Kutshanje, onke amaphupha athunyelwa kum, ngandlela thile nomxholo wokufa. Ngokungathi ngabafundi bethu baphelelwa kwaye banikwa isigqibo sokukhangela esi sihloko kumacala ahlukeneyo. Nanku omnye umzekelo onenkcazo emfutshane yombhali:
"Sambulala ummelwane, indoda eselula. Ngokufanelekileyo azokhuthazwa omnye ummelwane, owayesakuba ngupolisa. Abahlobo baya kuye, ubuntu bolwaphulo-mthetho, kwaye bandiphatha kakubi kakhulu. Ndiyabahluthisa ngamandla. Ndivuke ndinemvakalelo yokuba ndisongele ingozi.
Kwaye eli phupha liyintsikelelo: "Umakhulu wam wexesha elide ndabizwa kathathu, ukuluma ngegama. Ndandisemgangatho wesibini weNdlu ndaye ndaphendula ngelithi ngoku ndiza kuhla ndivule umnyango. "
Sele siyekile le nkalo ngaphezulu kwesinye: iphupha lomntu oswelekileyo, obiza. Kwikretshitisa ekufuphi iphupha elinjalo lithetha ukuba umntu oswelekileyo uza kuthatha. Nangona kunjalo, akuyomfuneko ukuba banike ixhala, kuba ukulala ayisingomnyango wehlabathi elinye, kodwa isango lingazi nto. Yenzelwe umntu othile, kodwa ukunxibelelana ngokungazi nathi kulwimi lwabalinganiswa kunye nemifanekiso. Ukuba iphupha elinjalo liphupha, kufanelekile ukuba sicinge ngesihloko esifanekisela umntu ophuphayo kwaye kutheni eli phupha liza kuphupha ngoku, ngeli xesha lobomi bakho. Ke uphawu lokulala luba lubala ngakumbi.
Ke kulomzekelo akukho buthathaka ngokoqobo. Umakhulu wasemva kwexesha ubiza iphupha. Nangona kunjalo, nikela ingqalelo indlela ebotshwe ngayo, ingabonakala ngathi ayihambelani nezinto: ukuya kummelwane wezifundo ezikrokrelayo kunye nephupha. Eyona nto inokwenzeka, iphupha livakalelwa kukuba nexhala kwaye lingacacanga aba bantu. Ngokuchasene nemvelaphi, kwakhona-ukubulala komntu oselula kuvale ngokupheleleyo, iintsomi kunye neentlobo, ukudibanisa le ntlekele. Xa oku kusenzeka, wonke umzimba wethu ujika ube ngumtya: Amehlo abonayo, iindlebe zokumamela ziphuculwe, i-adrenaline i-bala egazini, kuba umsebenzi womzimba wethu uza kusindisa kwimeko eyingozi. Kodwa ngoku kubomi bamaphupha abukho umthombo ocacileyo wesisongelo esiphumayo. Umzekelo, sonke sazi kakuhle into eyoyike: izinja, izigcawu, iinyoka, ubumnyama, ubumnyama. Yonke le nto ibizwa ngegama, kodwa kwimeko yamaphupha ethu kunzima ukuyibiza ngegama lengozi ngegama. Akunakwenzeka ukuba isimo sengqondo somntu singabizwa ngokuba sisisongelo.
Nangona kunjalo, iphupha alinakuyeka ukoyika: iimvakalelo neemvakalelo zomzimba azikhohliswa. Kwaye akukacacanga ukuba woyike into enganyamezelekiyo. Ke ngoko, i-psyche yokuyila ihamba ngentshukumo ekrelekrele- "Buyisa" iphupha, apho isoyikiso sicacile:
Ngamanye amagama, ukulala kubonisa ukuba umzimba wakhe kunye nomphefumlo wakhe uhlala kwimeko yengozi eyandayo. Inxalenye yayo isekwe kwingqikelelo, kwinto apho kukho ingqolowa yenyani. Iphupha lethu liyafuneka ukuze uzinyamekele kwaye malunga nokhuseleko lwayo kwihlabathi lokwenyani kwaye uchonge imithombo yenyani yengozi. Lala kunye neemvakalelo emva kokuvuka kwaye yayiziintloko eziphambili.
Ndiyazibuza ukuba uphupha ntoni? Imizekelo yamaphupha akho ethunyelwa ngeposi: [email protected]. Ngendlela, amaphupha kulula kakhulu ukuveza ukuba kwileta eya kumhleli uya kubhala iimeko ezingaphambili zobomi, kodwa okona kubaluleke kakhulu - iimvakalelo kunye neengcinga zelixesha lokuvuka kweli phupha.
UMaria Dyachkova, ugqirha wezengqondo, ugqirha wosapho kunye noqeqesho olukhokelayo kwiZiko loQeqsho loQhulelo loQeqesho lweMarika Khazin