Akuzange kube kudala, ndeva iphupha elivela kumfazi olungiselela isikhumbuzo sayo seminyaka engama-60. Umgca ngamnye wobudala awuyonto nje yepasipoti, kodwa nengqondo yengqondo. I-Eric Ecrion ibalaselisiwe iminyaka engama-8 ubudala, kwaye ingxaki yeminyaka eqolileyo yawela kolu luhlu. Kodwa asiyi kuqhubeka, ukulala kuqala.
"UMFAZI wam wafumana igumbi endlwini equka izakhiwo ezimbalwa: enye, zibini, zintathu. Ngokubanzi, ezi zakhiwo zahlulwe zaza zayintsha, zilungiswa, zanamhlanje zanamhlanje, kodwa zaxabisa kwaye zihlala. Akukho mntu uhlala kwiNtsha. Ndijonge kuqala kwizakhiwo ezitsha, emva koko ndaya kukhangela indlu yam entsha kwisakhiwo esidala. Kwakufuneka ndiqhubeke kwizitepsi. Akunakwenzeka ukuba ndihambe apho, kodwa ndadibana nabanye abantu ephupheni kunam abadala kunam, kwaye bayahamba ngaphaya kwala manyathelo. Kwelinye ibhinqa, ndacela ukuba bahambe njani apha, kodwa ngobugwenxa baphendula ukuba ndingaphumelela, kodwa ndisoyika kuphela. Emva koko ndayifumana indlu yam ndabona indawo enkulu engenanto. Kufuneka ibekwe ubungakanani kwaye ihlawulwe-kodwa ngoku kuphela ziindonga zekhonkrithi zendlu yam entsha. Okomzuzwana, izandla zawa malunga nokuba ngumsebenzi omninzi. Kodwa ndiyakwazi ukuphatha ".
Ukulala kubonakala. Kwindlu entsha kunye nendlu entsha, funda umzimba wefashoni kunye nomzimba omtsha, ubudala, iphupha lethu alinakuphila. Iqela lakhe lokuzibandakanya sele lihlala kwindala elindala, kodwa isakhiwo sokuhlala. Kuyimfuneko ukuba uhambe neendlela zomoya, nokuba ayinakwenzeka, ingabonakala ngathi ngabantu nangaphezulu baya kujamelana ngokulula. Mhlawumbi amaphupha ethu ayenemkhethe yokukhetha malunga nento eyayikhule, ubudala, kodwa enyanisweni ilula kubahlobo bakhe abaqhelekileyo ngayo. Kwaye emva koko, ufika kwindlu yakhe entsha engafakwanga, oko kukuthi, isazisi sakhe esitsha ngumfazi osisilumko noqolileyo, kodwa akasazi ngaphakathi ngaphakathi, uyiyo.
U-Eric Ericson wabhala malunga neli xesha njengegolide. Ukuba umntu uphila kweli xesha, kukho ungquzulwano lokuzithabatha nabo bonke imiqobo yakhe, kodwa kwangaxeshanye namava amakhulu obomi. Ihlala yenzeka kangangokuba lo ngumgangatho wokuthatha umhlala phantsi, kwaye ke imeko yobomi bentlalo. Uninzi lujongela phantsi, lahluthwa ngokukhawuleza impilo, njengoko bengaqhelanga ukuba bazivele ngokwabo, kwaye abantu baphila ngaphambili, baphulukana nentsingiselo. Kweli xesha, ixesha lokuqala luhlaziya amaxabiso alo, izixhobo, ukuthembeka kobudlelwane, ukuzikhathalela kunye nezinto azonwabisa ngazo. Kweli xesha, umntu unokuyithatha into yokuba iqolile ngakumbi, inamava kwaye ilumkile kunasebutsheni bakhe, kodwa iya kuvuma ukuba amandla namandla aphantsi kakhulu. Kwaye kwangaxeshanye, iminyaka ayisiyo isithintelo ekuphunyezweni kwamaphupha abo, izicwangciso kunye neenjongo. Uninzi luthunyelwa ukuba luhambe, abanye bazinikezela kwizintolo zabo okanye izinto zokuzonwabisa, owesithathu banobutsha bomsebenzi, ababengazange bacinge ukuba. Imizuzu enabathandekayo inokubaluleka ngakumbi, ngakumbi nangaphandle kwezizathu ezininzi, njengabantu abasemdala lixabisa ixesha labo njengesipho, njengamaxesha obomi obumnandi. Kukuqola, ukucinga ngokuqhelanisa namava obomi amagumbi amandulo kubanika ithuba lokunandipha ixesha langoku, babelana ngobulumko kunye namava abo.
Kodwa kukho abo bangamkeliyo imiqobo yabo, okanye, ngokuchaseneyo, bakhupha kabukhali. Kuzo zonke iipores, bakhawuleza badlula ixesha elikhethekileyo lokuphila, xa umzimba wabo usakuvumela ukuba uphile ubomi obusebenzayo, ngelixa ungazigcini kwaye ungangxami naphi na. Andifuni nokuvuma kwaye ndingakhange ndisebenzise iziqhamo zokukhula kwakho, bazifumanele kabukhali, bakrokrela iminqweno engalunganga, ethintele yonke iminqweno, impumelelo kunye nokoyiswa kwamathuba alahlekileyo noloyiso. Ubomi ngokubanzi bungcelele lweempazamo. Ukwaluphala ngaphandle kobulumko, isimo sengqondo sokuhlekisa, sothando, silixesha lamabakala aphezulu kunye nokubandezeleka.
Iphupha lethu kufuneka likwazi ukukholosa ngexesha lobomi obutsha kwaye siyivule kangangethuba lokuba obu bomi lixesha. Kukho ithuba lokwamkela ngokwakho kunye nenkululeko yakho, kunye nezithintelo, kunye namava kuyo yonke iyantlukwano, kunye nobudlelwane kuyo yonke ivolumu yabo. Ixesha legolide apho kufuneka uzelwe, yenza eyakho "indlu", oko kukuthi, ukuhlalisa kweli xesha hayi kuphela ngokwengyokholeza.
Sinqwenela ithamsanqa lakhe, umonde kwaye wonwabele ilungelo elibekiweyo!
Ndiyazibuza ukuba uphupha ntoni? Imizekelo yamaphupha akho ethunyelwa ngeposi: [email protected]. Ngendlela, amaphupha kulula kakhulu ukuveza ukuba kwileta eya kumhleli uya kubhala iimeko ezingaphambili zobomi, kodwa okona kubaluleke kakhulu - iimvakalelo kunye neengcinga zelixesha lokuvuka kweli phupha.
UMaria Dyachkova, ugqirha wezengqondo, ugqirha wosapho kunye noqeqesho olukhokelayo kwiZiko loQeqsho loQhulelo loQeqesho lweMarika Khazin