Amaphupha alala aneyona nto iphambili. Kanye njengobudlelwane obunokuqalisa kwaye azange luqale, okanye ndiyeke amathuba ebunjiweyo. Njengebali elithetha ngeRomeo noJuliet. Kwakuyimfuneko ukufunda ii-pis kwimixholo, eyayiza kuba yiRomeo noJuliet besatshata. Kuyenzeka ukuba emva kweminyaka engama-30 yomtshato, umntu odlayo waza wagqiba kukaJuliet waphila kwi-alimony ovela eRomeo Ferik. Kodwa ekubeni ukuqhubeka kwenzekileyo, kuthathwa njengokuqwalasela eli bali yeyona imbali intle yothando.
Malunga nento enye eyenzekayo ukuba umtshato uphawulwe nge-icon yesitayile, ngesithixo. Yinto enye - ukumthandazela ekude, cinga ngemifanekiso enamagqabi ngenyameko, kwaye yahluke ngokupheleleyo - ukuba iphile phantsi kophahla lwemihla ngemihla kwaye isombulule imihla ngemihla, kubandakanya neemeko zokungqubana. Kwaye ngaphandle kwento yokuba iMadoni yehlabathi liphela yinkwenkwezi ye-iccentric enezizukulwana, i-paris hilton yelizwe liphela, kwaye i-monica pollucci i i i i i icominity, ubomi bubonisa ukuba amadoda ahamba iinkwenkwezi eziqaqambileyo ezinjalo.
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Isibini ngasinye, nokuba yintsapho eqhelekileyo enencasa ephakathi okanye eyaziwayo kwihlabathi liphela ngokupapasha esidlangalaleni, ubuso ngamaxesha afanayo obomi emtshatweni. Konke kudlula ngeendlela zokupholisa, ngamaxesha okupholisa, ngokusebenzisa ixesha lokuthambeka komoya, ukuqonda kunye nemvakalelo ekhethekileyo okanye phantse ukungakhathali. Kwaye okona kubaluleke kakhulu, kwisibini ngasinye kwelinye ilizwe, kulo naluphi na umthetho apho kukho umthetho ongunaphakade. Ukuba ufuna uthando kunye nothando i-las ngonaphakade, kubo bonke ubomi obufuna ukwenza into.
Ndiyakuthanda ukunika umzekelo ngegadi. Xa uthenga indlu ngegadi entle, irosary kunye neebhedi zeentyatyambo, bambalwa abantu abaya kwenzeka ukuze bakholelwe ukuba kwimeko entle enjalo iya kuba ngonaphakade. Umntu ngamnye onengqondo onesidima uyaqonda ukuba ngokusigcina kwimeko efanayo, kufuneka. Kwaye kuthekani ukuba aniyinzi phofu, iiroses ziya kutsalwa iphosakeleyo, i-lawn iya kukhathaba okanye ityheli ngaphandle kwezichumisi.
Kodwa kutheni idla ngokutshata kwaye yonwabe kakhulu ekuqaleni kobudlelwane, ungayiqondi ukuba ukuze lube lolwalamano lugcinwe njengento entle, ithembekile kwaye inomdla? Kwaye kuthekani ukuba, imigudu yabo, ayisebenzi, ke ngokuhamba kwexesha, ngokwayo, "igadi entle" iya kuthatha ukhathazekile kwaye iya kuqalisa ukhathalelo kunye nengqwalaselo?
Isibini ngasinye, nokuba yintsapho eqhelekileyo ephakathi okanye eyaziwa ngokuba yiHlabathi liphela eluntwini, ebusweni bamaxesha afanayo obomi emtshatweni
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Akukho nto eyenzekayo ngonaphakade, kodwa inyani yokuba kuthi ibize, usapho kunye nobudlelwane bufuna ingqalelo rhoqo. Abo balibale le nto ilula, ngelishwa, bajamelana nenyaniso yokuba elinye iqabane linokufuna ukufumana ezi mbono ziqinile kwakhona. Kwaye ngoku ayisiyiyo kuphela amadoda aya kumantombazana amancinci, azala usapho, azala umntwana odibeneyo kwaye afumane ubutsha. Incoko ikwahamba malunga nabafazi. Namhlanje, kukho iimeko rhoqo xa abafazi abadala sele bekhulile ngequbuliso babona ukuba umyeni uyayithanda ibhiya kwisofa ngaphezu kobomi uqobo. Kwaye baya kwinqanaba elingakumbi, abanikela ingqalelo ngakumbi kwaye bakhathalela, beshiya abayeni babo bahlele ngesofa elinye.
Ukunciphisa umngcipheko wophuhliso lwemeko, kufuneka kukhunjulwe ukuba ubudlelwane kusapho yinto osoloko ifuna ukhathalela. Kuyimfuneko ukongeza ngempelaveki eqaqambileyo ebomini, edibeneyo, sebenza ngokugcina inkanuko, xa unomdla omnye komnye, amandla okuthetha, yiva kwaye uyaqonda. Ukuba oku akwenziwanga, ubudlelwane bukhawulezile ukuba 'ngummelwane ", kwaye ke nayiphi na i-spark ecaleni kweminyaka inokuqhuma. Akukho sidingo sokuzisa imeko kusapho ukuba afune. Ubugcisa bomfazi wonke ngamnye njengomfazi kukuzisa umdla komnye nomnye, umtsalane kunye nomdla omnye komnye.
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