Ubufazi benza amanyathelo amaninzi abalulekileyo kwi-epriptortion yabasetyhini. Ngenxa yethagethi yaseMelika, ngoku sinokufumana imfundo kwimfundo elinganayo, ukuba nenxaxheba kubomi bezopolitiko kaRhulumente kunye nomsebenzi kwizikhundla ezifanayo zamadoda. Nangona kunjalo, kunye nemali kunye nenye inkululeko, asinakukwazi ukususa izityalo zembali malunga "nelungelo" lomfazi kunye nendawo oya kuyo. Kunjani, ukuba amantombazana ukhe aqonde ukuba banokuthatha iimpawu, ukunganikezeli nantoni na ngembuyekezo. Kwaye ngenene babelinde nantoni na kubo. I-Gerhit imele, ngaphandle komgangatho, abantu babenobubele kwaye banikela ingqalelo omnye komnye, kodwa masithethe ngamanenekazi kwezi zinto. Nalu uluhlu lweengcebiso eziza kukususa kuwe ukusuka kwizinto ezikhoyo malunga nezipho:
Qaphela ufakelo
Khumbula ukuba leliphi isiko lalikho kusapho lwakho. Daril utata katata kaMama? Oko kwathethwa ngumama malunga nendlela yokuthatha izipho? Ngaba ukho umntu okhankanyiweyo luhlobo luni lwesipho ekufuneka uhlawule? Onke amabinzana abazali aqondwa ngathi njengeenyaniso njengenyani kwaye azimisele kwinqanaba eliphantsi. Xa uhlalutyekile nganye nganye, kuya kuba lula ukuqonda ukuba uza kusebenza naye. Kuya kuba lula ukuguqukela kwi-psychologist okanye icele ingcebiso kumntu osondeleyo ngaphandle kosapho lwakho-umhlobo okanye umntu okanye umntu ozokuchaza ixabiso lakho kwaye ancede ekuzithembeni.
Zithande, kwaye abanye baya kukuthanda
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Qala ngokwakho
Xa wena uthenga izinto ezithandekayo, njenge-smartphone entsha okanye i-sppimery ekhethiweyo, ekuhambeni kwexesha, qala ukuqaphela okunjalo njengento eqhelekileyo. Kwaye ukuba uthatha into ngaphandle kwemfuyo, akuyi kubakho mibuzo malunga neendleko, kuba ungayifumana. Qala ngesincinci: yiya kwi-stylist kwaye utshintsha i-Wortlist kwaye utshintsha i-Wordrobe, hlawula ubhaliso kwindawo yokuzivocavoca, endaweni yokupheka amaxesha ngamaxesha ukuya kwivenkile yokutyela. Ukuzikhathalela kunciphisa ukuzithemba, okuhlala kubonakala kwabanye abantu. Kuyakhuthaza amadoda kwindawo ongqongileyo ukubonisa imiqondiso kwaye, ngokufanelekileyo, anike izipho zokukholisa.
I-Outd kwimbono yomnye umntu de uqinise
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Ukunciphisa impembelelo yomnye umntu
Ukungcwaba inkqubo ye-shaky entlokweni yakhe, kubalulekile ukuba ungaphulukani nokukhuthaza ukuphucula kwaye ungabuyisi kwisikhundla esimiselweyo. Okwethutyana, ngelixa usesichengeni kwimbono yomnye umntu, hamba ujikeleze iincoko ngesihloko semiqondiso kunye nezipho zeendleko ezahlukeneyo. Ukwenza oku, ungathethi ngento oyiboniswayo, kunye nabo ubathandayo, musani ukuxubusha iminqweno yakho kwaye ungakhankanyi ubuchule bezezimali. Emva kwexesha, xa usenza uluvo lwakho kwaye ungayibonanga ezinye iindawo zabantu, unokuthetha ngaphandle kwezithintelo.
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