Usuku oluhle, abafundi.
Kutshanje ndithumele iphupha elinomdla, ndiphindaphinda. Ibhinqa eliselula, malunga neminyaka engama-36 ubudala, yamthumela kuye ukuba aqashe.
"Ndiphupha iphupha izihlandlo ezininzi mva nje ukuba ndisemtshatweni wam. Kodwa uhlala wedwa, kodwa kwindawo entle yokunxiba emhlophe. Ungaze uphuphe into yokuba ndinomkhenkce. Ebomini, andizange ndibengenabantu. "
Ewe, ukulala kubonakala ngokucacileyo. Umfazi emtshatweni ngaphandle komyeni. Ewe kunjalo, ukusuka kumagama okuqala kucacile ukuba ubuthongo malunga nesizungu sebhinqa. Ngapha koko, ukulala kubonisa ukuba iphupha lethu alifanekisi umfanekiso wendoda enokuba kufutshane.
Asingabo bonke abasetyhini kunye namadoda banyanzelekile ukuba benze ubudlelwane, beze neentsapho kwaye bazale abantwana. Kwabanye, oku kukhetho olungaqondakaliyo. Kodwa kaninzi kwenzeka konke konke. Abafazi abanakuchaza ukuba kutheni ngedatha engaphandle, ububele, ingqondo kunye nokukwazi ukuzikhathalela, ngelixa wonke umntu ejikeleze, utshata, utshata nabathandi. Ngokubanzi, sifuna abantu. Andazi nokuba ukhetho olunjalo lufezekisiwe kwi-heroine yethu. Ngaba unenjongo eyakha wayenza usapho?
Ukuba le misebenzi ibalulekileyo isakhona, kubalulekile ukumisela into ayibonayo iqabane lakhe.
Imalunga noku ekubeni ubuthonga bayo butsho: akunandawo yayo akukho ndawo yendoda. Kwaye le ndawo "ayisixabisi. Kusenokwenzeka ukuba kukho imfuneko yakhe yokwenza ubudlelwane obuthembekileyo, ukucinga ukuba kukho umntu onokuba naye, kwaye ngubani? Yintoni umntu?
Nditsho olona lungenamava kwiithiyori zengqondo ngokwaziwayo ukuba ukhetho lwesatellite yexesha elizayo luchaphazeleke ngamantombazana notata wakhe. Vala, ulwalamano olufudumeleyo nolo oluthembekileyo kunye nomzali luya kuvumela ukuba sibe mdala ukuba sikwazi ukuvuselela ubudlelwane obuthembekileyo, obuhlala buhleli, nexesha elide nendoda.
Ukuba utata wayengenguye, wanyamalala kwinqanaba elithile lokukhulisa intombi yakhe, lamisa abafowunelwa okanye ngexesha lokuphila kolwalamano nentombi yakhe yayixinene, emva koko ihlakulela imbonakalo yentombazana, Kwaye ke ibhinqa eliselula, ukuba nobudlelwane.
Rhoqo, ngenxa yamava anjalo, umfazi uyeza kwisigqibo sokuba kungcono ukuba ungabi nabudlelwane kumgaqo wokuba ube neqabane elingakhuselekanga kuye. Naluphi na ulwalamano alunatyala, apho siziva ngathi singahamba naliphi na ixesha, ukuba singcatsha, sibangela into eya kuthi, singqubana nomzimba.
Amaphupha ethu, iphupha elinjalo libonisa ukuba kuya kuba mnandi ukujongana nabo ufuna ukubona ecaleni kwabo.
Kwaye ukuba kunzima ukuphendula le mibuzo, kufanelekile ukujongana nezimvo malunga namadoda kwaphela. Kwaye nokuphendula umbuzo osekwe kwisigqibo sayo sokuba sodwa. Kungenzeka ukuba esi sigqibo asisasebenzi. Kwaye ukuba iphupha lethu lingakwazi ukudala ubudlelwane.
Ngaba uphupha ubuthongo, kwaye ufuna uMaria ukuyivala kwindawo yethu? Emva koko thumela imibuzo yakho ngeposi: [email protected].
UMaria Zmvuskova, ugqirha wengqondo, ugqirha wonyango losapho kunye noqeqesho olukhokelayo kwiZiko loQeqesho loQeqesho loQeqeshe leMarika Khazina