Kutheni ivele ikhwele
Kukho abantu abanekhwele ngenxa yentembeko yokuba abalunganga ngokwaneleyo (intle, smart, etyebileyo) amaqabane abo, kwaye kuyo yonke umntu abakulungele ukubona umdlali welinye iqela. Kwangelo xesha, umntu oqaphele ukuba amanye amadoda ajonge intombi yakhe, anokuqiniseka ngokwakhe kwaye kwangaxeshanye aqhubeke nomona. Injalo indalo yakhe, uziva eyindoda kwaye akafuni ukwabelana ngezinto azijongayo. Ibhinqa elibonile kwinethiwekhi yoluntu njengokuphithizwa kunye nengcaciso ethambileyo phantsi kwefoto yendoda yakhe, ikholelwa ukuba olu luphawu olongezelelekileyo, kwaye kukulungele ukucwangcisa umntu owuthandayo. Kuzo zombini iimeko, sisebenzisana nentembelo yokuba umntu onobuhlobo ungowakho. Kukungcungcutheka. Nditsho nomyeni wakho okanye inkosikazi ayiyondawo yakho.
Vumela isiqingatha sakho
Ewe, yonke into kufuneka ibe yimida efanelekileyo, kungenjalo ungaya kude. Ukongeza, zibuze: Kutheni ufuna umntu onomdla kakhulu ukuchitha ixesha nabanye, nokuba yincoko ephilayo okanye kwi-Intanethi? Mhlawumbi ayinguye umntu wakho? Akumangalisi ke ngoko ukuba bathi, Musa ukuchitha ixesha abo bangafuniyo ukuyisebenzisa nani.
I-olga romiv
Funda ukuthembana
Zama ukuqeqesha i-psyche yakho. Akukho sidingo sokuqonda nayiphi na into enjengotshaba. Xolela ukwahlula indlela yokuziphatha kwendalo kwinethiwekhi yentlalo kwizenzo zezindululo, ezizingela ixhoba lomnye umntu. Sukungxamela, uthetha ngolwimi lwangoku, "ukunyamezela ubuchopho" kwintanda yakho, akanakukrokrela nantoni na malunga neenjongo zembangi yakho.
Yeka ukulahleka
Umntu onomona, eneneni ufuna ukuthandwa, nokuba ungamthandi. Umona utshabalalisa. Ukomelela onomona, ukoyike ngakumbi ukuphulukana neqabane. Uloyiko luqhelekile kuwe ukuba uyeke ukucinga ngemvakalelo. Kodwa yintoni kanye kanye oyiyoyika ukulahleka? Kutheni ixhomekeke kumntu omthandayo? Mhlawumbi kukungabikho kwenkxaso, ingqalelo, ukunconywa, ukuvunywa? Ngelishwa, abantu abaninzi badanisa uthando kunye nomkhwa. Mhlawumbi ityala alikho kwaphela linemvakalelo enzulu kwaye iqolileyo, kodwa kwi-themba lokuthandabuza ukushiya indawo yokuthuthuzela. Zama ukujonga ubudlelwane bakho obuvela kwicala: ngaba "ngaba ii-halves ezimbini zenye" okanye zimbini okanye zimbini kuphela ezazilungile kangangexesha elithile? Kwaye ukuba ngeli xesha liphelile, musa ukuyiqonda njengentlekele.
Ukukhupha uloyiko
Zama ukudlula kwengqondo ngekhefu lolwalamano, khawufaneke ukuba kwenzeke ntoni xa uqhamble. Okokuqala, iikamva zakho zinokwenzeka ukuba azingowona mnyama kakhulu, kodwa ke uya kuthi uzole kwaye unike indlela yokuqalisa ubudlelwane obutsha. Kwaye mhlawumbi baya kuba ngcono. Kwaye, malunga nommangaliso, unokufumana isicombululo! Ke, uloyiko lokuphulukana nomntu luhambe.