Mhlawumbi, akukho mntu waziyo ngolwalamano olungaphezulu kwelizwe eliphambili leSwabitova. Kutshanje, iRosa yapapasha ifoto kwi "Instagram", isithuba esasinikezela ngesithukuthezi, esinokuvela kwisibini.
Isatellite, ngokutyibilika kuye, yafumana ingxaki enjalo. UXiabitova wathi le ndoda yakhe yakha kamva iminyaka, iminyaka embalwa yangathandanga ukunxibelelana ngokupheleleyo. Njengoko i-rosa ithi, kuyimfuneko ukuba banike umntu ithuba-umtsalane awusoloko uvela kwangoko.
Olunye ukupholisa nokuba ubudlelwane obuluqilima bunokwenzeka nakwesiphi na isibini, kwaye oku kuyinto eqhelekileyo, njengoko kungenakwenzeka ukuba uvuye umntu okufutshane nawe. Yintoni ekufuneka yenziwe ukuba uqalekise ukungabi nakukhathazeka?
Thetha rhoqo njengoko kunokwenzeka
Ewe kunjalo, akufuneki uphawule ithoni kwaye konke okumangalela iqabane ekuthandeni ubudlelwane. Xelela nje ngamava akho, kodwa ungayi emntwini. Eyona nto inokwenzeka, unobangela wesithukuthezi ziingxaki okanye iingxabano ongakhange uzisombulule ngaphambili. Ngoku lixesha lokuba uhlale phantsi uxoxe ngayo yonke into.
Funda ngokwakho
Ngokuka uninzi lweengcali zengqondo, ukuba umntu unomdla wedwa, uya kuhlala enomdla kwabanye. Sukulinda umntu, kubandakanya isiqingatha sakho sesibini, uya kukhula. Funda ukuba uvuye kwiqhina, yenza into osoloko iphupha, ngaloo ndlela ayimangalisi iqabane, kwaye ayimangalisi, kuba loo mbono, umbono ovuthayo uhlala utsala umdla.
Jonga iimvakalelo ezintsha kunye
Ngaba uya kwindawo enye yokutyela? Ngaba uhlala kwi "House-House-House"? Lixesha lokuba sitshintshe into, kungenjalo kukho umngcipheko wokungena kubomi bemihla ngemihla, lolona tshaba lubi lobudlelwane. Ayinamsebenzi ukuba ufuna ukutshintsha, eyona nto iphambili kukuba uyenze kunye kwaye bekusemgangathweni ngamnye kuni.
Yenza okothusayo
Nawaphi na amadoda angenakuthelekiswa nanto, akukho namnye akasayi kuma phambi kwenqaku elichukumisayo, onokumfaka epokothweni ngaphambi kokuba uphume endlwini. Kuvela kwizinto ezincinci kunye nolwalamano olonwabileyo. Ewe, amadoda akasoloko eqikelela ukuba umfazi ufuna inyameko engakumbi, ke qala ngawe! Emva kokuba uqala ukubonelela ngeempawu ezingalindelekanga nezithandekayo, indoda emnye umzuzwana kwaye uzicingela - kwaye unokukukholisa yintoni.