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Izibini ezininzi ezinemitshato, uqhawulo-mtshato kunye nabantwana zijamelene nengxaki efanayo - elinye lamaqabane liqala ukuba nekhwele kwixesha elidlulileyo.
Ukuba unokwaphula ubudlelwane kunye neqabane, emva koko abantwana bahlala nomntu obomi, nokuba abaphili. Nangona kunjalo, ubukho babantwana kubudlelwane bangaphambili bunokungalungiselele iqabane langoku, kwaye kungenxa yoko.
"Usamthanda '
Xa umntu esiza kwintsapho entsha ene "Impahla" ngohlobo lwabantwana abavela kumfazi wangaphambili, inkosikazi yokwenene iqala ukugqwetha ingcinga: "Ukuba iya ezintlanganisweni, oko kuthetha ukuba ityhila emva. " Ingcinga enjalo ingayityhefu lonke ubomi obuhlanganisiweyo.
Ukuze ungazilayidi, uzibuze nje: "Ukuba uyamthanda, kutheni unam?" Ukwazi ukuba indoda ikuwe kuba iyakuthanda, kunganceda kakhulu. Bonisa isisa kwaye ungazithinteli ezi ntlanganiso: Indoda iyakuvuyela ukuqonda kwakho.
"Uyamthanda umntwana ngaphezu kwam"
Uninzi lwabazali luxelela abantwana kwimitshato yangaphambili, ngaphandle kobudlelwane obutsha, baya kuhlala bemthanda unyana wakhe okanye intombi yakhe. Amaqabane abinabantwana abavela kwimitshato yangaphambili kwaye bajamelana nosapho olutsha lukaTata okanye uMama, uninzi lweva lenza ibinzana kwaye ngaphezulu kwesinye. Ukuba oku kuyakusebenza kuwe, kwaye ngoku awungekhe ususe ingcinga yokuba iqabane lakhe liye kwimpelaveki ukuze limxelele ibinzana elibi kakhulu kuwe, cinga nje ngento yokuba abantu abadala bahlala beyimbonakalo ukuze Umntwana akanamdla.
"Umntwana wakhe ngunobangela wokunyanzelwa komkhosi"
Uqokelele ikhonsathi, kodwa apha umfazi wangaphambili ubiza aze athi gca ukuba ahambe, kodwa ashiye umntwana engenamntwana. Ngokwemvelo, zonke izicwangciso zakho ziyahamba. Imeko iqhelekile kwaye kwezinye iimeko kuya kufuneka wenze umnyinyiva, kodwa ukuba imeko iphindaphindwa ukusuka ngexesha ukuya kube kanye, kuyacaca ukuba lowo wayefuna nje ukubashiya iqabane labo elodwa. Umntwana akakho kwanto apha. Thetha nomyeni wam, chaza indlela oyibona ngayo le meko, makayibone, nayo, iya kwabelana ngeengcinga zakhe ngale nto. Kunye kufuneka ufumane isisombululo.