E-Olga Arntgoolts kukho into evela kwinkulungwane ye-Xix. Ubukrelekrele, ukuzithemba, umgangatho we-TACT, kunokuba kunqabile namhlanje. Akumangalisi ukuba imithambo yayo ihamba igazi eliluhlaza okwesibhakabhaka - umakhulu-gonise i-ratiolina ye-freelilina ye-fria persorvna.
I-Olga Arntgoolts: "Sibandakanyekile ekufuneni ooyihlo. Umakhulu notata bagcina amanye amaxwebhu abhalwe phantsi ngumbhalo onzima, ongafanelekanga. Into esiyiqondayo into. Ivelaphi igama lethu lokugqibela malunga noko uthethayo, besingazi. Ndizamile ukufumanisa utata, kwaye emva koko, sinxibelelane nabantu osebenza nabo bamanye amazwe, amaJamani, kodwa alilize. Emva koko, kwiindawo ezininzi ezigcinwe, amaxesha eMfazwe Kakhulu kwiMfazwe yeLizwe bemi "imfihlo". Nangona kunjalo, into engafumanekiyo kubantu abaqhelekileyo bavula phambi kwegama lomlingo "kumabonwakude". Xa sanikwa ukunceda kwenye yeendlela zeTV ekukhangeleni, ngelonwabo savuma. Yathi yathi i-PrababId kumgca kayise yayiyindoda enesidima, i-Scholan.
Emva kokuba ufunde malunga nemvelaphi yakho, into ethile ekuqiniseni?
UOlga: "Ewe, mhlawumbi, akukho nto. Ngokuyinxenye sazi ngayo ngaphambili. Saxelelwa ukuba sinodade kunye nembonakalo ka-Garyan, kunye nohlobo lwe-nordic. Kwisikolo seSchepkinsky, apho sasifunda khona, sasikhona ikhosi yaseJamani. Kunye nonjingalwazi wethu, uMaria e-Engenievava, uJoding: Batsho, wena, mantombazana, mhlawumbi, umnyango wawungalunganga. "
Kukuphakamisele njani abazali?
UOlga: "Xa umama ebuzwa ngale nto, uphendula ukuba kwakungekho program yoqeqesho, kukho uthando kuphela. Bathande abazali omnye komnye kuthi, bantwana. Zikho izithethe zabanye isidlo sabantu abaphumeleleyo xa wonke umntu wayesiya kwitafile enkulu, sibhiyozela iiholide kunye, imihla yokuzalwa. Kwakukho iintaba kwiindawo zethiyetha, iimyuziyam, iikonsathi ze-sychestras ze-symphony. Kwaye thina kunye nodadewethu bayayithanda. Sasinentsapho yokufunda, ilayibrari enkulu endlwini.
Oodade iArntgolts bakhulela eluthandweni. Ifoto: Gennady Avramenoko.
AmaHindu axabana ukuba ngumfazi ogxile kwindoda namandla ayimfuneko kuye ukuze aphumeze.
I-olga: "Ndiyavuma. Indlu yindawo apho kufuneka izole kwaye ipholile. Akukho meko kukuqhubeka komsebenzi, kufuneka kubekho ukuphumla. Imikhosi ivela kule nto kwaye ifuna ukuya phambili. Kwaye umfazi kufuneka azive ezokukhusela. Indoda iyoyikisa kwaye iyoyipha le nto - ukuze iintsapho zikhululeke, yayiyinto yokutya. Andisoze ndikhala: "Hlalani ekhaya, ndifuna ubushushu bakho." Indoda ifanele isebenze, kuba ibalulekile kuye. "
Ngaba uyathanda ukuxhobisela indlu?
I-olga: "Ewe, ndikukhulisa yonke into. Okwangoku ungaguquki kwiingcali zeengcali. Mhlawumbi umyili oqeqeshiweyo unokuthi kwenye indawo ayisositayile esinye, kwinto endiyinze impazamo. Kodwa ayibalulekanga. Eyona nto iphambili esithanda ngayo - abantu abahlala endlwini. Kusenokwenzeka ukuba kunqabile, kodwa andizithandi zonke izinto zangaphakathi - yonke le nto incinci enamanzi, uthuli kunye nento ekushukumayo. Ndiyazithanda iindawo ezinkulu, ifanitshala enemigodi. Kwaye ilayibrari enkulu eludongeni lonke, njengabazali bam. "
Ngoku ungathanda iincwadi?
UOlga uthi: "Xa into efana nento abayibhalayo malunga nento abayibhalayo ezincwadini, ndivuke ndinomdla kuncwadi. Uqala ukuziqonda, iimeko. Ibetha iimvakalelo. Kwaye kwibanga lesibhozo, banyanzela "iHamlet", wena awunakubona ukuba intsingiselo yezi zenziwa ngokomoya kunye namava.
Awuyi kwenza ukuba abantwana bakho bafunde?
I-Olga: "Ndiza! Kodwa, mhlawumbi, ndiza kuzama ukuyenza ngandlela thile, ngaphandle kwengcinezelo. Ndifanelekile ukuba ndiwele uncwadi oluyimfuneko. "
Oodade baseRntgolts kunye ne-vakhtang teridze. Ifoto: i-uftodom.ru.
Yintoni enye, ngokoluvo lwakho, yimfuneko ekukhuliseni? Yintoni ekufuneka umazi umntwana?
UOlga: "Ndiyakholelwa ukuba ukuqonda kwehlabathi, ukuqonda kobomi bomntwana kusanikezelwa ngaphezulu. Sele kususela ekuzalweni, okubekwe kakhulu. Isikhokelo kuphela sokubazali, phuhlisa. Kumntwana omncinci sele evakalelwa ngumlinganiswa. Bonke abantwana bakhwaza ngokwahlukileyo, zonke iindlela zabo zokutsala ingqalelo yabo. Kwenzeka ke ukuba ngoku ndinxibelelana nabantwana abaninzi. Kwakukho ixesha elinethamsanqa: Izithandwa zam-umzalwana ongumgubo, abazala, uninzi lwabantwana endifunda nabo - bavela abantwana. Yile nto uyiqondayo, bahluke ngantoni bonke abantwana! Ngamnye wabo ngumntu, indalo, i-microcosm. Akukho nto inomdla ngakumbi kunokuba ijonge indlela indoda encinci ikhula ngayo. Indlela aqala ngayo ukucinga, ubambe, unamathele ebomini. Kuyamangalisa, ukwazi nje kuyajika. "
Ngaba into ongayaziyo ngeentsana?
I-Olga: "Ngequbuliso kuza ebomini bakho, uyazi ukuba awuyazi nto. Kutshiwo ukuba akunakwenzeka ukuba ujonge umlilo, amanzi kunye nendlela omnye umntu asebenza ngayo. Ngendikongeze apha: ukubukela umntwana. Oku kungenziwa ngemini. Emva kwayo yonke loo nto, yonke into itshintsha ngalo lonke ixesha: Ukhula, ujonge, uqonde umhlaba. "
Kwaye kubazali imbopheleleko enkulu ...
UOlga: "Umntu ucinga ngenye indlela?"
Abanye bakhathalela umntwana ukuya eNanny, kwaye ngokwabo baqhubeke bephila ubomi babo.
I-Olga: "Ewe kunjalo, yenzeka njalo."
Ngoku, ngokuqala kosapho, ngaba ngekhe usebenze ngenkuthalo?
I-Olga: "Andithandi ukwenza. Mhlawumbi kubi. Kodwa bendiqhele ukwenza oko nakwizinto ezincinci kakhulu ngamanye amaxesha yonke into ihamba iphosakele, njengoko yayicwangcisiwe ekuqaleni. YINTONI UKUZE UQEQESHE NGE-GLOTER! Eyona nto ibalulekileyo kukuba wonke umntu usempilweni. "