Ewe kunjalo, ukuzalwa komntwana yinkqubo ebaluleke kakhulu enokukoyikisa abanye abantu basetyhini kwimeko yokuba banxibelelane nengcali. Akunakulindeleka ukuba kuthintelwe ngokupheleleyo ulonwabo, kodwa kunokwenzeka ukunciphisa inqanaba lamava, ukukhetha ufakelo, le meko yoxinzelelo iyakunceda ukuza kubo. Siya kuxela ngale nto namhlanje kwaye sixelele.
Uloyiko alukuniki lokonwabela ukukhulelwa
Ngapha koko, ukukhulelwa kunokubizwa ngokuba lixesha elikhethekileyo ebomini bomfazi, njengoko ulwazelelo lomzimba ngexesha lokukhulelwa alunakuthelekiswa nawaphi na amanye amazwe. Ke ngoko, umfazi ubaluleke kakhulu ukugxila kwiimvakalelo zabo-ngokukhethekileyo ukuba neli xesha. Iinyanga ezili-9 ziya kuqhuma ngokungagungqi, uya kuvuma, iya kuba lihlazo ukuba uchitha uloyiko: "Yintoni endilindeleyo kwigumbi lokusebenza?" Zama ukutshintshela, kodwa ukuba ayisebenzi, bhalisa kwiikhosi ezizodwa zoomama abazayo, apho niyayicacisa yonke into eyenzekayo kuwe kwaye kuya kwenzeka ntoni ngokuzala.
Ukungabi koloyiko kuya kunceda ukuzala ngokukhawuleza
Njengoko sisazi, ilizwe elothusayo lenza imisipha inciphe, kwaye uyakuqonda njani, kunye neentlobo zendalo hayi olungelelwaniso oluhle kakhulu. Ngokweenkcukacha-manani, abafazi abakwicala phambi kwenkqubo, bazale iiyure ezimbini. Umzimba uqala ukumelana. Ukuba uyaqonda ukuba awukwazi ukujamelana noloyiko lokuba ungazisebenzisi, bhalisela ingcali eya kusebenza kuwe uloyiko lwakho.
Ukungabikho koloyiko kunceda ukuzala ngokukhawuleza
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Cinga ukuba ulindelwe yintoni esiphelweni
Sisoloko sisoyika ukungaziwa, kwaye amabhinqa amaninzi adlulayo ukuzalwa okhethekileyo ayavunywa ukuba emva kweeyure ezimbalwa aza kudibana nosana, avumelekile ukuba ahlukane noxinzelelo, alandele yonke i Imiyalelo yababelekisi. Ekugqibeleni, akusekho namnye umntwana ongapheliyo, khumbula le nto.