Ngo-2015, ishishini le-Russian Showy Showy Lahwemba Iindaba IVan Ivan yaseRussia idityaniswe nentombazana eselula enomyeni wakhe. Nangona kunjalo, le ntsapho ayihlali ngaphezulu kweminyaka emithathu-ngo-2018 isibini esitshatileyo saqhawule umtshato.
Unobangela osemthethweni woqhawulo-mtshato ucacisiwe kukungavumi kwebhinqa eliselula ukuzala umntwana waseKrako, kodwa uNatalia wawuchasa loo nto xa umtshato bebengenamameko ngembonakalo yelinye ilungu losapho. Ngokwentombazana, emva koqhawulo-mtshato, umntu uziva ekhululekile kwinyathelo lakhe, kwaye kwangaxeshanye akamshiyi imvakalelo yakhe yokuba umlingisi wawuqhubela phambili Thanda umfazi wakhe wangaphambili.
Ubudlelwane apho elinye lamaqabane mdala kangakanani kuneso sibini, i-phenomenon ihlala ihlala. Siza kuzama ukuqonda ukuba zeziphi ezona zinto ziphambili zengxaki kwisibini.
Uya kuba nezinto ezahlukeneyo.
Kubalulekile ukuba uqonde ukuba abantu abavela kwizizukulwane ezahlukeneyo abafane bathande ukuba nomdla. Masithi ufuna ukuya kwi-disco, kwaye iqabane lakho aliyi kukwazi ukwenza inkampani, kuba loo msebenzi awusekho emzimbeni wayo. Ngenxa yesi sizathu esivela ngenxa yomona kunye nokungathembani kokungaphakathi kwakho kusenokwenzeka.
Abazali abayi kuyiqonda
Rhoqo, abazali bentombazana eselula abafuni ntombi yabo kwindoda elungele yena kootata. Kungafumanisa ukuba iqabane lakho liya kuba mdala kunabazali bakho, kwaye, ukunyaniseka, kuphela ngabantu abalumkileyo kakhulu banokuthatha le meko. Ngayiphi na imeko, ukuba uthatha isigqibo sokwakha ubudlelwane obuqinileyo kunye nalo mntu, yima ngokwakho kwaye uzame ukweyisela abazali ukuba wonwabile.
Iingxaki zempilo
Masithi uneminyaka engama-20, kwaye uthando lobomi bakho ngu-50. Lungiselela inyani yokuba kwiminyaka elishumi iqabane lakho liya kuqala "ukudlula" kwimpilo. Cinga ukuba ukulungele ukutyelelwa rhoqo kwiingcali ezahlukeneyo kunye neemvavanyo ezisisigxina? Kodwa le yinxalenye yobomi emva kokuqulunqa lomda weminyaka ethile. Zixabise zonke "ze" "kunye" ne "nxamnye".