Ukususela ebuntwaneni, sinenkolelo enkulu: "Uthando lwakho lilingana ne-egosm." Ndikhumbula indlela kwenye yeholide, isihlobo saxelelwa malunga nenye ixhaphakileyo nomama kwaye simgxotha: "Ewe, uyathanda kakhulu" ...
Kwaye khumbula, kwabakho i-cartoon "chetten 13", kwaye kukho ibinzana elinje: "Zithande," Zithande, ulindele wonke umntu, impumelelo ikulindele? "? Kubonakala ngathi kumnandi kakhulu kwaye kuyahlekisa. Emva kwayo yonke loo nto, umbeki akacebisi.
Oko kukuthi, ukuthanda kwakhe kwakuziswa njengokunqongophala, phantse isono. Kwaye ndisakholelwa ekubeni ibingafanelekanga ukuba ihlale i-rigor kuye, kodwa ikwancome.
Nangona kunjalo, ngokoqobo kwiminyaka yakutshanje, imbono yokuhlonela ngokupheleleyo ebomini bethu. Ngethamsanqa, abantu baqala ukwenza umahluko phakathi kweekhonsepthi ze-egosm, indlela yokuziphatha elonakalisayo, kunye nothando olungenampilo, nothando, kunye nomzimba, iingcinga kunye namaphupha. Le yindlela yophuhliso. Iingcamango ezintsha zizalwa luthando, iVild World iyatshintsha. Ukuzithemba ukhula eluthandweni, inkqubo yexabiso iphinde yakhiwe.
Uthando lwakho akufuneki ukuba lubhideke kwaye lungacacanga, umntakwabo omncinci we-egous. Kufanelekile ukwahlula uthando ngokwakho kwaye ngokujongana nobuthathaka babo. "Ke yintoni le mvakalelo ?!" -Ubuza.
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Ukuze uzithande-kuthetha ukuqonda kwaye uthathe iminqweno yethu, ungayeki ukuba ngobomi ngomso, musa ukugqwetha iinkumbulo zangaphambili. Oku kuthetha-ukuba ungayityhefu i-thewor yentliziyo yakho, ulunya okanye izithuko. Oku kuthetha ukuba - amandla okuyeka lula ukuba angahambi, ngaphandle kokungena kwisangqa esikhohlakeleyo seemvakalelo ezitshabalalisayo.
Ukuze uzithande kukuphuhlisa umzimba wonke kwaye ngokomoya: ukugcina impilo ngoncedo loqeqesho, kulula ukudla, susa imikhwa etshabalalisayo, ngexesha lokuqinisekisa bonke abagcini boogqirha; Funda into entsha, phakamisa amabanga emfundo, funda, unxibelelane nabantu abanomdla.
Uthando lwakho lukhetho olufanelekileyo lwendawo ezikujikelezileyo. Oku kukukwazi ukubeka abantu abanetyhefu kunye ne-vampires yamandla. Xa sizithanda, asivumeli abanye ukwaphula indawo yethu kunye ne-negative yethu.
Uthando lwakho bubomi obunobudlelwane obulinganayo kunye neqabane. Oku akupheleli ukuvumela i-syfiosis exhomekeka, ukutsala amacala omabini ezantsi, kwaye uphile kwaye uhlakulele nomntu ofanele ukuwe. Ngenxa yolu manyano, uthando olufanayo nothando lwabo bonke baya kulungiswa.
Thatha kwaye uzihlonele- le sisiseko sophuhliso lomntu.
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"Kulungile, zithini ezi ndaba ?! -Ubuza. -Ngoko ke kuyavela, ubomi bonke bumalunga nothando ?! Kuthekani ngedini, inceba, inceba, inkathalo? Ayizizo zonke izinto zokuphumla ngokwakho kunye nezilangazelelo zabo! Ngamanye amaxesha kuya kufuneka wenze ukhetho lwenkoliseko kwabanye abantu kunawe! "
Ukubonakaliswa kokuthanda ummelwane, ngokungathandabuzekiyo kubalulekile. Le yenye yeyona miyalelo ibalulekileyo yobuKristu. Kodwa khumbula: "Thandani ummelwane wakho, njengawe." Oku kuthetha ukuba- kufuneka uhlonele izisombululo zakho, ukhetho lwakho, indlela yakho. Ukuba ukhetha indlela yenceba, kwaye kuwo uziva ngolonwabo, hamba! Ukunyamekela abanye abantu kunye nokufumana uvuyo olunyanisekileyo koku, awubonisi uthando? Ngaphandle kokuba, ukunika uthando kubantwana bakho, awuziva ikratshi lokuthumelela ngalo lonke uloyiso oluncinci? Asibobungqina bothando ngokwakho?
Uthando lwehlabathi luqala ngothando. Ukuba uyazixabisa njengomntu njengendalo eyahlukileyo, eyahlukileyo eneminqweno emihle kunye namaphupha ... Ukuba umamele izwi lentliziyo yakho kwaye ulandele ... ukuba umphefumlo wakho awunatyhefu kunobukrwada, emva koko Ujonga kwihlabathi ngokwahlukileyo. Ubomi abusabonakali njenge-whirlpool eyoyikisayo, ukugcina ukufunxa. Okuphikisanayo! Ukuzithanda, kubonakala ngathi sibona umhlaba kwakhona, sivula onke amathuba amatsha nawatsha amathuba okubonakaliswa kwethu.