Oogqirha banomthetho ongumhleki wecawa ", kodwa nangona kunjalo usebenza ngokupheleleyo. Ifumene iPathology-Jonga okwesibini.
Kwaye kwizenzo zengqondo, isebenza ngenye indlela. Umthengi weza, wazisa ingxaki - kwaye, njengasemxokeni, oku kuya kutyhilwa ngale nto. Akuzange kube kudala, kwicandelo lam lokusebenza kwamkho isihloko esibizwa ngokuba "sofa indoda", oko kuthetha lixesha lokuchaza.
Ngale nto, abafazi beza, baphumelele kwimisebenzi yabo eyazala abantwana. Izixhobo, iipropathi zobomi bosapho kuzo. Ngaphaya kwemibuzo yobuchule malunga nokukhuliswa kunye nophuhliso lwabantwana: PHI kwaye uphi kwaye ungayifumana njani ishedyuli (yokunxibelelana nomntwana, kanjalo, apho unokuthenga khona izixhobo apho ukuya khona phumla. Amadoda asekhaya: Enza into esekhaya, yiya kwimiyalelo yomfazi kwenye indawo, landela isizukulwana esidala, upaka imoto kwigaraji. Ukuba kukho abantwana, ke ubancede. Yiyo yonke loo nto. Hlala ekhaya, imali eninzi ayibuzi iintswelo zabo kwaye aziphuli naphi na ekhaya.
Ngokubanzi, le meko ilungele onke amaqela ukuya kwenye imbambano. Ihlala idityaniswa nesisongelo ekuphulukaneni nempilo ye-cormil. Ke i-avanche ithintelwe ngamadoda, ngamanye amaxesha amashumi eminyaka, yayiye yawa "amadoda" ethe cwaka, ngamanye amaxesha enamadoda amaninzi.
Nazi izinto ezimbalwa ezifunekayo ukudibana xa usebenza nala matyala.
1. Inqanaba lenkqubo. Ukuba ujonga izizukulwana ezimbalwa ezadlulayo kwezi ntsapho, unokufumana ilahlekile kwiminyaka yemfazwe, kunye nengcinezelo, amabali kunye nenzulu yembali, amabali malunga nendlela amadoda anyamalala ngayo. Babulawa njani, baphoswa, batyalwe, badutyulwa. Kwimemori yosapho ohlala emgodini - ibuthathaka kakhulu, i-De-Uni- Hineld, hayi naphi na abantu. Ngandlel 'ithile, ukukhubazeka ayisiyonto nje yomzimba, kodwa kwakhona ilahleko yobomi obubonakaliswayo kukungabikho kwilahleko yosapho. Ungazisindisa kwaye ukhusele usapho oluvela kwintlungu yethu "ukusilela" ngokukhangela emsebenzini okanye kwingcambu yeshishini.
2. Yonke into ihlala ihlala ... "iphumla" kuMama. Uninzi lwabasetyhini abanemeko yosapho, ngombuzo ocacileyo, kuyavela ukuba oomamm bangenguye, okanye babe krwada kakhulu / bengafikeleleki / bohlwaya. Ngandlel 'ithile, njengomntwana, abafazi abanjalo, umxholo "wendlu" ayisiyondawo efudumeleyo nesesikhundleni. Bayakukhumbula ngokugqibeleleyo ubutsha, ukuhamba ngeenyawo, ukuthanda kwabo ufunda nabo kuneengokuhlwa zasekhaya. Ngoku umyeni akasebenzi, kodwa ngokobukho, inyanzela "ukuba" umama 'abenokufikeleleka ". Kwangelo xesha, akamazi uMolokazana, aphile kunye nezinto anomdla kuzo kwaye abe ngoyena mntu ubuqhophololo. Inqaku alikho kwindlela yokuphila, kodwa njengomnxibelelanisi kunye nalo, xa usapho lusekhaya.
3. Ukusuka kule nto ilandela enye into. Ukungabikho kwabo bafana ekhaya ekhaya baguqukele kubo bonke obunye ubudlelwane babaphene abaphumeleleyo kwindawo esondele kakhulu kukuzilahlela. Lonke uxinzelelo kunye nolo lonke ibango nokugxeka, usabhengeza kwindoda, kuba ukungabikho kwento kuhlala inomphathi wayo, oko kukuthi, kunye nomntu obhinqileyo. Emehlweni, uphulukana namandla abo aze awele emazantsi amava awo, apho engeyiyo iNkokeli, "umlilo" kwaye "uyayalela". " Ngolu suku, kuyadinwa, ilolo kunye neempawu zokufunda, oko kukuthi, amazwe xa singayiboni inqaku lokufuna uncedo, ukusukela nje ukuba banikezele kwaye banikezele.
Unjani kuyo?
Kwinqanaba ngalinye- isisombululo sayo kunye neendlela zabo. Eyona nto iphambili yokuqonda ukuba zonke ezi ndlela azijoli kwinto yokuba umyeni uyaphuma kwisofa kwaye uye emsebenzini.
Kwimeko yokuqala, umsebenzi wethu kukubona indlela abathengi ngenkumbulo epheleleyo yokuhlukana "namadoda" aqinileyo agqibe le ntsapho ngoncedo lwamandla osapho.
Kwimeko yesibini, imibuzo enomama ingcono ukusombulula, kunokuba ihlehlise ... iindlela zoku kungasaqwalaseli, mhlawumbi.
Kwimeko yesithathu, umsebenzi womthengi kukwabela iingcinga zokudakumba kunye namazwe ahlukileyo phambi kwe "Sofa". Yabela kwaye unike indlela enyaniweyo kule meko ebomini bakho.
Iindlela zobunzima, kodwa ukuze uzibone, uqala unomdla kwiimpawu zosapho, njengakwi-anecdote odumileyo: "- Sithandwa, ebomini bafuna utshintsho olubukhali! - Yintoni, uyalele iTV kwaye uya kujonga i-sofa? ".
UMaria Dyachkova, ugqirha wezengqondo, ugqirha wosapho kunye noqeqesho olukhokelayo kwiZiko loQeqsho loQhulelo loQeqesho lweMarika Khazin