Ebuntwaneni, ekusenokwenzeka ukuba ulele ngetyhefu ethambileyo okanye ingubo entle oyithandayo. Kodwa ukuba ufikelele kwiminyaka yobuninzi kwaye usanyanzela ibhere e-teddy ebuntwaneni, kuyavela ukuba awuwedwa. Ngokutsho kovavanyo olwenziwe ngumsebenzi woomasifundisane owenziweyo, i-40% yabantu abadala bayamkela ukuba ubuntwana bulele kunye nengubo ethambileyo okanye ingubo ethambileyo. Kodwa ayingomntu okhulileyo ukuba alale ngesilwanyana se-plush- Ngaba inkulu? Nantsi into ethethwa ziingcali.
I-toy toy inokubonelela ngabantu abadala abasithuthuzelayo kwaye ukhuselo ngexesha loxinzelelo olukhulu
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Inceda njani izinto zokudlala ezithambileyo
Oogqirha babiza iithoyi ezithambileyo, iingubo kunye ne "izinto zethutyana". Oku koko balele abantwana abancinci ukuba bazive bekhuselekile, ngakumbi xa bengekho abazali okanye kwabagcini babo. Iithoyi ezithambileyo zikwanceda abantwana bahlukane nokuxhomekeka kwinkululeko, kungoko igama. Ngokufaka unxibelelwano nento, abantwana bafunda ukunxibelelana naye ukubanceda bakwazi ukujongana neealamu zabo. UCavita Kuvita Juvita Jagu, oncedayo, onceda ukulala, "utsho ugqirha wezengqondo kunye nonontlalontle obhalisiweyo kwiToronto. Ekugqibeleni, umntwana uya kuqalisa ukunxibelelanisa i-plush toy ngephupha.
NgokukaJagu, njengabantwana, into yokudlala ethambileyo inokubonelela ngemvakalelo yabantu abadala yokuthuthuzelwa nokukhuseleka ngexesha loxinzelelo olukhulu. Uthi: "Uninzi lwabantu njengokufunda ukuxhomekeka kuhlobo oluthile lokukhathazeka ukuba bajamelane noxinzelelo," utshilo. "Umzekelo woku kunokuba yinto ethambileyo."
Xa ulala kunye nezilwanyana ze-pluth iba yingxaki
Iindaba ezimnandi: Iingcali zithi ukuqalisa ngenja yabo oyithandayo ye-plung gesh nganye iqhelekile, nokuba awusalali ebhedini yabantwana. "Akukho nto ingaqhelekanga ngale nto," watsho uStanley Goldsstein's Psychologist. Uphawula ukuba abantu abadala banoloyiko, "nayo yonke into esinceda ukuba sikwazi ukujamelana naloo kova." Nangona kunjalo, ukuba ukunamathela kwakho kwitoyitha ethambileyo kuchaphazela umsebenzi wakho okanye ubudlelwane bakho, oku kuhlala kungumqondiso wengxaki enzulu ekufuneka isonjululwe. Umzekelo, ngaba ukongeza inkxaso kwi-teddy yakho ye-teddy, hayi kumyeni wakho? U-Katerine, uGqirha weNtloko.
Ukwahlula kunzima, nokuba banxulumana nokwahlulahlula i-Inan Aream
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Ungayikhulula njani i-Palh yakho
Ukwahlula-hlula kunzima, nokuba banxulumana nokwahlukana nomxholo ongaphilanga. Phambi kokuba uthatha isigqibo sokuba "ugxothe" umhlobo wakho we-fluffy, ubuthame ubudlelwane bakho nezilwanyana ze-pluth kwaye kuya kuthi ukuba uyeke ukulala naye, "ususe i-jagu. Yamkela ke iimvakalelo zakho nokuba kuyakwenzeka ntoni xa ukukhulula. Ngaba uya kuba nexhala ngakumbi? Ngaba uya kuva ilahleko? "Zama ukuqonda ukuba zeziphi izinto," utshilo uJagu. 'Fumana indlela yokubuyisa ngalo khetho kwaye ufumane ukuzaliswa kule nkqubo. " Nceda ulale unokungahoyi, ikhuphe ioyile ebalulekileyo kwindawo yomqamelo kunye nokucamngca.