Umtshato yimizamo yabantu ababini kwisibini, kodwa namantombazana amelwe luxanduva olukhulu ukugcina uxolo kusapho. Ke, ngamanye amaxesha kungcono ukumamela uluvo lwengcali, ukuba uziva ngathi kukho into engahambanga kakuhle ...
Zama ukuyeka yonke imizuzu "ndiya"
Ibhinqa lale mihla lidla ngokudibanisa imeko yomeleleyo kwaye engaphezulu kwaye ide ayinakuyeka. Naxa umntu ebonakala, onako kwaye ufuna ukunika uncedo. Njengomthetho, inkululeko enjalo sisiphumo esikhuselayo ukuze iindawo ezingqongileyo azicingi ukuba zibuthathaka okanye zifuna uncedo. Kodwa akukho nto iphela kunento yethutyana. Ngokuthe ngcembe, esi sikhundla singena kwindlela yokuphila. Ayinguye wonke umntu ofuna ukuba naye ngokwakhe ofanayo kwaye adibane ngalo lonke ixesha. Ebusweni, wonke umntu unendima yayo: Indoda ithatha uxanduva lwamadoda, umfazi - obhinqileyo. Ke ngoko, ukuba utshatile, vumela iingxaki zakho zesiqingatha sakho kwaye uzikhathalele. Mdlulisele imisebenzi edanile kudala. Yiba nombulelo. Nguwe uyakuqonda ukuba mnandi kangakanani xa ukhathalela kwaye ukhusele.
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Mamela iintombi zakho
Ukuba abantu bagqiba kwelokuba iingxaki zabo zangaphakathi zithe cwaka, ke amantombazana anemfuno yokubaxelela. Kulungile ukuba uthethe kwaye ukhulule isibini, kodwa ungangxami ukubashiya abahlobo bakho basombulule iingxaki zosapho lwakho. Kukho izizathu ezininzi zokuba kutheni kungafuneki ukwenza le nto. Iintombi zakho azazi ukuba zenzeke ntoni kwisibini sakho, bayayazi kuphela ingxelo yakho emva koko, uninzi lwabo, apho ulungile kuphela. Kananjalo, abafazi bahlala benemvakalelo yomona, kwaye mhlawumbi intombi yakho ifuna ukuba ubuyele ngokwakho isikhundla sasimahla, ndinicinga ngokuchasene neqabane. Kwaye awuyazi ne. Ke ngoko, lumka ekwenzeni izigqibo emva kwebhunga leentombi. Yabelana, kodwa cinga intloko yakho.
Ungangxami ukuba unyamezele i-sorny
Xa uthatha isigqibo sokudibanisa ubomi bakho ngomtshato, wawunzima kwaye ngabom. Zonke izityholo ezilandelayo zamaqabane abo ziya kuchaza inyani yokuba wenze ukhetho olungalunganga. Kubomi bosapho, kuyenzeka kwahluka, kodwa akufuneki ukukhawulezile kwaye ukramele kwindoda ekufutshane nendoda yakho kufutshane nezalamane. Ukubona, isaqhwithi siya kuwa, kwaye uya kuba neentloni ngento ethethwayo. Ngapha koko, abantu obathandayo kunye nezihlobo, emva kwengxabano nganye, kuya kubakho iinkumbulo ezingathandekiyo, kwaye ekuhambeni kwexesha unokucetyiswa ukuba ucetyiswe, kuba kubi kwaye kuhlala kuphosakele.
Guqula ucwangciso lokuzonwabisa
Ngaphambi kokuba umtshato, ungaya kubusuku ukuze ubhiyozele usuku lokuzalwa lwentombi okanye uhlale nabantu osebenza nabo emva kwexesha emsebenzini. Imeko yomfazi osemthethweni ayinyanzelisi ukuba uhlale ujikeleze iwotshi kufutshane neqabane, kodwa njengangaphambili, ungazikhululi. Cwangcisa kunye icandelo elibalulekileyo lokuzonwabisa. Ukuba umyeni wakho akanamdla kwintlanganiso yakho kunye neentombi, kuya kuba chane ngakumbi ukucacisa ukuba uza kulwa wedwa. Emva koko, ukubonakalisa ukubaluleka kwembono yokuthembeka kwakho.