ULipa Teterich usesebutsha bakhe wayethathwa luthando olukhulu. Namhlanje ungumfazi owonwabileyo kunye nonina wabantwana abathathu: uLaurel, uMelissa noNikon. Izithuba zomamkeli weTV, apho wabelana ngobomi obumnandi bosapho, ngokungakhathali kwi-diarantine, khuthaza ababhalisi bayo. Kudliwanondlebe neLipa, kwabelwana ngayo kwinto yokuba yasala emva kweziganeko: bekukho ubunzima kunye noloyiko, kunye namava anzima - kodwa awuyi kukuqonda oko kolonwabo lokwenene. Iinkcukacha-kudliwanondlebe nephepha lephephabhuku "moya".
- LipA, uyila ukuba uza kuyo yonke into, nkqu nakwimicimbi yezeKhaya. Ndiqinisekile ukuba usuku lwabathandi luyamdla ngakumbi.
-Umhla we-14 kaFebruwari 14 -Sibhiyozela, kodwa hayi ngoSuku lweValentine. Ebuncinaneni bam, ndiphuphe isiqingatha sam sesibini. Kodwa bendiqonda ukuba ayizange inikezwe uthando lwabantu bonke. Kungekuphela nje ngethamsanqa, kodwa kunye nokukhetha umntu. Umntu ukhetha ukwakha umsebenzi. Kwaye ngale nto bendilungile, ndacula kwiqela "amantombazana". Sathandwa, ngakumbi kwindawo yolutsha. Kodwa ndingumntu obalulekileyo ukuba ndinike uthando kwaye ndizive ngathi ndimthandayo. Intliziyo ifanele isebenze kwikhulu lezigidi zezigidi. (Uncumo.) Kwaye amajelo eendaba anecala elijikelezayo. Asinguye wonke umntu ofuna "umculi", ngesizathu esithile sisiko ukuba limelwe zizidalwa ezinomoya, inkosikazi yabantwana babo, iqabane lobomi. Ifanele ibe nayo yonke imeko. Kwaye ndenze isicelo kwindalo iphela, sihlunguzela umfana oneglasi ephepheni, enesikhwabi. Ndaya eMatron, ndacela ukuba ndinike uhlobo oluthile lwesibonakaliso xa ndidibana nothando lwam ukuze ndingaphazanyiswa, andimjonganga. Xa sidibana ne-Artem, umyeni wam wexesha elizayo, ndacela: "Luphi usuku lwakho lokuzalwa?" Uphendule wathi: "NgoFebruwari 14." Nanku umqondiso! (Uncumo). Ke ngoko, ngalo mhla sibhiyozela usuku lokuzalwa lomyeni wam endimthandayo, i-Arm, njengoko ndiyibiza njalo. Oogxa bam bayazi njengendoda echwayitileyo, imiphunga, uyilo, kodwa abahlali nam. (Uhleka.)
- Ngaba yonke into iyakothusa?
- Hayi, kodwa naliphi na imbasa inamacala ngasemva. Kwaye ukuba umntu uyayazi indlela yokuzonwabisa kwi-coil yonke, uya kukhathazeka kwi-coil epheleleyo kwaye icaphuke, ilusizi. Ndixelelwe ukuba: "Unosapho olufanelekileyo!" Ewe, ndifuna ukwabelana nabanye ngeemvakalelo ezintle, kwaye ke ndithumela ifoto yosapho kwinethiwekhi yenethiwekhi. Kodwa wazi njani ukuba kwenzeke ntoni kwithuba lokuphumla phakathi kwendlela endizenza ngayo ezi zithuba? .
- Intle kakhulu!
- Ewe, isenzo sentombazana ukusuka kwishishini. (Uhleka.) Ndifuna ukwenza into ekhethekileyo eyamkholisa kwaye wandikhumbula. Ndiqambe ingumbongo: "Pooh shot emqamelo, vumela unqulo lwakho e-Ushko: 'Asm yam, ungoyena mhle kakhulu, uthando!" Isipho esinjalo, sothando. Emva koko ndayalela ipleyiti ye-sketch yam kumzi-mveliso we-porcelain. Umyeni wam usebenza kumzi-mveliso wamandla. Kwaye kukho umfanekiso: Hlalani, ukugona, ikati kunye nomvundla, kunye nesiginitsha yento yokuba ngelixa etshilo kwaye efudumele, ndigcina intuthuzelo endlwini. Emva koko abantwana bazalelwe - kwaye bekukho ezinye iinqambi zokuzonwabisa: umbongo ofundileyo, wadlala indawo. Siphucule ngo-Arm kwaye izitena zakha ubomi babo. Ndifumene imfundo ephezulu, ukufunda kwintatheli, wakhusela idiploma, emva koko umgqatswa. Ndaqala ukusebenza kwirediyo, iiprojekthi zeTV zavela. Indoda yayihamba ngenqanaba lomsebenzi kwaye ngoku ithatha iposti ephezulu. Malunga nomsebenzi, uphumelele ngakumbi kunam, kodwa unengqiqo, kuba ebengenamka.
"Sidibene kwivenkile enkulu. Ndidibene ne-upermarket. Ndidibene nembono, kwaye nditsalele ingqalelo kwiseti yeemveliso kwinqwelo yakhe. Bachelor"
Ifoto: Georgy Carsava
"Ngendlela, kolunye udliwanondlebe olukhankanyileyo ukuba i-Artem ayifuni mfazi womculi. Lwade njani ulwalamano lwakho?
-Sidibene kwivenkile enkulu. Ndidibene nemibono, kwaye ngokungazi nditsale ingqalelo kwiseti yeemveliso kwinqwelo yakhe. Iimveliso ezigcweleyo. Ke, i-bachelor. Wabuza umthengisi malunga nento - kwaye ndiyithandile intetho yakhe yobuchule. Emva kokuba senze isangqa sevenkile, saphinda sangena kwiSebe leNtlalothi, sancuma saye sithetha. Sele idibene, wacela ukusela iti, kwaye thina ngokulula ngokulula ngokulula siqhubeke nonxibelelwano lwethu. Ixoxe ngezihloko ezahlukeneyo, i-Artem yajika iphantse yaba phantse yontanga wam (umdala), ixelelwe umsebenzi wakhe wexesha elizayo, malunga nento yokuba ufumana i-Ofisi yesibini ye-OPREP, kwaye ithe yakhankanywa yile ntombazana Ukuzibandakanya, ukuba nje umculi wayengenguye! Kwaye okwangoku bendiqonda ukuba ndiyithanda kakhulu. Kwaye ngosuku olulandelayo (andizukuqhuma!) Ndingene kwiZiko kwakhona. (Ukuhleka.) Ndithathe iholide yemfundo, kuba andikwazanga ukudibanisa umsebenzi, ndinyamezele ngokufunda. Kodwa bendisazi ukuba iqela lethu lingayi kuhlala likho, kwaye kuya kufuneka ufumane imfundo ephezulu, intlanganiso kunye ne-Arte yandikhuthaza.
- Ngeli xesha, ngokucacileyo, yayiyeyona nto yayingumsebenzi ophambili kangangokuba akayiboni ikliphu yakho kwindawo ethile kwiTV?
"Ewe, kwaye andizange ndiqonde ukuba intombazana yakhe kunye nomculi kwinqanaba libubunye." Ngenxa yoko, phantse kunjalo. Sele sidibene ixesha elide: Kwakukho nenkundla, kunye nembalelwano yothando, kwaye ihamba kwiipaki. Kwaye kube kanye, i-Artem yandicela indawo yokutyela, eMoscow-City, wavula kuphela. Siyahamba, kwaye sidibane - Andrei Gubin, umculi oPhezulu ngelo xesha.
-Ukukhula kunye nawe ...
-Ayenzi nje, kufanelekile ukugona. Buza: "Kulungile, uphinde, lunjani ukhenketho lwakho?" Emva koko uArte wathi ngaphambi kokuba athabathe ukrokrela, emva koko kwasekwa ipuzzle. Kodwa ngelo xesha wayendazile ndim njengomntu. Ngapha koko, wayengenazicwangciso ezingenakufikelela kude kwiakhawunti yam. Ndisele nditsalele entlokweni yam ...
- Umtshato?
- Nguwuphi umtshato! Ndacinga ukuba abantwana bethu baya kuhamba besiza? . Kwangelo xesha, i-ACEM ikwanesithukuthezi esihle kakhulu esisoyisa.
- kwaye akukho nto inokulumkisa, ityhilwe?
-Ngaba. Ngapha koko, sahluke kakhulu. I-Artem - Njengomkhenkce, kwaye ndinjengedangatye. Ngaba uyazi, zikho ii-ltans ezikhethekileyo ezivela kuzo? Nantsi indoda nje yomnini nje yeendlela ezinjalo, ezinokuphelisa amandla am. Ndikhululekile kakhulu kwaye, ukuba andikhange ndidibane naye, ndiyacinga ukuba ngekhe ndicelwe umngeni emhlabeni, bendizijonga.
-Kwaba ngumfazi ongumzekelo nonina wabantwana abathathu. Nangona uninzi lobuntu obunobuchule bukhoboka bokuba ubomi buyinto entle! ..
- Hayi, andivumi. Kwaye uninzi lwabantu bokudala banobuchule bokwenyani balungele ikhaya. Enye into, abadalelwanga ukuba benze kuphela ngayo. Umzekelo, uYulia vysockkaya othandekayo ngam: Ukungapheki akunjalo ngobomi bakhe, kodwa ozonwabisayo. Une-blockbuster ekhitshini! Ndikhetha nothando kunye nokuphefumlelwa ukuba ndisondele kwimisebenzi yasekhaya. Ndinesithukuthezi ukukwenza kanye. Kodwa ukuba bendingenamsebenzi owuthandayo, ndingaziva ndingonwabanga.
Emva kokuzalwa komntwana wokuqala, ndacinga ukuba andisoze ndiwuthathe isigqibo ngayo. Kodwa imbonakalo yeentombi zandiphilisa kuloyiko "
Ifoto: Georgy Carsava
-Uyifuna intsapho enkulu?
Ewe, ekubeni ebuntwaneni bendimelwe umfanekiso wosapho olufanelekileyo ukuze ndihlanganisene kunye, cwangcisa iiholide. Mhlawumbi ngenxa yokuba bendingenalo ntsapho. Umama waqhawula umtshato uYise kwangethuba naye kwasekutata wakhe - ndandikunye nonyaka onesiqingatha, kwaye umninawa wam wabonakala ekukhanyeni. Akazange anesabelo ukuba kutheni yenzekile. Nditsho nje ukuba sisigqibo esifanelekileyo. Ndabandakanyeka kwisangqa esahlukileyo, umama wayesoloko esisa ingqalelo kumntakwabo, kwaye andizange ndive intonga yokusweleka kukatata. Ukwazi ukuba ukhula kwintsapho engaphelelanga kuza, ikhowudi oyingena eluntwini. Nje ukuba isikolo siqale ukubuza: "Ngubani kwinkxaso-mali yethu, ngubani onokutshahamba ngokukhululekileyo?" Uyaqonda ukuba kukho into engalunganga. Kodwa kwakufika isityhilelo sokwenyani xa mna ngokwam saba ngumama, uLavr wazalwa, ndaye ndayiqonda into eyafunyanwa bubuntwana.
- Nasiphi na i-psychologist iya kuthi ithi umnqweno oshushu wokudibana nothando lokwenene lobomi, luvela kwasebuntwaneni.
- Ewe, yi-100%. Kodwa ndandifuna ukuba ngumculi. Kodwa ngelo xesha kwakubonakala kulula kunokufikisa nalo mfo wamaphupha akhe. (Ihleka.) Kubalulekile ukuba ungadideki uthando ngenkanuko eya kuphinda inyamalale ngokukhawuleza. Ngokuba umntu othanda kakhulu uya kuba lowonakaliswa, akaphumeleli, agule. Uthando lunceda ukoyisa yonke into. Ifezekile ukuba, emva kweminyaka, kunokwenzeka ukuba igcine okungenani iipesenti ezimbalwa zezo mvakalelo onazo kumgqatswa kunye nexesha elithenjiweyo. Kwaye kuloo mizuzwana, xa ungoneliseki omnye komnye, xabana, khumbula into obuyiyo xa babedibana nje.
- Apha uyimfihlo yomtshato owonwabisayo!
Ewe, ndizama ukuphuhlisa obu buchule. Ayisoloko inokwenzeka. Umntu wase-Aryom ono-Ardem we-Ardeen kunye, kwaye ngamnye kuthi unemozulu embi, kunye neengxaki emsebenzini, ezinye iimbambano zangaphakathi. Kodwa ndamiliselwa ukuze ndisindise iManyano yethu. Ngaphandle kwento yokuba ngamanye amaxesha ndeva kwabanye: Kutheni sinyamezele? Oku kuyanda! Kulula kakhulu ukwaphula ubudlelwane, ukuqala abanye kwiphepha elicocekileyo kunokulungisa into osele unayo. Ubomi bosapho bufana nendawo yeMbali yeSixeko, ekufuneka isindiswe.
-U-Artam unceda kwimicimbi yekhaya, nabantwana?
- Ewe. UArder undinceda ngeendlela ezininzi, mhlawumbi, ndiyakhukhula. Umzekelo, xa sasilahlela, saqonda ukuba ngesizathu esithile ukuhanjiswa kwakuqhubeka ngenxa yesizathu esithile. Kutheni ungazami ukubhaka isonka? Kwaye sele sikhuphisana, ngubani na ongcono afumane i-chiabatta. Ngapha koko, ngexesha lokuhlala, thina sobabini sasifudukela emsebenzini kwi-intanethi. Intlanganiso yeArtem, uthethathethwano ukuba akukho mntu ucimileyo, kwaye kuyimfuneko kubantwana kwingxolo. Kodwa nakwiimeko, wandinceda kakhulu. Ke ngoku ndifuna ukuthi: "Uxolo ngokuba ndikugxekile. Bendingalunganga. Nyhani kakhulu. "
-Bantwana abathathu- sisisombululo sakho esiqhelekileyo?
- Emva kokuzalwa komntwana wokuqala, bendicinga ukuba andisokuze ndiwuthathe isigqibo ngayo. Ndandinomntwana onzima, ongathandekiyo ngokweemvakalelo. Basindisa umntwana, bandisindisa. Emva koko, ndaba yi-AEROBB, iminyaka emithathu engakwazi ukuya kwindiza. Kubonakala ngathi kum ukuba kwenzeke into embi eyenzekayo. Ndinecandelo le-suesarean elingaphembeleli, ndafumana ukothuka kakubi. Kwaye ngaphambi koko, yalungiswa ukuzala ekhaya, ngokwemvelo. Ndabonwa okona kulungileyo ngelo xesha iziko eMoscow. Ukulungiselela ukuzala umntwana, kwafunda ukuphefumla ngokuchanekileyo, wenza umthambo kubafazi abakhulelweyo. Kwaye i-Artem yayihamba nam kwizifundo. Umbelekweni wam, endiye ndaphumelela ukukhulelwa, bendifanele ukuza kum ekhaya ndicela ndincedise kumzuzwana obalulekileyo. Siphoswe lixesha, kwaye ndifike emva kwexesha esibhedlele. Kwaye inyani yokuba umbumbi wam wayehamba kunye nesigqibo esingalunganga. Kufana nembethe ezimbini kwikhitshi elinye. Kukho ugqirha ofumene imfundo yezonyango, unoxanduva lwakho, kwaye ukho omnye umntu obona indlela yakhe kwaye ehlebeza endlebeni: akuyimfuneko. Imeko yayingaphezulu. Andiwukhumbuli kakubi ukuzalwa komntwana wam, ndaphelelwa yinkungu, ngenkungu ivile: gcina umntwana ... ndenze icandelo le-Cesareya, emva koko ndabuyiselwa emzimbeni nasekuziphatheni. Emva kwayo yonke loo nto, ndaya kwizifundo, ndayifunda yonke inkqubo kwaye ndiyazi ukuba kubaluleke kangakanani ukuzala. Ngenxa yoko, eyona nto ibaluleke kakhulu andiyenzanga. Ngoku amantombazana amaninzi eendaba abelana ngamava abo, aqwalaselwa kwiZiko elinye, yonke into ihambe kakuhle. Mhlawumbi andizange ndinethamsanqa. Kodwa, ngokoluvo lwam, ishishini elinoxanduva lokuba usathembisa iingcali, ogqirha abakwaziyo ukwenza izinto ezingaqhelekanga.
-Usenza isigqibo malunga nomntwana wesibini?
- Okokuqala bendisoyikisa ukucinga ngayo. I-lavrik ibethwa. Ndacinga: "Mnye umntwana - kwaye ulungile." Kwaye emva koko waqala ukucela umzalwana okanye udade. Kwaye ngalo mzuzu bendimkhulu bonke emsebenzini! Ndikhumbula ndivela kwi "Wave entsha", apho wayekhokela khona, ohlawulelwayo, onwabile. Kwaye ke uNyana uthi: "Mama, ndivuselele: kukho ukutya okunje, kufuneka utye i-oysters ngoSeptemba nasekuseleni iwayini emhlophe. Kwaye ke umntwana uya kuvela kusapho. " Ndaye ndabona ukuba wayebaluleke kakhulu. Unyana uye esikolweni, kwaye ke kuya kubakho umahluko omkhulu phakathi kwabantwana. Ke siya kushenxiswa nge-Artem kwi-moscow enye yokutyela kukho ii-oysters-kwaye ukutya kusebenza. (Ukuhleka.) Oku kwakuzaliswa ngokupheleleyo, ezinye iimvakalelo. Ukuzalwa kwentombi yandiphilisa kuloyiko nakumava. Ekugqibeleni ndiye ndongeze amandla obufane kusapho lwethu. Kwaye ngeli xesha linamandla! Kuya kubonakala ngathi intombazana encinci enjalo, kwaye ngenkangeleko yakhe yafudumala, epholileyo. Kwaye xa emva kwexesha nje elifutshane ndiye ndafunda ukuba ndisalinde umntwana wesithathu, ndothuka ndayothusa. Kodwa okokuqala ndakhangela: Xa "amaza amatsha" alandelayo, ndiya kuba nexesha lokuza. (Uhleka.)
- Lo mnyhadala ubaluleke kangaka kuwe?
- "I-jave entsha" ibisoloko iphupha kum. Omnye xa ndandiqala ukusebenza kwi-muz-tv, ndilandele kwaye ndenze umsebenzi ngaphakathi komnyhadala: yayiyi-disco ekhuphileyo okanye ethe qelele. Kubonakala ngathi imbali entle kakhulu: Iipines, uJurmala, iiNgoma, kukho amagumbi aphezulu kakhulu kwaye ahlala enamagumbi aqhubayo kwaye enxibe kakuhle. Nje ukuba ndeza emthini, ndiphefumla ivumba legxolo kunye nengqondo ebuzwa ngengqondo: "Makhe ndise kwinqanaba!" Kwaye emva konyaka ndafumana "amaza amatsha" njengokukhokela, ungatsho, ndathabatha iphupha ezandleni zam.
-Kulo nyaka, ngenxa yendawo yokuhlala, wonke umntu warhoxiswa?
- Amaza abantu abadala "abakholelwa, kodwa bekukho abantwana. I-Igor yakovvich krutoy ngaphandle kwelinge ngaphandle kwegama, upholile ngokwenene. Kum - i-superhero kufuneka idala elungileyo. Ubhubhane wachukumisa wonke umntu, kwaye wabetha umasifundisane wobugcisa. Okwalo mzuzu, kwaye thina, kunye nabaphulaphuli bangenazo iimvakalelo ezintle. Eyona nto iphambili ye-igor yakovvich kukuba "amaza amatsha" avunyelwe ukuba aqhutywa-kunjalo, ngokuhambelana nayo yonke imigaqo. Kwakukho umsebenzi omninzi kakhulu ukuthatyathwa ukuzisa abantwana abathatha inxaxheba, kodwa kwakunjenge-sip yenkululeko. Uvuyo olukhulu luzise le holide!
"Kubonakala ngathi ndilibali elihle kakhulu: Iipines, uJurmala, iiNgoma. Ngenye imini ndaya emthini, ndaphefumlela ivumba le-cortex:"
Ifoto: Georgy Carsava
- Ezinye iifomathi zomsebenzi omtsha ngexesha lokuvulwa kwe-quarrantine? Amagcisa amaninzi abe ziibhlog.
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- Kwaye uNyana sele etsho amabinzana athi: "Mama, usentlokweni yakho!"?
-Ngaba. Ndithetha naye. ULavra weshumi elinantathu, kwaye ungumfana ophathekayo. Nxiba emntwini omdala. Ngelixa abantwana abafunda nabo behleli kwiinethiwekhi zentlalo, uyafunda, ukubandakanyeka kwi-chess, aphikisana nezihloko zezopolitiko. Ndifuna ukuba bomelele, ndipholile. Kwaye ufuna ukuba ngutata wam, mhlawumbi ophikisayo ngam, kungenjalo ngeminyaka. Ndiyakrokrela ukuba kunzima, kodwa ngenye indlela, iya kuba neMelissa. Ngoku intombi yam iminyaka emine ubudala, yabuya yaphela. Uyakhawuleza kwaye undikholele, kwaye kuyamangalisa xa ubona "isibuko sakho". Umntu ongumthombo, uyilo olukhulu kwaye emnandi, u-choreography, i-choreography, i-choreography, i-Dedoography, Izakhono zokuSebenza - Yonke into iphuma! Ndisandul 'ndaza ndazazisa kwi-Morseev ekhwaza, imidaniso yabantu behlabathi. Wabona "uMdaniso we-Cossack", ngoku ubuza uSabli. Ukuyila ekhaya ubuchule babantwana kubonakaliso lomsebenzi wam, kuba xa ezikolweni okanye iimgs zinika imisebenzi, siya kuzaliseka. Susa iyelenqe malunga ne-gnomes ayisiyongxaki! Cwangcisa ukusebenza-nceda. Sineempawu ezithile ezinempahla yabantwana. Ukuba sifunda imibongo, sizifunda ngentetho, ngathi kwinqanaba.
- Nantsi impilo-moya, njengomculi ongaphumi kwi-diaratine.
- Ewe, umzobi akanakuphumla, ungalibali ukuba lo msebenzi unomsebenzi kwaye uwe, kwaye uyimfuneko yokwabelana ngokuthathayo umgama. Xa kunqunyulwa ikhethiwe, kukukhumbuza ukuba lo msebenzi awuthethi ilungelo lovuyo olulinganayo. Sukuwela ekudaleni, ungalahli ntliziyo, linda ngentsimbi yakho. Eyona nto ibaluleke kakhulu kuluvo lwam kukufezekisa intlonipho ngoogxa bakhe ukuba bathathwe njengengcali. Vumela ngalo mzuzu awukhokeli umboniso we-strong, kodwa uyakhumbula ngawe, ungu-afloat-kwaye ngokuqinisekileyo ndiya kwenzeke ngokuqinisekileyo.