Ngaba yinyani ukuba umfazi emva kwesondo - inkathazo endleleni? Ngaba uninzi lwabafazi boyika ngokwenene kwaye abafuni kuqhuba imoto? Emva kwayo yonke loo nto, yinto ebaluleke kakhulu.
Ngapha koko, kukho imeko eyahlukileyo ezindleleni, kodwa xa kuphakanyiswa umbuzo malunga nokufumana abakhweli, yonke into ikhunjulwa yi-stereotype-ibhinqa ngasemva kwesondo ayisiyondawo. Isiqingatha sobuntu esigqwesileyo sithiwe yindlela yokuziphatha engafaneleki emva kwesondo, ukunqongophala kwezakhono zokuqhuba kakhulu, ukungakhathali ngokupheleleyo, ukuthentelwa kwamalungelo kunye nezinye iintsomi kunye nezinye iintsomi. Masizame ukufumanisa ukuba injani.
Abafazi bakhetha iimoto ezincinci
Ayiyonyani. Konke kuxhomekeke kumfazi ngokwawo. Umntu othile ukhetha inqaba, umntu omncinci, kunye nomntu othanda umdyarho. Kodwa kubafazi abaninzi babaluleke ngakumbi kunokuba umsebenzi wemoto kunye nokhuseleko lwayo.
Abafazi abakwazi ukhathalela kwaye bagcine imoto
Kukho abasetyhini abasebenzisa kakuhle ngemoto yabo, kodwa bancinci kakhulu. Ubukhulu becala le ntombazana ilumkile ngakumbi kwaye inesidima kunamadoda. Baza kuhlamba imoto rhoqo, balandela imeko yalo, njl njl. Nokuba ukuqhawula oko kuya kuba yinto engabalulekanga, umfazi uhlengahlengise kwaye wathumela imoto kuloo nto.
Imoto ebizayo-yanika
Xa indoda okanye ngamanye amaxesha, umfazi ubona intombazana eselula iqhuba imoto ebizayo, umzekelo, i-porshia, emva koko iingcinga ke ziya kwandula ukuba nengqondo yakhe ngokucacileyo ayisongqondo. Kukungekho namnye umntu ovela entlokweni kangangokuba intombazana ingayithenga ngokwenene imoto enjalo. Umhlaba ukutshintsha ngokukhawuleza, namhlanje amanenekazi amaninzi anezikhundla eziphezulu kwishishini, ke bona ngokwabo banokuthatha isigqibo sokuba bathenge benze ntoni ngeemoto.
Isipili siphazamisa abasetyhini, ngexesha lokuhamba baba ngumgubo kwaye uphononongo
Sisoloko sisebenza kwenye indawo, ke ngamanye amaxesha asinalo ixesha lokufaka isicelo senza isicelo, kodwa abafazi bafumana indlela yokuphuma kule meko. Ewe, ngokwenene, uninzi lwethu ngumgubo kwaye uqwengiwe usebenzisa isibuko esingasemva sokujonga oku. Kodwa ngotshintsho olunye: Sikwenza kuphela xa simi kwi-jam yetrafikhi, kwaye hayi ngexesha lokuhamba (asiqwalaseli iimeko ezigqithisileyo kulo mzekelo).
Abafazi baqhuba rhoqo
Akukho nkcukacha-manani anokwenza intsomi. Kodwa ngo-2010, amapolisa aseBritane aqhuba ulingo: Kwicandelo elincinci lendlela abafaka iikhamera, kwaye kwavela ukuba abaqhubi abayi-14 kwabo baqhuba baphazamisekile endleleni. Bonke babe ngabantu bonke. Kukho esinye isifundo esincinci - isiseko sendlela ekhuselekileyo yaseMelika. Ngokwedatha yabo, abafazi bahlala bephazanyiswa yifowuni, kodwa amadoda ancokola nabakhweli.
Abafazi abazi ukuba upaka njani
Iipaki ze-Bhritane zeBritane zeZizwe zaqhuba isifundo ngexesha apho amadoda aphelile kwi-16 imizuzwana, abafazi - imizuzwana engama-21. Kwangelo xesha, iipesenti ezingama-77 zabasetyhini zapakiswa, ngaphandle kokophula imithetho kwaye bengaphazamisi nabanye abaqhubi bezithuthi. Kumadoda, eli tye lifike kwi-53%. Ke kule meko, uyabona, unokuphikisana okupakishwe ngcono.
Abasetyhini bagxile kakhulu kwisondo ngenxa ye-protinism ye-topoticism
Kumadoda nabafazi, ingqondo isebenza ngeendlela ezahlukeneyo. Amadoda ajonge phambili kwisithuba, kwaye abafazi bakukhumbula imifanekiso ethile ethile. Abasetyhini kube lula ukuhambela phambili uhlobo oluthile lwezinto, iikofi, imibala, njl. Kodwa ngokubanzi, emhlabeni, sijonga ngokulinganayo.
Abasetyhini bakhupha kancinci
Ewe, kwiimeko ezininzi, amantombazana ayahamba kancinci, kodwa avela ngokungafihlisi okanye ukuchaneka okungaphezulu. Nangona kunjalo, ungalibali ukuba uninzi lwethu luye emva kwesondo emva kwamadoda.
Uninzi lwabasetyhini luyoyika okanye abafuni kuqhuba imoto
Kodwa oku kuyinyani. Kwaye kule ngcaciso, hayi enye. Okokuqala, uninzi lwamantombazana aqhele ukuthatha iteksi, ngomqhubi okanye kwisiqingatha sesibini. Okwesibini, ihlala yoyika abafazi ukuba bahambe ngasemva kwevili lendoda - ngenxa nje ye-stereotypes kunye neentsomi ezibekwa luluntu. Okwesithathu, kukho ingxaki yezemali esemhlabeni - isenawo amantombazana angakumbi afumana imali engaphantsi kwabameli besiqingatha esiqinileyo soluntu. Ke, kule meko, indima yokunqongophala kwemali yokuthenga idlala imoto elungileyo. Okwesine, siyi-panty nje-ngamanye amaxesha sisoyika iingozi ezinokubakho, iimeko zemozulu kunye nobumnyama.