Xa singena kulwalamano lomtshato, sinethemba lokuba iqabane liza kuhlala linyanisekile kuthi, liyeke ukungcungcutheka ecaleni. Kodwa kuyenzeka, ngelishwa, akuhlali njalo. Ngamanye amaxesha kwenzeka, kwaye ngamanye amaxesha "ecaleni" kobudlelwane obuzinzileyo buvela kwaye, enyanisweni, kwiintsapho yesibini. Abafazi abaninzi batshutshiswa ngumbuzo wokuba indoda iyinyani. Ngapha koko, ukungaziwa kuhlala kubi kakhulu iindaba ezimbi kakhulu. Kodwa njani ukufumanisa ukuba indoda iyatshintsha okanye akunjalo? Ukuba awunabo ubungqina bepesenti ezilikhulu, ke eyona ndlela kuphela yokufuna uncedo kumcuphi wabucala. Nangona kunjalo, imali yeenkonzo zengcali ayisiyiyo yonke, kwaye umntu akafuni kuthwala uqhekezwe kwindlu yezindlu. Ke ngoko, unokuzama ukumisela ukuthembeka okanye ukungathembeki kweqabane ngokwakho.
I-Evgeny Nikolaev
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Okokuqala, nikela ingqalelo kuqhagamshelo lwefowuni kunye neenethiwekhi zentlalo "." Siphila kuluntu, kwaye sinxibelelana ngezixhobo zeselfowuni kwaye i-Intanethi idlala ngendima ebaluleke kakhulu kuthi. Owokuqala "ukufowuna", nto leyo amele ukuba alumkele, kule meko iya kuba: Ukubonakala kwefowuni yesibini ephathekayo evela kumyeni wakhe, engazibhengeziyo; Umnqweno wokuthetha ngefowuni kuphela, ngaphandle "iindlebe" ezingeyomfuneko "; Ukubonakala kwamaphepha ayixoki kwinethiwekhi zentlalo; Ukuphuma ngokusisigxina kwiphepha layo kwinethiwekhi yoluntu, nokuba indoda ishiya igumbi.
Ngamanye amaxesha kunokubakho kuhlalutyo lwenethiwekhi yentlalo-"uthanda" phantsi kweefoto, ukuvela kwabantu abatsha kubahlobo. Kufanelekile ukuba unikele ingqalelo kwiinombolo zefowuni ezintsha ezinokufihla ngokukodwa njengoko iisayini ezifana "okanye" Kolya Autoservice "okanye" iKoya "- zikholelwe ukuba uninzi lwabantu alunangxaki nakuloo lungelelo.
Okwesibini, ukutshintsha komntu ukutshintsha indlela aziphethe ngayo, imikhwa. Umzekelo, ukuba iqabane lakho lalinomkhwa ngeMigqibelo ukuhamba nabahlobo ukuba basele ibhiya kwi-bar, kwaye ngoku ibuyisa ngokucacileyo ngaphandle kweempawu zokusela utywala, kodwa zihlala ngeMigqibelo. Kunokubakho izinto ezinokubakho, umzekelo, ukuba umyeni uqalisa ukufunda isitayile esitsha somculo okanye sifundele uncwadi, oko akufaneki ngaphandle kokuzonwabisa kwi I-Musical okanye iiNtetho zoLwazi i-Pallia entsha.
Ukuba umfazi uyamthanda kwaye uyayazi indoda yakhe, uyayiqonda, iya kuva utshintsho kuyo
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Okwesithathu, okuninzi kunokuthetha utshintsho kwimikhwa yasekhaya. Umzekelo, ukuba umyeni akazange anikele ingqalelo kakhulu imbonakalo, emva koko athethe ngemfuno yokuseta ubunzima, waqala ukudlala imidlalo, hlamba ngaphambi kokuba uyeke ngaphandle kwaye wonwabele i-cologne kunye nemimoya. Kucacile ukuba phakathi kwenoveli, wonke umntu ufuna ukwenza eyona nto imnandi.
Ukwehla okungalindelekanga kutsala umdla wesini kuya kuba ngumqondiso wesondo, ngakumbi ukuba umyeni uhlala wahlulahlulwa ngumsindo ophezulu, kwaye kutsha nje awuzange usebenzise utywala, oko kukuthi, kwakungekho zamvo zangaphandle zenqaba e-Lifaze.
Nangona kunjalo, ukuba umntu obhinqileyo uyamthanda kwaye uyayazi indoda yakhe, yena, enomdla, uya kuziva iinguqu kuyo kwaye uyakuqonda ukuba akuyongxaki, okungenani nomdla omnye komnye umfazi. Ukuba ubungqina obubhaliweyo obuyo kuya kufuneka, ke unokubukela umyeni wam, uthi, Zama ukumlandela, tsalela abahlobo kunye nohlobo oluthile lwentengo, njalo njalo. Kodwa eyona ndlela ithembekileyo yokufunda ngenkani yomyeni wakhe, kunjalo, isibongozo sokucela uncedo kumcuphi wabucala.