"Mama, andifuni nto kule venkile namhlanje"
La ngamagama ngokuchanekileyo kwinkqubela phambili enkulu eyaqala kubudlelwane bam nentombi yam. Kodwa andizange ndikholelwe loo nto loo mini, xa umntwana wam eza kunikezela ngokuzithandela ukuthengwa kwenye ipakethi yemibala kunye neencwadi, ize ize :) yeza. Nazo iintsuku ezinjalo - xa umntwana wam enza ukuba akhethe ngayo ukholo-iba ngakumbi nangakumbi.
Ngoba? Kungenxa yokuba xa uvula ngokwenyani umntwana wakho intliziyo yakho, yenza umdla kwingqondo yakhe, njl njl, umntwana uyaphela umnqweno wokuniphazamisa. Umntwana uqala ukusebenzisana. Ewe, yenzeka kwangoko, kodwa yenzeka. Emva kwayo yonke loo nto, akukho mntwana uzalwe kule planethi ngomnqweno wendalo wokuvuthuza iinzwane. Kwaye ukuba uyayenza le nto, kukho isizathu esivakalayo sokucinga malunga nokuba kutheni kwaye kutheni kungenjalo kulwalamano lwakho.
"Mama, Thenga ikati. Ndifuna uxanduva olungakumbi "
-Ufuna uxanduva? Siza kulungiselela i-mig.
Kwaye sayithenga ikiti yakhe.
Ke, kwivenkile yezilwanyana zasekhaya, ngoSeptemba kaSeptemba omnyama, umntwana wam akazange akhule kunyaka oneminyaka eli-9. Ngokunyaniseka. Ndaye ndaphinda ndaqonda: Xa umntu efuna inyani, ukulungele oku ukubaleka, ongahlambulukanga, yonke le nto ayinamsebenzi. Eyona nto iphambili yinjongo. Nantsi ke - umsebenzi wenkuthazo enzulu kwisenzo :)
Kodwa ukulungiselela yonke into ukuze umntwana afune ukucoca amazinyo ngaphandle kokucoca amazinyo ekuseni (ngaphandle kwesikhumbuzo, enze unina kwaye asanda kakhulu, njl njl. ukuyenza kwaye ngaxeshanye. Kuya kufuneka uqale ngokukhawuleza enye iakhawunti kwibhanki yakho. Ngeli xesha ... ngokweemvakalelo. Kwaye senze apho kuxhomekeke izihlandlo ezininzi ngosuku. Nje ukuba i-akhawunti yakho yokuzithemba igcwalisiwe, uya kubona ukuba yintoni eya kuqala ukubakho kubudlelwane bakho nomntwana.
"Mama, anditsaleli de utata. Uya kuvela emsebenzini ngoku, kwaye sonke siya kwi-pizzeria kunye. Ndiyakumema kwisidlo sangokuhlwa "
Ngalo mhla ndawuvula ngokoqobo umlomo wam ukumangalisa kwaye ... ikratshi kumntwana wam. Kwaye incinci emva kwam :) Ndiyavuma, bendidiniwe kakhulu loo mini nasengqondweni yokuba isidlo sangokuhlwa sekakulungeli, kodwa sisebuhlungu kakhulu. Kwaye emva koko umntwana wam wakhupha kwi-cache yakhe yesibini yokugqibela engazange inikele ixesha kwaye yasithabatha utata kwi-pizzeria oyithandayo kufutshane nendlu.
Ndinekratshi andizange ndimbone. Inyaniso. Kwaye hayi indlela amehlo endiqaqambileyo ngayo, xa ndandivele upopu kwaye ndambuyisela ngokuhlwa okuhle kwaye ndancuma kuzo zombini ezi ntsini! Kwabonakala ngathi ngaloo mzuzu, amehlo katata wethu wayekhe wakhawuleza ukuya-ukusuka ngokungathethekiyo ukusuka apho siye senza khona iinyembezi.
Kutheni le nto engakhange ayithengele kuye, kodwa wachitha imali yakhe yokugqibela kwisidlo sangokuhlwa sethu? Kuba waqalisa ukuqonda ukuba simenzela malini yonke imihla, kwaye ndifuna kakhulu ukwenza isenzo esingasemva. Waqala ukuziva uthando olungabonakaliyo lwabonakaliswa kuye - kwaye wayefuna uthando phambi kwamanzi obunzulu bomphefumlo. Andazi, kodwa yintoni. Kwaye yintoni uthando kwinqanaba lemicimbi nezenzo zixhalabisa ngokuyintloko.
Ndingazinika iimeko ezinjengeseti enkulu. Kodwa yayingasoloko injalo. Kwakufuneka ndenze umsebenzi omninzi kuwe kunye nobuhlobo kunye nayo. Kodwa kufanelekile. Ewe, ngamaxesha onke intombi yam, njengabo bonke abanye abantwana abaneminyaka eli-9 ubudala, ndiphosa amadolo. Kodwa zonke ezi zinto zimangalisayo zithelekiswa njani xa zinegalelo kulonwabo nolonwabo oluninzi kubomi bethu?
Kwaye zinjani izinto ezimangalisayo kwintsapho yakho? Ngaba abantwana bakho abakuvumeli ukuba ukhumbule? :) Ndijonge phambili kwiimpendulo zakho kumagqabantshintshi.
I-Ekaterina Alekseeva, thumelayala ukuze ihambelane nobudlelwane nabantwana