Isimo sakho sobomi sidluliselwa emntwaneni
Ihlala iva ukuba oomama abancinci bacebisa ukuba iyoyikeka kangako, ngakumbi ukuba umntwana wabo usekuncancisa. Yayikwiminyaka yobudala bonyaka yokuba umntwana adluliselwe kwiimvakalelo ngeemvakalelo: umbono, ukuchukumisa, ukuva, ukubetha. Ngenxa yoko, owona mbutho ubalulekileyo igama elithi "umama" emntwaneni unokuba lolomfazi othandanayo onothando nobisi nentuthuzelo, kodwa uhlala ecaphukile kwaye eneenyembezi zamehlo. Ukuba uphuphayo ukubona umntwana wakho ngenyhweba eyonwabisayo, emva koko uqale ujonge ecaleni kwakho kunye nobudlelwane kusapho oluphakathi kwabantu abadala. Inceba yakho, ububele kunye nothando lwehlabathi kwihlabathi liphela, ukuhlonipha kunye nokuqonda, kwaye kuya kuba ngumzekelo olungileyo kumntwana, kwaye uya kukujonga, uya kusenza imodeli yokuziphatha kwakhe kunye nesimo sakhe sengqondo ebomini bakhe. Mbonise umntwana kwicala eliqaqambileyo lolwalamano lwabazali: Yanga, utsho ukuba uyamthanda, hug. Ukufumana nayiphi na imibuzo, ukuhamba nomyeni wam kuphela okwethutyana uwedwa.
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Imvakalelo yokuhlekisa ngumncedisi othembekileyo
Omnye wabancedisi baBazali yimvakalelo yokuhlekisa. Nokuba umntwana ubethile, wamkhathaza, akukho sidingo sokuzisola kakhulu, bonakalisa uloyiko kuye. Jonga umntwana, hamba kunye ukuba ufune "umngxunya" emnyango jamb okanye ezinyaweni zetafile, eyabetha umntwana. Uncumo lwakho olunyanisekileyo kunye nokhathalelo olulinganayo luya kumnceda umntwana ukuba afunde ukuzisola ngenxa yeqhina, ehleka kubunzima bobomi.
Musa ukusihlutha umntwana ukuba anxibelelane noontanga
Umntwana kufuneka abe nabahlobo. Ukuhlala wedwa kwindawo evaliweyo yendlu, umntwana uziva eshiywe kwaye engafunekiyo, kwaye ngokugqithileyo kwi-caring yabazali okugqithisileyo kwenza ukuba kuthathe tyhefu kwaye kuphele inkululeko. Kwiimeko ezinjalo, umntwana kuphela anokukhula, osoloko ungonwabanga, kwaye eyona nto ayimele iyenza kukuxhaphaza abazali babo kwizilangazelelo zabo.
Musa ukusihlutha umntwana ukuba anxibelelane noontanga
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Unxibelelwano noontanga luya kufundisa ukucinga ngokuzimeleyo, isantya sokuphendula kunye nokubanakho ukuba kwiqela. Ngokwemvelo, unxibelelwano olunobuhlobo luya kuqala ukukhokela ukonwaba.
Iimpazamo-hayi isizathu sokuphazamiseka
Thetha nomntwana ngokulula, ungamngcikiva. Nawuphi na umsebenzi unokuqondwa kwaye usebenze kwiimpazamo. Yonke into inokuguqulwa ibe yihlehleni ukuze umntwana aqonde ukuba awuvutha ngumsindo. Umzekelo, ukuba une "Deuce", ungathi: "Kwenzeka! Ukuqaqanjelwa kancinci, kwaye uya kuyilungisa ngokulula! " Ndiva inkxaso yakho, umntwana uza kuncuma, kwaye angangoyiki indlela ophendula ngayo. Uya kunyaniseka kuwe, kwaye okubaluleke kakhulu, wafunda ukoyisa ubunzima, ukuziva inkxaso yakho. Iya kumenza ube nobomi obuhle ebomini.