Ukusuka kubafundi beeleta i-jeeshit:
"Mholweni! Kwiinyanga ezintathu ezidlulileyo, ndahlukana nomntu owayeneminyaka emine ubudala. Ubudlelwane boyikeka. Wandijonga, safunga malunga noku nakwabanye. Emva kokuhluka, wazama ukubuyisela ubudlelwane, kodwa andivumi. Iintombindi zindixelela ukuba akandifanele mna. Ndiyavumelana nabo. Kodwa xa esenza enye enye inzame yokubuya yonke into ngasemva, iingcinga zinyuka entlokweni yayo, kwaye ngequbuliso, kwaye mhlawumbi uzame. Uzahlukanisa njani? Ndifuna ukubeka inqaku kubudlelwane kanye nangonaphakade. "
Molo!
Beka inqaku emva kokuba ubudlelwane obude abulula kakhulu. Ke ukuba kwenzeke ngokukhawuleza kwaye kudlule ngokungagungqiyo, zama ukwenza lo msebenzi ulandelayo.
Okokuqala, sele ubufumene amandla ukuze uphumelele ubudlelwane obuyingozi kuwe. Zama ukuqonda apho uthathe khona ukuba uthathwe kule mikhosi kunokuthambisa, oko bakuthintela. Mhlawumbi yayiyinkosikazi okanye isimo sakho sengqondo esihle, kwaye mhlawumbi uhlobo oluthile lwethemba kwikamva. Isixhobo esi sibonelelo. Kuya kukunceda uzive uqiniseke ngakumbi.
Emva koko, cinga ngento eyenzekayo kolu lwalamano, nto leyo imbi, into oyithandayo, kwaye yintoni. Yintoni ongathanda ukuba "uthathe" kunye nawe, kunye nento oza kuyishiya kwixesha elidlulileyo. I-Inokukhunjulwa malunga nexesha elichithwe, izakhono ozithengileyo kwinkqubo yonxibelelwano kunye nalo mntu (eyona nto ilula kakhulu kuyo), okanye umgangatho ozityhilele (umzekelo, ukukwazi ukukhetha amadoda ties;). Yonke le nto inokuza kwixesha elizayo. Ukubhekiswa malunga nokuba bakufundise ntoni obu ubudlelwane, ndithetha ukuba ubulumko bobomi obuzithengileyo.
Kwaye ekugqibeleni, inqanaba lokugqibela linokuba yileta ethandekayo yabakhethiweyo. Ileta engasokuze ifikelele ekufumanekeni kwayo, njengoko ayenzelwanga kuye. Bhala kuyo yonke into ocinga ngayo - kwaye ulungile, kwaye ubi. Eyona nto ibaluleke kakhulu - ngokupheliswa ngokuqinileyo kwaye sizithemba ngokuzithemba: "Kulungile".
MFUNO Othandekayo, uMary Byokutova ungathumela kwidilesi: [email protected].