Ukuzalwa komntwana yenye yezona zisombululo zinoxanduva ebomini bethu. Ngelishwa, abazali abazayo banxibelelane nalo mbandela nangabo bonke ubunzulu, bakhetha ukusombulula iingxaki njengoko befika. Ukusuka apha kakhulu kuqala iingxaki eziphambili kwisibini. Sigqibe kwelokuba sifumanise ukuba yeyiphi imibuzo kubalulekile ukuphendula umzali onoxanduva ngaphambi kokucwangcisa ukukhulelwa.
Ngaba unalo ithuba lezemali ukugcina umntwana
Abafazi abaninzi beva kwiintombi kunye nezihlobo zesizukulwana esidala: "Kulungile, ngaphambi kokuba into endiyizalele ngandlel 'ithile!" Kwimeko enjalo, umfazi okhathaza icala lezezimali lombuzo, uqala ukuba nemvakalelo yokwenyani - inene, wonke umntu wazala, kwaye ucinga ngemali. Thintela iingcinga ezifanayo. Umhlaba kunye nemeko yezoqoqosho itshintshile kangangokuba icwangcisiwe ukucwangcisa phantse lonke inyathelo, ngakumbi kwimeko yokufika kwabantwana. Xoxa neqabane lakho ukuba unokunika umntwana ngaphandle kwamaxhoba enxenye yawo.
Umntwana uthatha amandla amaninzi
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Uza kumkhathalela njani umntwana
Ingabonakala ngathi impendulo ngu-Shandory- kunjalo, mama! Kodwa ungangxami. Hlanganisa usapho lwakho ngokwahlukeneyo kwezinye iintsapho ezifumana ngaphezulu kwisibini sakho, onokuthi kwimigaqo yokuchitha ixesha elininzi nomntwana. Rhoqo, ootata baba ngowona msebenzi ubalaseleyo, kodwa akukho mntu ucime inxaxheba kaMama. Kwenzeka xa omnye umzali engamelanga, kwaye apha kufanelekile ukuba acinge ngesimemo seNanny. Kubalulekile ukuvavanya ubuchule bakho - zombini ezemali kunye nengqondo - kwangaphambili.
Kuya kwenzeka ntoni emsebenzini wakho
Mhlawumbi owona mbuzo ungathandekiyo, ngakumbi kumfazi oye kwisithuba sephupha iminyaka emininzi. Ewe kunjalo, namhlanje sibona imizekelo emininzi xa ishishini eliphumelelayo idibanisa ilaptop, kodwa ayinguye wonke umntu obhinqileyo ukuba afumane ubomi obuncinci - umsebenzi ophezulu kunye nokukhathalela umntwana ukuba athabathe isixa esikhulu semikhosi. Rhoqo kuya kufuneka ukhethe into enye. Ngaba ukulungele ukubingelela?
Unjani ngokomgaqo malunga nabantwana
Umbuzo ongengomabuzo, kodwa nangona kunjalo. Kubonakala ngathi nokuba abantwana bayacaphukisa, ngokuqinisekileyo baya kwahluka. Hayi, bonke abantwana bayafana, awuyi kuba nakho ukuhlengahlengisa umntwana ngokwakho, endaweni yoko, kuya kufuneka uhlengahlengise ubomi bakho kunye nesimilo phantsi kwelungu losapho elitsha. Kukwakufanelekile ukuba ucinge ngalo mzuzu njengokuba iqabane lakho likulungele ukutshintsha olubukhali ebomini.