikelela kwimfezeko, iba ngumntu kwaye ikhuthaza abanye ukuba bamlandele. Kubomi bakhe, ulandela imotto 'ngokukhawuleza, engaphezulu, eyomeleleyo! " Uhlala ezabalazela ukuba ngcono kunayizolo. Kuyamangalisa, kodwa kwiLizwe langoku leKshatrity ebuntwaneni kunokuloyika uluntu, iintetho zasesidlangalaleni, nangona kungeyonto ingaqhelekanga. Kodwa ukuba kwikamva lomntwana lilandela i-Varna lakhe, zonke ezona mpawu zibalaseleyo zikaKshatriya zityhilwa ngokupheleleyo.
KwiVaichi, kubalulekile ukuba luluntu oluluncedo. Le yimpumelelo yakhe. Ukuba usebenzisa indalo yakhe eyinyani, uya kuhlala eqonda ukuba umhlaba uyafuneka ngexesha elinye okanye kwelinye, kwaye uya kufumana indlela yokwanelisa iimfuno zayo (kwimveliso, ulwazi, ulwazi oluthile).
Ukuphunyezwa kwe-shodra-nceda umntu afezekise injongo elungileyo. Ukuba iShuderie yayikhuliswe kwimisebenzi yenye yaqala, xa eqonda indlela abonisa ngayo, kuya kuba nzima kuye ukuba athabathe. Kuya kusicinga ukuba isetyenziselwa iinjongo zikamasekelo, kwaye yena akaphunyezi. Ukuba i-sura ayizalisekisi imisebenzi yayo, yonke iwile, kuquka nosapho.
5. Ukuqola (ukusuka kwiminyaka engama-45)
Eli nqanaba lihambelana ne-AJNA (Umbala omfusa).
Eli lixesha lobulumko. Umhlaba ubona njengoThixo wamdalela, - kwindalo yakhe eyinyani.
Ubudlelwane nabazali
Ekuqaleni, abazali bethu singumfundisi. Kwaye umsebenzi wethu kukufunda ukubaphatha ngale ndlela, ukuze uthathe abazali njengoko kunjalo. Kwaye ulwazi lwe-Varna yabo luya kukunceda wakhe i-Psychology efanelekileyo yonxibelelwano.
Ke, abazali bakaVaishi bahlala bezama ukuqhubana nabantwana, zama ukucinezela isigulana, kwaye oomama nopopu bazama ukufundisa nokuyalela umntwana. Abazali - I-Shuker kufuneka bancedwa ngononophelo, nangona banokusebenzisa lonke igcinwe kakhulu. Kwaye i-kyearriev, eyona nto ibalulekileyo yothando lwakho iya kuba yiyo ukuba ulungiselela into kwaye ubancede.
Soloko ubonakalisa imbeko kubazali. Khumbula, kufuneka bave uthando lwakho. Kwaye ukuba namhlanje ungowasiphi na isizathu sokuba ubonakale kubudlelwane obungenakuthelekiswa nanto nabazali bakho, zama ukuseka unxibelelwano, yenza, thatha. Oku kuyakonyusa kakhulu umgangatho wobomi bakho.
Ubudlelwane
I-Psychology yobudlelwane phakathi kwendoda kunye nebhinqa sisihloko esinomdla kubo bonke ubomi. Ewe, yonke into iphupha malunga nemanyano yosapho oluhambelana nayo, kwaye abaninzi ababanga bafikayo bafikelela kuye. Kwaye ayikaninzi kwiimpawu zobuqu zamadoda nabafazi, kodwa ngokunxulumene nazo. Qwalasela indlela indibaniselwano ye-varn ichaphazela ngayo ubudlelwane bomntu kunye nebhinqa ngeendlela ezahlukeneyo, ezo zinto zilungelelene ngokugqibeleleyo omnye komnye, kwaye loluphi umanyano olungcono ukungafikeleli.
I-brahman eyindoda
Umfazi + Brahman. Le yeyona ndlela ifanelekileyo kwabo baphuphayo baphila phakathi, ngokuzolileyo, abafuna ukuphuhlisa. Kufuneka inyangwe kuphela ukuba bobabini bafuna indawo. Ukuba umntu ovela kwisibini uguqukele ekubeni abe ne-brahman esebenzayo, uya kuhlala ephosa kwakhona imvakalelo kwiqabane.
+ I-KShatriy. Indibaniselwano enkulu kwabo bafuna ukuqhuba imisebenzi esebenzayo. Umfazi kule nombolo uvelisa izimvo kwaye ukhuthaza umntu. Kwaye yena, kwelinye icala, ubonisa ezona mpawu zibalaseleyo zikaBrahman, ezinika ulwazi lwayo emhlabeni, kwelinye icala, zinokwaphula amandla asebenzayo okhethwe nguye.
Umfazi ongumntu obhinqileyo. Ebudlelwaneni, amadoda nabafazi kule ponunu bavele kubunzima. I-Brahman kunzima kakhulu ukunxibelelana nemali, eyinxalenye ebalulekileyo yobomi bukaVaishi. Ukugcina imbeko, indoda iya kuhlala ihla kwinqanaba lomfazi. Kwaye, oko kuya kubacaphukisa isibakala sokuba unyuliweyo akakuqondini kwakhe ubomi.
+ I-sudra yomfazi. Imanyano entle xa uBrahman ehamba ngendlela yokomoya, umkhonto umkhonze. Kodwa umntu obhinqileyo kufuneka azi ukuba soze sifike kwinqanaba lomyeni wakhe. Ukuba uthatha imvakalelo yenkonzo, umanyano uya kuvisisane kakhulu.
I-fatriya
Umfazi + Brahman. Umanyano olungenalusiko kakhulu. Indoda ihlala ivakalelwa kukuba umfazi unobuchule kunaye, uswele umsebenzi. Ukusuka apha kukho iingxabano ezingapheliyo.
+ I-KShatriy. Imanyano iya kuphumelela ukuba ekuqaleni bahlulele indawo yoxanduva kwaye bavumile ukuba babengalwi kunye. Ukudluliselwa kwentsimi, imisebenzi iya kukhokelela kwiingxabano kwaye, mhlawumbi, nangogonyamelo.
Umfazi ongumntu obhinqileyo. Imanyano entle ehambelana nolwalamano oluhle. Kodwa eli bhinqa kufuneka likhumbule ukuba i-duri-kshatrii ayinyamezeleli ubuxoki kwaye ixabise ngokuthe tye. Ukuba uziva unencasa okanye imfihlakalo, unokuhamba.
+ I-sudra yomfazi. Ukuba umfazi uyaqonda ukuba umntu olwalamano lwawo uhlala engowokuqala, ukuba uyamnceda, axhase, nokuba umnyuli uya kuba ngcwele, enxibe isandla sakhe.
I-viasisya
Umfazi + Brahman. Umanyano olungenalusiko kakhulu. Ubudlelwane bamadoda nabafazi kule meko akulingani. Ugqwetha eyona nto iphambili, kodwa uhlala uziva engenakuphikiswa ecaleni kwabanyuliweyo. Kwaye umfazi, ukuba uyathanda, uya kuhlala ewela kwinqanaba leVaishi, ephulukene nokuqonda kwayo.
+ I-KShatriy. Olona hlobo lungenasiphelo- ke singatsho ngolwalamano lwendoda kunye nebhinqa kwesi sibini. Umfazi uya kuhlala evuselela ixama, ecinga ukuba le ndoda izama ukuphazamisa.
Umfazi ongumntu obhinqileyo. Umanyano oluhle kakhulu. Kodwa kufuneka ikhunjulwe ukuba wonke umntu ulandele izibonelelo zabo.
+ I-sudra yomfazi. Olona phawu luhle kakhulu. Ibhinqa lifumana izibonelelo zobuqu, ekuphunyezweni komntu ofuna umntu, kwaye ke iba yingenelo yakhe.
Inkwenkwe ye-rudra
Umfazi + Brahman. Imitshato enjalo ngokukhawuleza iqhagamshele. Ibhinqa aliyi kubona enkosini yendoda eyomeleleyo, kwaye uya kuziva engakhathali.
+ I-KShatriy. Umanyano olungathandekiyo. Umfazi uhlala etsala indoda emva kwakhe, ezama ukumkhuthaza, kodwa akukho nto ifunayo. Kuvakala ukuba ukhetho lomelele, kodwa alunakho ukulawula ubudlelwane. Rhoqo indoda ingena elunxilweni.
Umfazi ongumntu obhinqileyo. Hayi imanyano entle kakhulu. Indoda eyomzimba itywinwa emfazini, isebenza kakhulu. Kodwa umfazi uhlala encinanana, ngelo ndoda ayikhululekanga.
+ I-sudra yomfazi. Owona mtshato uthandekayo. Ubudlelwane bamadoda nabafazi kule ponus bavisisane kakhulu.
Indibaniselwano egqibeleleyo
Ewe kunjalo, indibaniselwano entle luhlobo phakathi kwendoda kunye nebhinqa leVarna enye.
Olona phawu luhle kakhulu lomsebenzi ngumntu-brahman kunye nebhinqa-ksitriy.
Kwindoda ye-kSriyo, umanyano olufanelekileyo kunye nebhinqa-fudder.
Kumadoda-vaichi-nge-sudra okanye i-vyashia.
Kwindoda ye-rudra-kunye nebhinqa-rudder.
Yiloo nto ekufuneka uyazi malunga nobudlelwane bamadoda nabafazi ngaphambi kokukhangela i-satellite yobomi.
Ukuvumelana Nentsapho
Ulwazi lweVarna lunceda ngokwenene ukuqonda i-psychology yobudlelwane phakathi kwendoda nebhinqa, abazali kunye nabantwana, yakha usapho olunengxaki.
Kubalulekile ukukhumbula ukuba usapho yindawo apho siyavumelana khona ukuba wonwabe kwaye uye wonke umntu kwinjongo yakho. Kodwa hayi ngokwahlukileyo, kodwa kunye. Ukuxhasana. Ukuthatha i-Varna ibe yindoda esondeleyo kwaye uyilandele yakhe. Oku kukuvumelana kobudlelwane bosapho.